Some people said their creative ideas and career coming from their daily life, their observation of life and their believe, which may be true. So some people become professionals, others are interested in social issues and they become activists. A girl said her friends in high school took different paths, she’s an activist, interested in climate change and social issues, but she is also a beach girl, and her beach bag including makeup and sunglasses. She said her best friend had a baby, she argued with her husband over little things and she was not happy. Some of her friends are still single, they didn’t want to be a breadwinner, housekeeper, so they just traveling, wondering around and don’t know what to do with their life. She said sometimes when everyone was sleeping, she sit in the kitchen, amazed by the new meals prepared by her partner, she would say those meals using the same ingredients yet they were so delicious, so the key was to find something that was uniquely their own, that was what it was about creativity. So she got the inspiration, found what she wanted to do, and became an activist. When she worked with a group of climate change activists she learned about why climate change becoming a big issue, why it was so bad, what if we continue burning fossil fuels and how the ocean absorbs most heat from the Earth’s atmosphere, so she worked even harder and said to others like, “We care about climate change and global warming.”

Many people talking about their adventures, they also talking about their rage, greedy company, and their vulnerability. A friend said she always found herself in a situation where she had to work very hard to please her boss because she felt sometimes her employer demanded so much and she had to commit to the job so much, even to die for getting the job done for a living. She said those were the hardest days she’d ever had in her life, it was the most scary, desperate moments she’d ever been in. When her friend asked if she was really in those desperate moments, she said like, “Yes, I thought I was going to die there.” She said after those days she suffered brain dysfunction, physical exhaustion, body inflammation, she was heart broken and terrified. She regretted she had insisted at the time that she could handle the pressure, finishing the project to prove her worth. When her friend joked if someone indeed dead because of overload of work, what she would say? She said for some greedy companies they may say it was okay, because people working very hard for making more money, and those people might die for just trying to get a better life, for a basic living! But it also showed greedy company’s cruelty, they treated employees like slaves, and were taking advantage of people’s vulnerability. When asked after had a near-death experience, what would she see life, she said she was thankful for still living her life but life is cruel.

When talking about feminism, people may feel it’s not related to them, but there is kind of link. A girl said she had learned a lot in her life because she was very womanly, feminine. When she was young she dated many people, but ending up not happy. Once she met a guy, she liked him, but he said he was still enjoying his single status after being with her for a while. When her friend said like, “What it means?” She said like, “It means he still wants some space for himself.” When her friend asked, “What do you think?” She was like, “I think...” But her friend said, “Your guy is lying.” She was shocked, said like, “Lying?” Her friend said, “He’s getting more than he’s giving.” So she left her guy. When she met a rich man, she was hoping he could be different from the men she had met and life could start to get better, but she was manipulated by him again, so she realized he just wanted sex with her, he had nothing future plan and he was proud of being a single again after divorce. When she met another man, she felt the same thing, so she said men just wanted to have sex with her, they just wanted to take advantage of her by saying she was beautiful, feminine and womanly. When she became a feminist she said to her friend that she was tired of men’s manipulation, lying, selfish, greedy, and using women as sex tool; she said those things were all fucking bullshit, so she wanted fighting men, to be herself, to have her own voice, and control her own destine.

People sometimes feel good, so they say what they think, they may brag, telling funny, bizarre stuff, no-reservations. A girl said as a single mother with several kids, her life was a constant fight, whether it was emotionally, physically and financially. She said she was living on a daily basis, always prepared for unexpected things to happen, sometimes she felt things were out of control, she was scared of how to deal with, so she cried, but they were not all bad, sometimes it could be a good thing. One day a guy said he liked her, so she was surprised. When he went to her office at lunch time, they had sex there, which let him brag about it. When he depicting their sexual scenes at her office, he said he really liked sex in her office because she had changed herself dramatically, she was crawling on the floor like an animal. When she heard about his bragging, she thought it was funny, didn’t think he had degraded her, instead, she said they were both authentic, so she had no any shame because they both felt desirable and they both felt they had enjoyed the best sex. When asked what he planed to do with her, he said he would marry her forever, which let her excited for a while and said she liked him a lot; so whenever they had sex, she said she enjoyed her sleeping, sex life, and her best time was she and her guy both shut-eye together. When her friend said why shut-eye together, and asked like, “Really?” She said like, “Yes, when shut-eye together, sleep more, I want more sex.” 

