Some people said they are waiting for the call and they are activists who care about social issues. A girl said her friend is a feminist, adventurous, and she also likes to wear bikini to swim. So she said she sometimes envied her, also dreamed she could become a bikini girl. One day she realized her dream. When she wearing bikini, swimming, walking along the shore, talking to others, she felt great, but not long ago she’d only worn one-pieces! So her friend asked her about her experience as a bikini girl, said like, “How do you feel?” She said like, “It’s the first time I’d ever tried on that sexy bikini,” her friend said, “You feel…” She said like, “I feel it hugged me tightly, my hips spilled over the top.” Her friend said like, “But you look great!” So her sense of adventure let her determined not to let fear swallow her other adventures, she joined her friend’s group, also becoming an activist.
Urban intelligentsia let some people be smart, focus on details, take care of themselves, but they maybe also miss other things. A girl said she knows “wash and go” well and her hair is perfect because she does trendy head treatment, which takes care of scalp, cleans dried oil, and dead skin. She also uses right shampoo, conditioner to avoid fungus growing on her head because they can trigger irritation, inflammation, and damage her hair. While sharing her smart ways with others, she becoming an activist, started to fight for social issues, but she encountered blatant lies; so she said the fact that some people, including her partner, wanted to force a false narrative that she was a cheater, betrayed her partner, she said it was not true, nor it surprising her because she had been through some crazy things and would never back down facing attacks. She said when dating, she tended to date only one person at a time, she would never do something like her partner, who was texting several bitches while dating her, because it was crazy, and it would not work.
Jan Goodman
The girl took care of herself, shared everything with others and became an activist; when she fighting for social issues, she was accused of cheater; when her guy also joined false story, she fighting back, said was never a cheater, but her guy was.
Some people said education is the key that could let the society and people change, but it could be bizarre. A girl said she and her guy were both teachers, and he was proud of his teaching job, and he was very smart and charming. When she found he’d changed, she was puzzling; it turned out when teaching he charmed students, and his friendship let him attracted to a male student, and they become lovers. So she was sort of lost, even feeling hurting, which affected her self-esteem. When talked to her friend about it, she felt better, started volunteer works. While healed her wound by doing some good things she met new friends. When she liked a man, she said by then she felt she was worthy again because she may get rid of her self loathing, and she said the good thing was that they both not hurting anyone. So she said she was falling in love again after the bizarre breakup, which let her feel it was a seesaw of emotions because she said she would never fall in love again.
Paul Parker
She and her guy were both teachers, but her guy attracted to a male student and they became lovers. She was upset, feeling lost, and her self-esteem was also low. When started volunteer work she met new friends, felt she was worthy again, and her self loathing was gone also.
Urban intelligentsia could take a bizarre turn. A girl said her friend was interested in social issues, she was fighting for injustice, but she was also very curious. Once she met a stranger, she was fooled, and felt like an idiot, but she was a feminist, so she thought about it, still wanted to be herself. When she met a man at a bar she had a strange feeling, felt she sort of knowing him, so she started talking to him. He said he went there because there had young women, so he could chat, pose for photos with them, and share with others about his life. When he landed a stable job, he stopped going to bar, said the reason he went there because in that phase of his life the boredom consumed him, and he was just chasing after girls, which could make him feel he still alive. So she asked him if the boredom consumed him again, he said it was the opposite, he said he cheated others, but he changed himself because he was smart, curious, wanted to do some good things, including fighting for social issues. So she posed for photos with him.
Debra Darling
The girl was a feminist, but was fooled, felt like an idiot; when met a guy, he said he cheated others, but changed himself, and he did those bad things because he wanted to feel he was still alive; she believed him, for they wanted to fight for social issues.
People sometimes want to say what they feel, no-reservations. A girl said her friend was a feminist, she worked hard, fighting for what she believed, and she had kids, having a normal life, but she’d created her own world where she acted like being a matriarch, a kind of macho way. She said her friend was still a gentle girl, she managed everything, coexisted with others well, but she was sort of unique human being. Once she got a project, people worked there said they were lucky for having a friend who was a great human being because she always kept her head down when working, she just asked others do the best they could, and if people still making mistakes she was not angry, had no resentment toward them, she just gave advice again. So the relationship between the team members became always functioning well because people witnessed a lot of good things she did for the project; she was there for them no matter what, and let them grow their skills.
Neil Holland
The girl's friend was a feminist, she had kids, and her world was kind of matriarch, but she was sort of unique; once she got a project, people worked with her called her a great human being because she worked hard, gave advices, and was patient, so they loved her.
A girl said she was sort of feminist, cared about social issues, but she did some strange things; when some people said she was weird, but she said she was proud of herself. She said she lived in different places and she learned different things. Once she was in a place where local people were kind of stupid, they didn’t use their brain, they just followed their leader; so she said they were weird, acted strangely, and there were also sort of superstitions. When she tried to be part of the community, she had to learn their way of life, so she forgot if there were social issues, they were right or wrong, she just followed them, becoming part of them. When she felt she was also kind of stupid, seemed not using her brain, she rediscovered something else, some basic behavior of human being, that let her understand more about humanity; she said it was odd, felt strange, but helping her professionally.
