Designing happiness is sometimes funny because it could be a dramatic way. A girl said she liked to travel around world and knew many magical places. Her favorite city was Paris because she could shop, running around streets. She also liked beach, so she went to Bali because she could wear a different bikini every day. When she met her boyfriend she said they both liked travel, had the same tastes and they seemed to have found their happiness. While working in luxury industry she found her colleagues were very smart, they almost genius because they always could find something new and exiting which could lead to another modern charm. Once she worked with a colleague, she said she admired him and had an affair with him. So she said to her friend like, “How am I going to say this with my boyfriend? Am I going to look into his eyes, saying…” Her friend was shocked, she didn’t know how to answer it, she just was like, “How could you do that?” She said she worrying about it because her boyfriend could also ask her the same question like, “How could you do this to me?” But somehow her friend calmed down, so the friend said the fact was that people didn’t know anything about it, if they didn’t let it be public, what those people would think? They still thinking she was great, a loving partner and an excellent colleague. So she said people would watch, try to learn if she and her colleague’s relationship had changed, which could determine her future; if people found something suspicious, it was unhelpful for her career; so the best way was she had to find a way out, put it behind her. When she followed her friend’s advice, tried to forget him completely because she wanted to keep her happiness with her boyfriend, she felt she was struggling, said like, “It was a challenging.”
People sometimes discovered themselves in a bizarre way. A friend said after disappointment of dating several people she met a guy who seemed to be serious, but she also felt she wasted her time because he only taking her to picnic or walking in the park, so she felt he was weird. Sometimes after a three-course dinner he let her shore the bill which showed he was not nice and she was also not happy, so she divorced him. When she met another guy, she found she got into a scandal, but she was fiercely loyal to him and said she was not scared. When others said she was a force, fiercely loyal to her guy, she said even though he was fighting for his divorce, she was waiting for their honeymoon; she said all she wanted was a new chapter of her life, and the magical moment was when she met him; she said it was not perfect, but she thought it was inevitable because she was not afraid of controversy, and she was tired of her life before. When others blaming her for the guy’s divorce, said she was a force, determined to get what she wanted, she said she felt sorry for what had happened because her poor guy needed to fight for his divorce, like she did for divorcing her ex, because he had to deal with his nasty wife and those rumors about them, But she said when she was with her guy they still laughing, having fun together as if nothing had happened. So she said it was one of the great thrills of her life because she realized by far the most powerful thing she’d ever done as a woman was to let man she liked treat her like a queen.
Steve Spencer
The girl's ex was certainly stingy, he only taking her to picnic, walking, and wanted her to pay some dinner cost. When she met another guy she got into a scandal but was loyal to him because he treated her like a queen which she loved. Funny and interesting story!
A friend said she’s talented, she’s good at singing, and wants to be a contender for a show. When she finishing in top ten her neighbor was kind of admiring her, said he was also in a show and played a small role, so he asked her like, “So you become a serious contender for the show?” She said like, “Yes,” her neighbor asked again, “Then what?” She said like, “I begin to compete in round two.” She said this was kind of the things she liked, so her neighbor started dating her. One summer they went to countryside and had sex on the ground, he worked so hard that her back skin was broken. When she showed him her back part scar later he said he was sorry, and said he didn’t realize he had made her skin so bloody, but she said it showed he was loving her very much. When his role in the show almost finishing, he told her that he was good at that, and said if he couldn’t do what he liked, he’d rather relax, not do anything. When the show was getting its last stage, he realized after that day, everyone would go to get real jobs. So he was very emotionally, said to the manager like, “Let’s just do one more, one more time.” But the show ended anyway. When he was with his girlfriend again, he said he didn’t know if going to find a job, and said like, “I just want to have one more.”
John Austin
The girl and her guy were in show business, they had a trip they, great sex, and her back skin was broken, but she said it showed he was loving her so much; but show must end, so he was emotional, said he just wanted one more, which is sad.