People maybe like fighting, but it doesn’t mean they can’t be together. A girl said when her friend started a business with her boyfriend, she said if it were her she would never do business together with her lover. She said doing business needed to make many tough decisions and if your lover got involved, it could have arguments and could make things very difficult to move forward. When her friend said she had fights with her boyfriend and thinking it would be better for her to leave him because they argued a lot and had a fierce fight which let her have tearful moment, scaring situation. Now they barely speaking to each other, and there was so much tension there. When the girl got a project, She told a guy that she wanted to feel good, say what she felt about certain things. But soon she found the guy tended to be self-righteous. When she worked with him for a while she felt the guy was too much, too self-centered, so she was angry, said to him like, “How dare you be so unprofessional?” Besides, he was also super bossy, so she was just trying to hang in there. When she realized the project was on the right direction and everything was going well she was surprised about working together with the guy. So by the end of the project they became lovers and she said to her friend that they had feeling-good vibe.

Some girls look weak, feminine, or sexy, but they may be feminists. A girl said she was aware of social issues, men’s harassment, working place condition, and had her subconscious always somewhere; she said it was not her fault to be in such a cautious way with certain people, certain things because she had encountered unpleasant things before, so her subconscious was always very alert with friends, coworkers because some people may take advantages of her, damaging her reputation and let her get into unnecessary difficult situation. When a friend said she slept with her coworker and felt terrible, she said she was always cautious with coworkers because if some bad thing happened it could be difficult to work there, so she said like, “It damages your reputation.” But she also had her own difficult time. Once her boss walked into elevator, looked at her boob, so she realized men bump into women all the time liked boob graze but they acted like they didn’t do it, at that time she just felt funny; sometimes someone bumped into her and did boob graze, and said like, “Oh, sorry about it,” she just laughed; but this time her boss not just did boob graze, but also begging her to sleep with him, so she could not ignore it, she said like, “What about your wife?” She said when she found her boss was nice to her, she knew he had bad intention because her subconscious was always somewhere, watching everything, whether there were gentle men, jerks, friends, or family members.

Multiple personalities may seem weird, but they are common. A girl said she liked to go party, so she met different people. Once she said love was a transaction, a connection, or a touch; if someone wanted to be with her, they would just take care of her if they winning with her. When a young lady asked her whether she dated rich and powerful people, she said, yes, but she was still single, still wanted to enjoy her life. She said dating let her feel great because her stress had been relieved after falling in love, but so called love seemed always not last long. So the young lady said that she did not know whether falling in love was a good thing. She felt she was very charming when falling in love but she also didn’t like other things. She said although sometimes she was with her lover, but she felt overwhelmed. So she went to parties by herself and drank champagne there. When people said she was a person with multiple personalities, she said they may have a point because sometimes she wanted to be a good person, other times she was in a bad mood, wanted to be a bitch. When someone said she would be a fashion designer she said she wanted to get rid of her lying habit first; so the girl said like, “Lying is very common, almost everyone lies.” So the young lady said it could be also scary. It turned out once she went to a party, there were many strange people there. They were drinking, having fun there, and many people got drunk, so something happened. When the young lady and other girls claimed they were raped at the party, police asked her who raped her, she didn’t know how to answer; when someone said it was a consent, but she said, not. So, the police investigated the party as a sex scandal.