Rebecca Houston
The girl was a feminist, but did strange things; she lived in a place where people were kind of stupid, they didn't use their brain, they followed their leader, did weird things; when she tried to be part of the community, she forgot social issues, also did stupid things!
Some people feel they could find new things, so they pay attention to different people, cultures, and they get inspirations that could let them reach the trigger point that set them off on new paths. A girl said when so much is already out there in every other aspect of life, she just wanted to cherish the little things that were special when she was young because those things were just let her be curious, creative, and learn new things. When she met her guy, they clicked, so she said they’d been head over heels from the start. But they had differences because she liked different cultures and he was so so, and they had a fight for her birthday! So she said like, “My stupid birthday.” It turned out she had discussed with her friend about it and wanted to make it more romantic, like when she was very young, so it could let their life be more interesting, even reach the trigger point to start a business; So she dressed like a princess of her hometown, dyed her hair, put makeup, making sure they would have fun, but her guy was not happy. He said instead of expressing her love for him, he felt she was a different person, said like, “It’s over done.” So she said she becoming a crying barbie because she expected a funny, beautiful and romantic birthday, thinking she was creative, skillful, passionate, but all those little things collided with his mindset, dashed her hope of keeping her be creative and start a business, that she had dreamed since childhood.
Walter Dallas
The girl wanted to cherish little things and she was curious about different cultures, but her guy was not appreciated; when she dressed like a princess at her birthday party, they had fight, so her romantic way of dreaming to start a business was dashed, she cried, which was bizarre.
Some people are energetic, they try many things, and they are critical. A girl said she always wanted to try: she tried new makeup products, nutrition stuff, and went to different restaurants. But she was critical; when her friend asked about restaurants, she said what she had experienced, no-reservations, she said like, “What I find out? Some of them are suck.” It was not the first time she said something might shock her friends. Once she said she could do all the things with her best friend because they were grew up together, so they could read each other mind. When her friend got a project, she found her friend was sort of helping a guy doing his work, so she said like, “I was surprised, it was a pain in the ass.” She said she tried to talk to her friend again, but it was difficulty; when she finally got her on the phone, she said her friend did something not smart, it hurting her feeling because they were best friend, growing up together, and she could read her mind, but her friend said like, “If hurting feeling, I can’t remember if it was mine or yours.” She was surprised again to hear her words, so she said like, “Friendship sucks.”
Kim Hanna
The girl tried many things and she was critical; when her friend asked about restaurants, she said some of them were suck. When her best friend helping a guy do his work, she said she was not smart for he should do his work himself, and friendship also suck!
Sometimes people talk their life, their relationship, and they have no-reservations. A girl said her guy was weird, he always tried to make jocks. Once he said guys liked to have fun, they making joke, so he telling her like, “Guys just like that...” She was puzzled, asked about it and said like, “You guys see a pretty girl you make a joke?” Her guy and his friends said like, “Oh my God, you’re so right.” She felt embarrassed, didn’t know how to handle it. When she was thinking about the matter for a while, she felt she had a dilemma; when she met some friends, they started talking about their boyfriends. When a friend said she also had trouble with her guy and said she would rather talking about social issues than dealing with her boyfriend; so the girl said her guy was kind of weird, he and his friends liked to make joke when seeing a pretty girl. When the friend said her guy was difficult to predict, the girl said she was tired of her guy because once her guy said when he growing up, he could no longer hide under his nerd boy image, he just started to behavior crazy. So the girl and her friend said they had stayed with their guys for too long, wasted their time, and they hoped focusing on something else, not just on those silly boys, so they could have a sense of self-worth.
Sharon Grimmer
The girl's guy liked to make jokes to pretty girls; when talking to her friends, one friend said her guy was also weird, she would rather do something else than staying with him, so they were tired of silly boys, wanted to have a sense of self-worth which is great.
Some feminists are cute, they not just fight for social justice, they also take care of themselves. A girl said she cared about social issues, but also wanted to have a great lifestyle: She eating healthy food, exercising, and buying fashion clothes. She also loved her dancing class, looked sexy in her bikini, and she was kind to her body: she buying expensive skincare products, because she thinking she had only one body. Once she argued with her partner about certain social issues, she said she was aware her partner’s angry, because he said she was sort of paranoia and had some delusion, but she said she was telling the truth because her instinct always let her believe something was wrong and she needed to tell the truth. She said she had disagreed with her partner about certain things, but she still felt something linked them, which may be their passion for their fights for social issues, and her suffering in the past that played a role, so she said to her friend like, “That’s why I’m still stuck in it.”
Hope Dye
The girl cared about social issues, also had a great lifestyle; she looked sexy in her bikini, was kind to her body, and said she only had one body! She and her partner sometimes argued, had different views, but they both were fighting for social issues.