Modern charm let many girls chasing great lifestyle, fancy stuff, good look, cool boyfriend, and they want to have a love forever feeling. My neighbor said she chased may things, it means she was a risk-taker, so she always said goodbye to many things. When she started to date, she found her guy was okay, but not great, so she didn’t want to waste her time and said goodbye to her guy; when she met another guy, she liked him, but next minute she liked someone else because she didn’t want to be stuck with a not-so-great guy, she wanted to have a love forever feeling, a perfect lover. When she tried non-surgical skin tightening treatment, she felt young again, so she said goodbye to her old self, and had a young beach body ready to meet new challenges. But she was exhausted by chasing fancy lifestyle, chasing her perfect man and having a love forever feeling. When her friend said she was still very attractive, she said having a sexual appetite was one thing, but feeling exhausted was another thing, so she said like, “Oh my god, I can’t do this anymore.” But she still didn’t want to give up, sometimes she said like, “But, isn’t that like any job?” So she still buying fancy stuff, doing makeup, taking care of her image, chasing that love forever feeling, until she felt really tired because her emotions running very high.
Alex Day
There are still many girls there chasing that love forever feeling, they may look for rich men, luxury lifestyle, beauty treatment, fancy stuff, but they may end up like the girl here because there is no such as love forever feeling at all and love is a passion and it will go away after a while.
Many people wanted to be happy, but they can’t. A friend said she wanted to live a good life, to be happy, but it was not easy. So she started to ask question like, “People have the right to be angry?” When she saw someone treated the “little people” like dirt, she was not happy; when she saw athlete got angry on TV, she was thinking about it; once she saw someone picking up samples with fingers in supermarket and others screamed for not using a cocktail stick, she didn’t feel personally; but when she chatted to her friend and a lady said she should stop talking, she felt angry, said to her friend like, “Do I have the right to be angry?” When she started a business, she felt it was difficult, and said she was tired already because she needed to do everything herself. She said running a business like running a marathon, once started, she could not stop, so she said she understood better why it was quite hard to motive herself to start the business at the beginning. When talking about her family and her future, she said when she was young, she saw her mother was struggling, which had an impact on her childhood; so she was sad, angry, didn’t have this kind of mommy thing, she said she didn’t have any plan about future because sometimes she felt she was a sort of second-class citizen.
Kelly Wicks
To live is not easy and to start a business even more difficult. When the girl was angry she asked her friend about if she had the right to be angry which is why so many people feel angry because they didn't have a normal life from the beginning.
A girl said at the party she left her ex-lover not a long time ago. When asked if she felt something lost, she said like, “Nothing is lost.” She felt fortunate that she was still loved by her family, got along with her new guy; but she also said her guy always hunched over the bar, alone, looking like depressed, because he said like, “Nothing is easy,” and said he was a sensitive soul. When asked if she was looking for a long-term relationship and felt love affecting her life and her career, she said she didn’t want to just be with someone and let others said: Whenever she met a guy she liked, the guy turned out to be a husband, a dad. When asked how was her ex-lover, she said she was disappointed because he was faking his feeling, and cheating. She said she was also not perfect because sometimes she crying out loud, reading a text during sex, which disappointed to her ex. She said she felt sorry to him but she was just being herself. She said people always thinking when dating some people, meeting someone, they would either get it right or blow it right away because they felt they were very capable, they could see if it working or not, but it was not the case. Some people said in order to find true love, everyone had to go through a lot of pain. She said she believed it because only through pain one could find true happiness. When asked why, she said when it coming to love, many people were possessive and wanted to control others.
Frank Turner
When the girl said everyone has to go through a lot of pain and finally find true love showed her own experience, but possessive and controlling behavior is not just limited for men, women also have those desires and they sometimes even show more ability to handle the matter.
Designing happiness seems a permanent topic. A girl said after suffering for a long time she started to be interested in psyches because it showed how wildness, so-called right and wrong things, those things beyond logic, and those childish behaviors worked. So she realized in her past relationships, when she turned dark, she might be funny, felt good, but sometimes she also becoming stoic, having ridiculous behavior, because she didn’t know whether those things were right, wrong or could harm herself. So she said when she was young she had many men, she slept with all of them, did many crazy things, some of them were really stupid, which let her experienced wildness and darkness moments. She suffered a lot, wanted to escape from her past, have a normal life, but she was not sure if she could make it because she was hunted by her traumatic experiences in the past.