A guy said he knew himself well because he was not a dude who was faithful to a girlfriend; so he never thinking about marriage. When his friend got divorced, he said like, “If you can’t commit to a woman, don’t get involved too much, it’s that simple.” When he had a new girlfriend he said it was funny when he was together with her, he thought he would be just like himself, live his own way of life, but he couldn’t keep doing this because his girlfriend was just like those coolest girls who let others didn’t know what to do; so he felt nervous, said like, “It was like thrill of my life.” So he felt he didn’t know himself well again. It turned out his girlfriend was a feminist, she was not only an activist, waiting for the call for social issues, but also very cool and funny. Once they went to a museum, they had a sense of humor. They let themselves loose a bit. So he only wanted to see nudes, and she wanted to see ancient statues’ marble parts. And on the road back they slowed down for a quickie.

A girl said she felt sad for no having children. When a lady asked her if she really wanted to have a child, the girl said when she was young, she never wanted children and did not want to be a mother. What she cared about was how to get a job, find a good man, and live in a nice place. Later, when she was a little older, she saw her friends feeling sad because they could not have children, and she said like, “What would life be like if had children? Is it hard?” She didn’t know whether she’d find a serious job, have children, and what she’d do if gains weight. It turned out the girl did have a good life for years before because she was dating a rich boss. She said her ex-boyfriend was a tough guy, when facing incompetent employees he did not respect them, so people were scared of him, didn’t want to incur his wrath, but she was still close to him, said like, “I know what I’m doing.” She said she didn’t bullshit him, instead, she said he was different toward her because she was a good employee, but others said the opposite. They said she used her sexy body to seduce him, when he started chasing her, he said he was a charming person, absolutely a good guy, and she was spreading his lies. So, she asked those questions again: What would life be like if had children? Is it hard? Because she said she didn’t know what to do in the future.

What is the most important thing today for women? A girl said that she now enjoys life in many ways. So, on weekends, she likes to have breakfast in bed while reading the newspaper. Of course, she also shares information with friends. When a lady asked her what she did with her friends, she said they often share information, including romantic travel, how to find a beach with gentle water where lovers can swim and feel like they are at home, like in their bathroom, so comfortable. She said she did not notice them before but needs them now. She said she found the most important thing for a women is that she should be feminine. She said it is no longer a big deal for a woman to have money and a house. And being loved by others may not last long. However, if a woman has femininity, she will be useful even when she is old because it's admirable. So, the lady said: Since the girl has everything, even the most important femininity, she already has it. Is she still expecting something? The girl said that she wanted to be a princess when she was a child. Although she has grown up now, she still has the princess’ dream. It turns out that where the girl lives, there are many luxury bars and clubs, and in those places, princes from various countries often go drinking with their bodyguards. So the lady said like, “Do you want to try your luck there?” The girl said like, “I want to see if my most important thing works.” She said she is looking forward to those newly discovered things, those things she did not notice before but needs them now.

People may know how to fight for social justice, but there are other issues. Once a girl said her neighbor had a strange behavior, he seemed pathetic, and he believed it was his only option and he was going to self-destruct. When her friend asked if the neighbor had a crush on someone, the girl said he was a secret lover with a woman. So her friend said this kind of thing is common, especially for young people because they see someone they like, but they dare not pursue it. So the girl learned that a secret lover creates an illusion, it can comfort itself and lose control. However, if some people know they have done something wrong but not regret, and even want to go through with it and have a happy ending, this will be a problem. The girl also learned that this kind of self-destruction situation has happened to many people because some people wanted to self-destruct when they encountered something they couldn't figure out, and they even wanted to make things worse. When those people secretly loved others who were committed, they could suffer from paranoia, they could be terrified all day long, feeling that their affairs had been discovered by others, that someone was always watching them. When her friend asked if the neighbor got any help, the girl said he seemed being panicked, thought if he didn't do something, he would never stop, he even wanted to jump off the building. At this time her friend said she would come to let him know that he was not the only one who encountered this kind of thing, and ask him if he really want to die for that woman.