My neighbor said she still working on being a normal person because people called her a bitch. Since her attitude, her divorce, made others pointing a finger at her, saying she was a failure, but she said it was her choice, a choice of being happy, because she thinking sometimes happiness didn’t exist just for staying in a marriage, so she said like, “Staying in marriage to survive? Fear of being alone?” She said she was abused by her ex, and her friend also was manipulated by her ex-lover, so they sometimes talking about how men abusing and manipulating women. Once her friend said like, “The ugly truth is that many women said the same thing, they were abused and manipulated by their men.” She said she having no respect to any man because many men belittling women, they liked to lie, they cheating, sleeping around, and they using women for their own benefits.
Lance Clark
The girl said she was called a bitch for her divorce and attitude, but she said her divorce was for her happiness because staying in a marriage, fearing of being alone was not the solution; she said many men belittling women, sleeping around and they were very selfish.
Waiting for the call let some people devoted themselves to do something they really like. A guy said he left his hometown, started working the edgy and the ancient with an old-world style austerity in a new city. He talked about flexibility, proposed options for beauty, and found his new freedom, because sometimes he was confrontational, other times he was a peacemaker. When he met a girl, he found she also liked old-world style austerity, so he started to work with her. When he was still in awe that he met a person who devoted herself to do the stuff she liked, he heard someone said she was involved in a scandal, but she said it wasn’t like that, it was a funny stuff, she wouldn’t have done it if she knew it would blow up the thing because her intention was to help her partner, let him experience a wonderful moment, but she overshadowed him, making him looked ridiculous and she felt sorry. She said it was also not a good timing when people were focusing on them, and her behavior was a little bit crazy which got blown way out of the matter. So he said he left his hometown because of waiting for the call. He liked his job and his freedom and also saw potential in her for the project, but she seemed to be a fun of herself. When she started fantasying their future, they had sex; so she felt her human nature growing, her ego and personality clashed with him, which let him have a dilemma.
Kurt Mcdonald
The guy liked old-world style austerity, enjoyed his job; when met a a girl he found she also liked him, had the same passion, so they worked together, but she was sort of scandalous; she was talented, had potential for the project, but their personalities clashed.
Urban life is complicated, bus fascinating. A guy said if he didn’t have fun with his job, he sometimes got burnt out. If there was nothing going on, he just didn’t do anything, just like people watching roulette wheel spinning, he just staying at the table, didn’t do anything and didn’t know why he staying there. Once he met a girl, they talked about urban life. So the girl said she was fired before, she was shocked, but also felt it was the beginning of her life, even could be the best moment for starting again. When she got another job, she said like, “My last job was kind of boot camp experience,” she may feel angry about being fired, but said she was not a loser. When she met her former coworkers, she had a bittersweet feeling, she said she never expected she’d fired, but it was her new beginning; she said ridiculous things did happen, she just needed to focus on the possibilities she had, tried to nail down them, do the best she could. She learned how to humor her life, entertain everyday life, be a bit more of a funny sidekick, and have a good mood all the time. He liked her, said himself like, “Your life is sort of ridiculous, are you a loser? Start your life again?”
Daniel Frick
The guy didn't like his job, so sometimes he didn't do anything; when a girl said she was fired before, was upset, but she started again; she liked to humor her life, he liked her, felt he was also not a loser, he wanted to start his life again.
Some people said they believe they should be in their element but they are labeled feminists. A girl said she considered some suggestions were too much; but she still asking questions like, “Wearing a surgical bra? People think I’m shallow? Love clothes, like gossip?” Finally, she said like, “Cut the bulls-t!” She said sometimes people said she was feminist, arrogant, but she said it was not her fault, instead, it was the society that should be blamed; she said she just didn’t want to be labeled, didn’t want to be stuck in a situation; she made choices to protect herself, to improve her well-being, even though she had used strange ways to get what she wanted. Once she got a job, she felt her mind racing, she just focused on her potential to attract more attention as a task to tackle with precision and satisfaction. When she got the job done, she said like, “It was a dream come true,” because she was not just a sexy girl, but smart, liked by others, including her rivals. So she said she believed she was in her element, she was labeled feminist, too much, shallow, like gossip, but they were all bulls-t!
Jacob Stone
The girl felt she was in her own element and she didn't like to be labeled. She also didn't want to stuck there, instead, she tried to improve her well-being; she said sometimes she was labeled feminist, shallow, like gossip, but she said they were all sort of b-t.
Some people said they always walk carefully in their life because they don’t have a good job, no money, and they don’t know what could happen tomorrow. A girl said she liked her freelancer job, but she was unsure about its future. She also liked her guy, but she was unsure about getting married. Since her life was an unending insecurity, she doing everything carefully. Once her friend was not happy, but she said she didn’t do anything wrong; the only thing she felt bad was she might be a little close to her friend’s partner, who was her high school classmate. When she realized her friend’s partner also was sort of liked her, she felt terrible, even had a sense of guilty, so she said like, “I felt like a homewrecker.” When her friend’s suspicion let her accuse her having an affair, she was also in pain, she said she didn’t know what to do, said she didn’t do anything wrong, she was sort of being loved by another person who happened to be her friend’s partner. So she said she always walking carefully in her life because her job was not stable, she didn’t have money, and she didn’t know what could happen tomorrow. She liked her guy, but her life was an unending insecurity.