Katherine Boston
Very interesting story and cool. When people want to have a normal life after living a crazy life for a while they encounter many things, and psychic studies may help them, so they know bad things happened, they still could get rid of their past, pursuing their happiness.
When talking about things I like, some people may say they like to travel, or to be a famous person, but there are interesting stories. A lady said her daily routine included dropping her kids to school, working, and cooking. She was always dress-up, battling with career, family, love, and she loved her guy says: “You’re my doll.” However, she had a fascinating story. It turned out she left her hometown years ago, but whenever going back there she felt like a pilgrimage, a treacherous fun, and a chapter of her bizarre life. She said in her hometown she was a powerful guy’s mistress, experienced exciting moments, fancy lifestyle, crazy behaviors, enjoyed being in the middle of scandal, chaos, fighting and finally getting away from there because people there said to her like, “You’re so cute!” She said she never was a driver, and felt vindicated because she was also abused by powerful and rich people, suffered emotional trauma, which let her have a weird feeling whenever going back there. She said those rich and powerful people were like fierce religious nuts, they only interested in themselves, but she knew their tricks, their nuance, their dirty practices and stupidity. She said she played around them because she was just another human being, sometimes she said like, “Oh, I’m not going to pretend to be an innocent girl.” So some people said like, “She felt guilty to go on living, but she didn’t want to commit suicide, especially not for those greedy and rich people to die.” She felt that was funny, She said she liked her current routine: dropping her kids to school, working, and cooking, and loved her guy says: “You’re my doll.”
Dana Foyle
The girl is smart, hilarious, and brave. She played with rich and powerful people, she may suffer, but she let those people think about themselves, and she is really smarter than all those stupid, arrogant, greedy people.
Many people talked about things they liked, but quit a good paying job, becoming a freelancer, is something different. A girl said she worked for a company for years and finally decided to quit her job. When asked why, she said it was her choice. When asked how she met her boyfriend, she said her boyfriend also quit his job, started a business, so they became lovers. He said this was many times better than working hard to achieve results. When asked if she also thinking the same, she said when she changed her situation, she understanding the true meaning of poverty, which included those who are tied to work and can only earn minimum wages and become poor. So people learned how the girl enjoyed her freelancer status. It turned out she had incredible instincts. When she had a project, she talking with different people, she never met them in person, just relied on their previous works, their customers’ words, which made her believe they could do the job. She said many of her projects were contributed by different amazing people, and she just fantasized about who it could be for this important part, who would have that amazing piece, and she never zeroed in only on one person, and most people worked with her acted alongside her vision. She said she liked slow burn, which was a little selfish, but she loved it, because she could make others sacrifice themselves to back her projects. So the people learned again about the meaning of poverty, minimum wages, how to avoid being poor, and how to design happiness.
Mark William
A great post and like it a lot. Many people feel they wasted their time and think they are very talented, but they don't take action, which is why all the complains and other social issues come such as poverty, minimum wages, being poor, injustice, discrimination, and working like slaves.
Artists could be a special group for local humanity, but there are stories behind it. A girl said her works could be seen in local museum, so she considered herself a local celebrity. When she said her works were not expensive, a friend asked why she said this, she went like, “When artists are alive, they not worth much; when they dead, they worth more.” So her friend was kind of surprised to hear the words. When they talked more, the friend learned more about the artist. One day, the artist met an old man in a bar. It turned out that the old man used to only make money, but now he had changed his lifestyle. He often went to the bar to drink after getting off work. When the artist said she was now in love with the man because they could drink martini together. Sometimes, she drank a glass, and asked for another, and after three glasses of wine in a row, she felt more comfortable, inspiring, as if she had relieved all the worries of the daily life. But she still was unhappy. She said she was a bit of a slut, because whenever she had a man, that man was her child’s father. When asked how he valued her works, she said like, “When I did a fabulous job, he slapped me a high five and kissed me.” But she complained again, said like, “Artists are more valuable when they are dead, is kind of gross.”
Tim Swann
Artists do feel they are treated unfairly but we live in a society where most people only care about immediately benefits which is making money fast, so some artist feel they are in wrong business but they can't change the reality and they just complain.