For some girls being interested in different things could get trouble. A girl said she met some friends and they talked about different things. Once at the party a friend said she liked high protein diet, it could be eggs, red meat, chicken, and fish. Another friend said she wanted to increase her lifespan, improve her mental health, control high blood pressure and reduce high cholesterol. When mentioned social issues, a man said: "Big tech companies make billions of dollars by helping fossil fuel companies and they should be held accountable for the damage of climate change movement, and the less emission cuts." When the girl asked a friend why she left her boyfriend, the friend said like, "When it comes to love, many people are possessive; when he tried to control me I left him. So a good way is when falling in love, it is best for both men and women not to be possessive." When got home the girl realized her lover thought she was out a lot, and came back late, so he locked the door. When she told her friend that her lover was jealous and angry with her for going to the party, her friend said he also had possessive problem. So the girl said she was disappointed with her guy, and said to him: Goodbye, my love.

Waiting for the call sounds a remote thing, but it could be right next to you. A girl said it's hard to explain how she could go years not believing what she could be. She used to be a watcher, rather than a statement maker. After betrayed by her lover she was so broke, she'd have to smuggle in her own drink to the party, where she claimed all men were not good. When met a friend they hit it off after talking about social issues, so she said men's infidelity let her divorce, becoming a single parent, but she still believing herself. When she and her friend had run into each other at different things, they joined a group that convinced a company to admit human generated pollution and agreed to replace fossil fuels by clean energy. When her company had a new project, she found her coworker said she wasn't there long enough to be part of the project, she said that she had played small roles before, even though for a small role sometimes she needed to be interviewed for several times. But now she believed that she was something that she was, even though the world was telling her that she was not. When the project director still not so sure, she said: "No, I am, let me show you." So she and her coworker became parts of the project, played important roles, which had their hands full.

When women are strong, achieved something, they become target. A girl said when everyone had said no to her ability, it knocked her confidence. She said even now she was in a bit of disbelief that she finally got made. She grew up poor, a story with a misery vibe, which seemed to bore no resemblance to her life. When their project was greenlighted thanks to her previous work, she was attacked. So she said she was not like some girls who decked out in designer clothing, dripping in confidence, passionately squabble over trivial things. Those girls are brash, wealthy, dramatically over the top, surrounded by abundance, but she had scarcity from an early age. She was attacked again anyway for her feminist belief. When she said she didn't want to be part of a small male group, she was called a stupid bitch. When she said she felt up by some guys' toxic masculinity, she was blamed for the problem. She said she could not mention any bad behavior, it was like, "Somehow, you're the homie, you're the one who goes after men."

Girls like to get together and they learn from each other. One girl said she lived in a foreign country, handled many difficulties, which let her become brave and confident. Another girl said she learned to be strong and creative from her parents. She said her father had worked hard all his life to support the family. He repaired the furniture, crated joy, even built a tree house for children. Her mother was also hard-working person, she knitted sweaters, made cakes, and was always busy. She said she inherited her parents' characteristics, which are hard-working spirit, never complain about hardship and fatigue, and using all available things to survive in a difficult environment. She said she was grateful to her parents, who were never bowing to life, and who let her learn a lifestyle that only poverty could teach. She said she also thanked her mother for bringing her and her brother and sister into the world one by one, and even arranged them very close in age, as if they were the same person.

My friend's interested in social issues. She said she was struggling for years but always tried to be cool and pretty. When asked what her boyfriend's impression of her was, she said he had a good impression of her because he said when he held her it was like holding a lighted bulb. She said she didn't have many friends at that time, and most of the people she knew were immigrants. When he found out she liked to buy second-hand stuff, he understood well because he also lived like this before. He said in so called Western world many people can only afford cheap stuff. So she remembered that scene when they first time going out together. She bought a cheap dress from a roadside stall, and said to him: "Western bubble?" When she showed off her sexy photos to him they slept together.

People had dreams, but it could be easily disappointed. A girl said when she got the job, she wanted to work for the company during day and at night pursuing her dream. However, it was the opposite, because when she finished her work and hurried home she made food for her kids. When her kids fell asleep she poured herself a glass of wine and sat on the sofa, began to think about the day's work: Some things were not done well, there were problems in other places. So she began to worry, which included she would not be promoted and those younger than her would soon catch up with her.

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