Will Grant
The girl liked her freelancer job, but she was unsure about her future. When was carefully, she still got trouble, was accused of too close to her friend's partner, had an affair with him, but she said she didn't do anything wrong, she was just loved by another person!
Some men said they don’t like certain girls because they claim they are feminists. A guy said he liked his girlfriend, but she was upset and left him because his desire was based on sex. When he had a new girlfriend, she was OK: She let him go down on her, and he said they both were happy. So he said he was puzzled by his ex and said something like, “What kind of person is she? Feminist? Is she trying to control me?” When he worked with his coworker, he found she was also sort of like his ex. She said she didn’t own anyone any explanation. She said she’d experienced a lot of awful situations, felt she was bullied, insulted and humiliated. When she got a promotion, some people wanted her to tell the truth, she said she didn’t own anyone any explanation. She said she worked hard, her boss liked her, and their relationship was their own business; when someone complained about her attitude, said she was manipulating their boss, she just ignored it, said like, “They’ll get over it.” She said she didn’t manipulate anyone, didn’t feel any guilt, she just let her boss know herself and her previous role in a project; she may be aggressively pushing her boss to make a decision but it just worked out pleasantly in her favor. She said she liked her boss, who had some weird desires, but they both were happy. So the guy said himself like, “What kind of person is she? Feminist?”
Bill Atlanta
The guy liked his ex-girlfriend, but she left him for he addicted to sex; he felt she was sort of feminist; when a coworker said she didn't own any explanation to anyone, her relationship with their boss was their own business, he compared her with his ex which is funny.
Urban intelligentsia let some people be smarter. A girl said she didn’t have energy, so her friend said she also felt the same not long ago, but she started to take some steps, eating a real good breakfast: eggs, rye, veggies, banana, which provided protein, fiber, and a little fat. She said it could also balance blood sugar, regulating her insulin levels. The girl was happy. But sometimes she found her friend left the town, so she was like, “damn, she’s gone, I really miss her.” When she met new friends, she felt they had fresh energy, new stories about life, which became kind of secret sauce to keep her life interesting. When a friend said she was not a hot mess, but liked to play around, having a good time, the girl said she was also sort of misunderstood by others because she was so excited to explore modern-day girl’s charming life. She said when she was young her father was worried about her dating, he scared any person she had interest in that would hurt her. She wished her father would still alive, so he could see his daughter had become, who devoted her energy for what she believed in.
Kris Silver
The girl learned how to have energy from her friend by eating a good breakfast! She also understood some girls' hot mess could mean they like her, liked to explore around; so she said she wished her father could still alive, to see his daughter had become which is cool.
Some people said they’re polite, but they may also get angry. A girl said she’s a polite person, but she moved to a new neighborhood, and saw a person telling another to go fuck herself in a store. So she asked herself like, “Politeness would not work here?” When she called her friend about it, her friend said like, “It’s because people like to fight.” So they discussed their life. Her friend said she’d bee dating for years, but still going nowhere. When someone asked if she likes kids, she said not everyone can choose to have children whenever they want like buying a cup of coffee. She said she and her ex had a romantic love, but it was also sort of weird. Once he took a razor blade and sliced his finger and her finger, and they sucked each other’s blood. They were crazy about each other for a while then he got tired. He said he was an artist, wanted to find inspiration, and he left; so the girl said her ex also was kind of strange guy. When he said he was tired of living in big city and wanted to move to a small town, she said he was not serious about it, but he was preparing himself. When she saw him reading a book, she was curious, asked about it, to her surprise, he started to talk about farming. He said farming was not like a switch that he could just turn on, because if he doing home grown food, he needed about two years turnaround, to get the land back working. She said his idea of leaving city, doing home grown food was ridiculous, but he left her anyway.
Simone Nickel
The girl was shocked when saw a person telling another to go fuck herself; when her friend said her ex was sort of weird, she said her ex also kind of strange because he wanted to leave city, go to farming, doing home grow food and he left her!
Some people may not like going clinic, but others do. A girl said she used to think going clinic was kind of wasting time, but she changed herself. She said she committed to go there, and her goal was to take care of herself and to help her age backwards. Her first step was increasing energy levels, then improving circulation, then better sleep. She said it worked after several visits because she sleeping like a baby, even missed a morning meeting. Since she was a scientist, she studied areas where the volcano eruption erased life, so she was sort of disaster and recover expert. Once she went to a blast zone covered a big area with thick ash, which could bury a car, she found after a while the area was back to normal again. It meant people could return to the area, plants back toward the surface, which she said was a lesson for human being, for many others because there was always hope, not all die and disappear. When she discussed it with her friend, the friend said like, “Is this linked to your visiting to clinic?” She said yes. She said volcano eruption erased life, but life didn’t die and disappear. So the friend said like, “What about age backwards?” She said she committed to go clinic because it let her reborn and she sleeping like a baby. They laughed.
Shannon Benard
A great story! The girl went to clinic and wanted her age backwards. She was a scientist, studying volcano eruption, so she said after volcano eruption life still there, it resurfaced, so her going back to clinic also could let her age backwards which is fascinating!
Being a feminist may attractive, but also could pay a price. A girl said she wanted her relationship with her partner to be truly equal; it meant he couldn’t force her to do what she didn't like. She said she also had passionate desires, wanted to be sexy, attractive, but she was feminist who had her ideas being against men's unfriendly actions, cheating, breakup and controlling. So she was single again after being with several guys. But she was a creative person also, she wanted to be successful, so she worked really hard, hoped one day she could be proud of being that person. But she encountered harsh reality and learned a hard lesson. She said it was just this painful thing of always being near successful, near this thing that she wanted to be, but she was just always kind of like within arm’s reach. When she realized she also needed to deal with her aging, she said herself like, “You need to deal with it gracefully.” It meant she needed keeping her spirit, her energy, and still able to find herself. Again, she felt it was hard because she was exhausted.
Jan Goodman
Being feminist means fighting, which could offend others. The girl was cool, after being single again she focused on her business, but she felt the same because she couldn't get what she had expected which becomes a fascinating topic!
A girl said her life and success were always linked to fear. When she was young she supposed to go out and have friends but she feared people would say like, “You’re a slut.” When she got a job she had fear and thought: “People may find out I’m not as good as I said. People may think I’m a lie, I may get fired.” So she was stressed out. Once she got a project, found a guy was chasing her, so she felt good, decided to give it a try. When she was with him for a while she said she had a wonderful feeling, so she and her guy had a roller coaster ride, and she seemed falling in love, said that feeling was absolutely incredible, and said like, “Oh my God, what happens next?” When the project finished, she had fear again, didn’t know when she could get another job, so she said to her friend that her life and success were linked to fear. When she was stressed out for a while she got another job, so she started to work with a guy. She said they were happy having work together because they both were smart. When they had sex, she felt good, but he was kind of weird. It turned out he was accused of abusing his exes before, but he said he never manipulated them; he said he had sort of self-doubt, self-loathing, felt he got stuck with his past, felt he missed out on last few years. So she said she also had fear and thought: People may find out she was not as good as she said. People may think she was a lie, she said she just managing them, tried not to stuck with her past.
Pat Davis
The girl feared others may think she was not as good as she said; when a guy chased her she took a risk, felt good; when got another job, met another guy, she realized her guy was also stuck with the past, she told him her story, which is interesting.
Some people may feel they spread themselves too thin because they said they’re interested in many things. A girl said since she’d never be the type of person who found her passion she just doing this, doing that, became a multifaceted person! She also didn’t have a long-term plan because she thinking if she waiting for her plan and her inspiration, it could make her lazy. When she spreading herself too thin she met different people. Once she found her friend was angry, so she tried to deal with it in the best way that they could get each other through it. When her friend said she was angry because she was just doing this, doing that, not having enough time going out with her, so she laughed, said she also felt sad but there was no bad blood from her side. She said she loved her time with her because they had the incredible memories together, and it needed time to make their friendship working. When she met a guy, she liked him because he claimed he was uncultured. So she said he was sort of like her, because she also didn’t have a long-term plan, thinking if she waiting for her plan and her inspiration, it could make her lazy. But he was different. When he said he had seen a lot of crazy things, they were extreme gross, like bloody scenes, lesbian, even vomiting, crying, so he asked her if she was interested in them, at that time she seemed to understand what his uncultured meant, so she said like, “Do you really need to know what I think about if those things are all normal things?” He laughed, said like, “Do we have to accept them as parts of life?” She didn’t know how to answer.
Brian Lawrence
The girl didn't have her passion, but she did different things, so had different experiences; when her friend was upset she realized she had not been with her very often; when met a guy, she liked him, but learned the uncultured things meant, so she figuring out things.
People feel they have hard time and have those lows. A girl said everyone could feel those lows, but it was getting past the low that counted. She said she used like her guy’s way of treating her like a sex object because she thinking she could get everything by posing nude, by sex-objected herself right into the right men. Once she met a guy, when they were in the room, she took off her clothes. When the guy staring at her she knew she’d won. So she said instead of complaining that there was so much cruelty around her, no one spoke up on her behalf to protect her, she felt she fucked up a lot with her ex, her partner, and her lover, because she had to hide the dysfunction and bitterness of her family that was going on with her and her siblings. Later she learned something that she started to appreciate her clothes. She said she learned how to appreciate them in the same way as a fine wine because her chic was always leaving something to the imagination. When she wear mini-skirt it got a thigh-grazing. When people seeing her with a slick of red lip-stick they had a sense of mystery. When she became a professional, sometimes she talked about her past and said like, “It was getting past the low that counted.
Abby Layru
The girl was very smart, she played a sex object, knew how to deal with men, appreciate clothes, fine wine, and have a sense of mystery which is really cool.
Urban intelligentsia sometimes let people discover human nature. A girl said she was from ghetto, so she had some humor, deep feeling and insecurity because she tried hard to break into the world she had dreamed; but she was not stupid, she had some constructive nature, some kind of positive view; when she did some beauty treatment she got some compliments about her complexion because she had found balance between not looking as though she’d done too much. Since she had her quarterly facials, her doctor cherry-picked between calming, refining and plumping laser treatments, and the result was her ruddy skin color transformed into a perfect looking. She also had a body worker: it gave her deep massage. She said it was painful, but it stretched out her tight muscles. So some people said she was smart, cool, and interesting. But she was from ghetto, so others said they couldn’t trust her because she could be lying. When she was excited for her role in a project, she was always sharing her discoveries with others, but some people said she could be lying and they didn’t trust her because she was selfish, obsessed with herself, constantly letting others know how smart she was, so she could get all of those credits that others also wanted to get. When someone said her real intention was to be close to the men with power, to seduce them, to benefit herself, she was shocked, cried, and said she just wanted sharing her discoveries with others.
Diana Gadway
The girl was from ghetto, but she was smart, and her beauty treatment let others envy her; when working with others for a project, she was still treated as a ghetto girl, so some people said was lying, couldn't be trusted, but she said she just wanted to sharing!
Some people said their creative ideas and career coming from their daily life, their observation of life and their believe, which may be true. So some people become professionals, others are interested in social issues and they become activists. A girl said her friends in high school took different paths, she’s an activist, interested in climate change and social issues, but she is also a beach girl, and her beach bag including makeup and sunglasses. She said her best friend had a baby, she argued with her husband over little things and she was not happy. Some of her friends are still single, they didn’t want to be a breadwinner, housekeeper, so they just traveling, wondering around and don’t know what to do with their life. She said sometimes when everyone was sleeping, she sit in the kitchen, amazed by the new meals prepared by her partner, she would say those meals using the same ingredients yet they were so delicious, so the key was to find something that was uniquely their own, that was what it was about creativity. So she got the inspiration, found what she wanted to do, and became an activist. When she worked with a group of climate change activists she learned about why climate change becoming a big issue, why it was so bad, what if we continue burning fossil fuels and how the ocean absorbs most heat from the Earth’s atmosphere, so she worked even harder and said to others like, “We care about climate change and global warming.”
Karl Joyce
The girl was really cool, she was an activist, but also a beach girl; when her friends were not happy, arguing about little things and their boring life, didn't know what to do with their life, she found her mission, her fight for better our Earth and climate change issue!
Many people talking about their adventures, they also talking about their rage, greedy company, and their vulnerability. A friend said she always found herself in a situation where she had to work very hard to please her boss because she felt sometimes her employer demanded so much and she had to commit to the job so much, even to die for getting the job done for a living. She said those were the hardest days she’d ever had in her life, it was the most scary, desperate moments she’d ever been in. When her friend asked if she was really in those desperate moments, she said like, “Yes, I thought I was going to die there.” She said after those days she suffered brain dysfunction, physical exhaustion, body inflammation, she was heart broken and terrified. She regretted she had insisted at the time that she could handle the pressure, finishing the project to prove her worth. When her friend joked if someone indeed dead because of overload of work, what she would say? She said for some greedy companies they may say it was okay, because people working very hard for making more money, and those people might die for just trying to get a better life, for a basic living! But it also showed greedy company’s cruelty, they treated employees like slaves, and were taking advantage of people’s vulnerability. When asked after had a near-death experience, what would she see life, she said she was thankful for still living her life but life is cruel.
Edith Campbell
The girl's experience let many people be aware of greedy companies who took advantage of people's vulnerability, thinking if someone wants to make more money or to prove his/her worth, they have to work really hard, overloaded in many cases and they let them working like slaves.
When talking about feminism, people may feel it’s not related to them, but there is kind of link. A girl said she had learned a lot in her life because she was very womanly, feminine. When she was young she dated many people, but ending up not happy. Once she met a guy, she liked him, but he said he was still enjoying his single status after being with her for a while. When her friend said like, “What it means?” She said like, “It means he still wants some space for himself.” When her friend asked, “What do you think?” She was like, “I think...” But her friend said, “Your guy is lying.” She was shocked, said like, “Lying?” Her friend said, “He’s getting more than he’s giving.” So she left her guy. When she met a rich man, she was hoping he could be different from the men she had met and life could start to get better, but she was manipulated by him again, so she realized he just wanted sex with her, he had nothing future plan and he was proud of being a single again after divorce. When she met another man, she felt the same thing, so she said men just wanted to have sex with her, they just wanted to take advantage of her by saying she was beautiful, feminine and womanly. When she became a feminist she said to her friend that she was tired of men’s manipulation, lying, selfish, greedy, and using women as sex tool; she said those things were all fucking bullshit, so she wanted fighting men, to be herself, to have her own voice, and control her own destine.
Paul Parker
The girl was womanly, feminine, and dated many people till her friend said her last guy was taking more than he was giving; so she left him, but things were getting worse, which let her become a feminist, fighting for herself and having her own voice which is great.
People sometimes feel good, so they say what they think, they may brag, telling funny, bizarre stuff, no-reservations. A girl said as a single mother with several kids, her life was a constant fight, whether it was emotionally, physically and financially. She said she was living on a daily basis, always prepared for unexpected things to happen, sometimes she felt things were out of control, she was scared of how to deal with, so she cried, but they were not all bad, sometimes it could be a good thing. One day a guy said he liked her, so she was surprised. When he went to her office at lunch time, they had sex there, which let him brag about it. When he depicting their sexual scenes at her office, he said he really liked sex in her office because she had changed herself dramatically, she was crawling on the floor like an animal. When she heard about his bragging, she thought it was funny, didn’t think he had degraded her, instead, she said they were both authentic, so she had no any shame because they both felt desirable and they both felt they had enjoyed the best sex. When asked what he planed to do with her, he said he would marry her forever, which let her excited for a while and said she liked him a lot; so whenever they had sex, she said she enjoyed her sleeping, sex life, and her best time was she and her guy both shut-eye together. When her friend said why shut-eye together, and asked like, “Really?” She said like, “Yes, when shut-eye together, sleep more, I want more sex.”
Kate Brown
The girl may turn her life around and could be lucky because she and her guy both said they had best sex in life even though he bragged a lot about their office sex and said she crawling on the floor like an animal which she loved his depicting.
People maybe like fighting, but it doesn’t mean they can’t be together. A girl said when her friend started a business with her boyfriend, she said if it were her she would never do business together with her lover. She said doing business needed to make many tough decisions and if your lover got involved, it could have arguments and could make things very difficult to move forward. When her friend said she had fights with her boyfriend and thinking it would be better for her to leave him because they argued a lot and had a fierce fight which let her have tearful moment, scaring situation. Now they barely speaking to each other, and there was so much tension there. When the girl got a project, She told a guy that she wanted to feel good, say what she felt about certain things. But soon she found the guy tended to be self-righteous. When she worked with him for a while she felt the guy was too much, too self-centered, so she was angry, said to him like, “How dare you be so unprofessional?” Besides, he was also super bossy, so she was just trying to hang in there. When she realized the project was on the right direction and everything was going well she was surprised about working together with the guy. So by the end of the project they became lovers and she said to her friend that they had feeling-good vibe.
Anderson West
A very interesting story! The girl said to her friend that she would never do business together with her lover but she ended up becoming lovers with her partner which means there are some people like the idea of working together with their lovers but others said it's a taboo.
Carmen Caller
A cool and interesting story about how to start a business with your lover.
Some girls look weak, feminine, or sexy, but they may be feminists. A girl said she was aware of social issues, men’s harassment, working place condition, and had her subconscious always somewhere; she said it was not her fault to be in such a cautious way with certain people, certain things because she had encountered unpleasant things before, so her subconscious was always very alert with friends, coworkers because some people may take advantages of her, damaging her reputation and let her get into unnecessary difficult situation. When a friend said she slept with her coworker and felt terrible, she said she was always cautious with coworkers because if some bad thing happened it could be difficult to work there, so she said like, “It damages your reputation.” But she also had her own difficult time. Once her boss walked into elevator, looked at her boob, so she realized men bump into women all the time liked boob graze but they acted like they didn’t do it, at that time she just felt funny; sometimes someone bumped into her and did boob graze, and said like, “Oh, sorry about it,” she just laughed; but this time her boss not just did boob graze, but also begging her to sleep with him, so she could not ignore it, she said like, “What about your wife?” She said when she found her boss was nice to her, she knew he had bad intention because her subconscious was always somewhere, watching everything, whether there were gentle men, jerks, friends, or family members.
Kate Kinsley
It's great that some girls always have their subconscious and they not only protect themselves but also let others know it's important to have some knowledge about society, workplace and social events because people get trouble just lacking this kind of subconscious.
Multiple personalities may seem weird, but they are common. A girl said she liked to go party, so she met different people. Once she said love was a transaction, a connection, or a touch; if someone wanted to be with her, they would just take care of her if they winning with her. When a young lady asked her whether she dated rich and powerful people, she said, yes, but she was still single, still wanted to enjoy her life. She said dating let her feel great because her stress had been relieved after falling in love, but so called love seemed always not last long. So the young lady said that she did not know whether falling in love was a good thing. She felt she was very charming when falling in love but she also didn’t like other things. She said although sometimes she was with her lover, but she felt overwhelmed. So she went to parties by herself and drank champagne there. When people said she was a person with multiple personalities, she said they may have a point because sometimes she wanted to be a good person, other times she was in a bad mood, wanted to be a bitch. When someone said she would be a fashion designer she said she wanted to get rid of her lying habit first; so the girl said like, “Lying is very common, almost everyone lies.” So the young lady said it could be also scary. It turned out once she went to a party, there were many strange people there. They were drinking, having fun there, and many people got drunk, so something happened. When the young lady and other girls claimed they were raped at the party, police asked her who raped her, she didn’t know how to answer; when someone said it was a consent, but she said, not. So, the police investigated the party as a sex scandal.
Shannon Benard
In some cases multiple personalities worked very well because we have so many areas where people looking for those who could play different roles, and those who have multiple personalities may just be a good fit for complicated work. So this post may let others think about its other side.
A guy said he knew himself well because he was not a dude who was faithful to a girlfriend; so he never thinking about marriage. When his friend got divorced, he said like, “If you can’t commit to a woman, don’t get involved too much, it’s that simple.” When he had a new girlfriend he said it was funny when he was together with her, he thought he would be just like himself, live his own way of life, but he couldn’t keep doing this because his girlfriend was just like those coolest girls who let others didn’t know what to do; so he felt nervous, said like, “It was like thrill of my life.” So he felt he didn’t know himself well again. It turned out his girlfriend was a feminist, she was not only an activist, waiting for the call for social issues, but also very cool and funny. Once they went to a museum, they had a sense of humor. They let themselves loose a bit. So he only wanted to see nudes, and she wanted to see ancient statues’ marble parts. And on the road back they slowed down for a quickie.
Ali Turner
A very cool and interesting story! Some people may say they can't do this, can't do that, but when they meet some very cool girl they don't know what to do, and they just do the girl wants to do which is funny.
What is the most important thing today for women? A girl said that she now enjoys life in many ways. So, on weekends, she likes to have breakfast in bed while reading the newspaper. Of course, she also shares information with friends. When a lady asked her what she did with her friends, she said they often share information, including romantic travel, how to find a beach with gentle water where lovers can swim and feel like they are at home, like in their bathroom, so comfortable. She said she did not notice them before but needs them now. She said she found the most important thing for a women is that she should be feminine. She said it is no longer a big deal for a woman to have money and a house. And being loved by others may not last long. However, if a woman has femininity, she will be useful even when she is old because it's admirable. So, the lady said: Since the girl has everything, even the most important femininity, she already has it. Is she still expecting something? The girl said that she wanted to be a princess when she was a child. Although she has grown up now, she still has the princess’ dream. It turns out that where the girl lives, there are many luxury bars and clubs, and in those places, princes from various countries often go drinking with their bodyguards. So the lady said like, “Do you want to try your luck there?” The girl said like, “I want to see if my most important thing works.” She said she is looking forward to those newly discovered things, those things she did not notice before but needs them now.
Summer Duff
A very cool, interesting story, and a great picture! So for those who already have all those things such as money, house, they may think something else, in this case the girl wants to be princes, which is hilarious, smart and inspiring.
People may know how to fight for social justice, but there are other issues. Once a girl said her neighbor had a strange behavior, he seemed pathetic, and he believed it was his only option and he was going to self-destruct. When her friend asked if the neighbor had a crush on someone, the girl said he was a secret lover with a woman. So her friend said this kind of thing is common, especially for young people because they see someone they like, but they dare not pursue it. So the girl learned that a secret lover creates an illusion, it can comfort itself and lose control. However, if some people know they have done something wrong but not regret, and even want to go through with it and have a happy ending, this will be a problem. The girl also learned that this kind of self-destruction situation has happened to many people because some people wanted to self-destruct when they encountered something they couldn't figure out, and they even wanted to make things worse. When those people secretly loved others who were committed, they could suffer from paranoia, they could be terrified all day long, feeling that their affairs had been discovered by others, that someone was always watching them. When her friend asked if the neighbor got any help, the girl said he seemed being panicked, thought if he didn't do something, he would never stop, he even wanted to jump off the building. At this time her friend said she would come to let him know that he was not the only one who encountered this kind of thing, and ask him if he really want to die for that woman.
Bill Atlanta
A very interesting topic! We do see some young people said they like those women who have committed to others and they said they had crush on them, but if someone had affair with a committed woman and wanted to do crazy thing, it's just terrible.
When women are strong, achieved something, they become target. A girl said when everyone had said no to her ability, it knocked her confidence. She said even now she was in a bit of disbelief that she finally got made. She grew up poor, a story with a misery vibe, which seemed to bore no resemblance to her life. When their project was greenlighted thanks to her previous work, she was attacked. So she said she was not like some girls who decked out in designer clothing, dripping in confidence, passionately squabble over trivial things. Those girls are brash, wealthy, dramatically over the top, surrounded by abundance, but she had scarcity from an early age. She was attacked again anyway for her feminist belief. When she said she didn't want to be part of a small male group, she was called a stupid bitch. When she said she felt up by some guys' toxic masculinity, she was blamed for the problem. She said she could not mention any bad behavior, it was like, "Somehow, you're the homie, you're the one who goes after men."
John Austin
When women declared their interests they are put by others into different groups which is the beginning of getting trouble. If women have strong opinion about social issues they are hated by many.
My friend's interested in social issues. She said she was struggling for years but always tried to be cool and pretty. When asked what her boyfriend's impression of her was, she said he had a good impression of her because he said when he held her it was like holding a lighted bulb. She said she didn't have many friends at that time, and most of the people she knew were immigrants. When he found out she liked to buy second-hand stuff, he understood well because he also lived like this before. He said in so called Western world many people can only afford cheap stuff. So she remembered that scene when they first time going out together. She bought a cheap dress from a roadside stall, and said to him: "Western bubble?" When she showed off her sexy photos to him they slept together.
Kelly Wicks
Very interesting post and like it a lot! It's true many people live in Western world can only afford cheap stuff, they live a very simple and frugal life which let many people feel Western bubble is real.
Michael Ellis
The girl liked her friend who was a feminist; she also envied her and wanted to be a bikini girl. When they went to beach, she wearing bikini, swimming, walking along the shore, and she became a bikini girl! And she also joined her friend's group, becoming an activist.