Some girls may smart, but others may feel bad about their decisions they made. A girl said when she was young she was good at singing, acting, and she wanted to be an artist. But every time she had achieved something other things happened, so she had kids, thinking it was better to be a mother because it was natural, and she knew it well. However she was still single. Once in a bar she met her high school friend and found he was single. So after a couple of drinks she said like, "I was innocent, had some weird behavior." When he knew she had several kids with different men, she said she wanted to be a mother now because it was natural and she knew it well, so he said he watched her show once and thought she was good. At this time she confessed him that she had crush on him in high school and did masturbation to him. So he said like, "This is first time I heard someone had crush on me and did masturbation to me, but it was sweet thing to say." When she told her friend about this her friend said like, "Oh, you're so horny."
Scott Tar
Girls do make mistakes, one of them is having kids, so we see some girls have several kids and they are not married; when their guy left them they feel hopeless so they just grab what they can, which is funny.
Girls may like vanity, but they know how to enjoy life. A girl said her writing was driven by characters. Some of them dealing with messy, flowed female protagonists, who would push back on male chauvinism, and express their own sexuality. She also cherished female friendship, which let her meet different friends. So they could drink, talk, dance, and have a good time together. Once she had a good time with her friends at the dance hall. She felt that they were a group of enviable people. They were beautiful, sexy, and full of femininity, which made her feel they were envied by others and envied by each other. When talking to a young lady she said like, "You look so charming." The lady said like, "I often meet celebrities." Another girl said, "No wonder she wears eye shadow and lipstick every day." When a friend said her skin was good, the girl said her friend's nose was beautiful because it was small, exquisite, straight, and well-proportioned. So they talked about how to have a beautiful face, a bright skin, find a suitable anti-wrinkle cream, and spend their honeymoon in the future. When someone asked a designer how to design clothing, the designer said her design focusing on how it would look after it was completed, which included feeling comfortable, youthful, that could wearing it to go to restaurant, to gym, even to fall in love. So they all laughed and had a wonderful girls time.
Hope Dye
Very cool and interesting post and picture! Girls do know how to entertain life and they become very smart also because they pay attentions to modern life and their details, so they know how to take care of skin, where to travel, what to eat, and look younger.
If there are interesting things, meeting some hipsters are fun. A girl said she and her partner both like fashion, but she was still fashion industry nobody. They liked kissing on street, buying fresh made juice, listening to loud music, and going movie theater. Once they discussed a movie, she would like, "The twisty plot keeps you guessing, but I wondering if I'll ever return to watch this weirder world." So he would like, "A smart movie wouldn't need to hide things from audience, it needs characters to ask questions, to deliver hidden pieces of exposition." So they seemed a perfect couple of hipsters. Once they met some people at a party. When a lady said she just divorced, but started looking for partner again. She said she only had to make a phone call and her friend would pick her up, the girl was fascinated. So the lady said someone said she had no brain, but she said she was very smart. Later the girl asked her partner if he had something hidden from her, he said life like a movie, if he had something, he had also no brain, which let her think about that lady again. So she asked herself: "What is marriage? How long should it last? Is it going to grow old together or another ending?"
Lance Clark
Very interesting post and topic. People may be rebellious and act a little crazy but they still think about basic things, they question love, marriage, their own future which is how to live your life.
Middle age crisis maybe exaggerated by some, but also has its reason. A girl said she needed to sit the fuck down because she had a kind of mental breakdown. She said when she was young, stupid, weak, she was accepted by many, got a lot of attention because she was sexy. She was told she was a fascinating person, many people liked her, they wanted to be close to her. So she met a guy, had a child, but she found out her guy still flirting with other women. When she met another man, she slept with him, but she didn't hear him again, so she asked: Did he hit by a car? When she decided to change her career she realized her age: She was neither the youngest nor the oldest, so she felt dauting, stressful, said like, "When I was young, stupid, I was liked by many, now I was gorgeous, smart and experienced, I was told too old, not so beautiful, and being rejected." So she wanted to go back to those days when she was sexy, and had wonderful feelings.
Ali Turner
Young, stupid, sexy is much better than smart and experienced women because the society is designed by powerful and rich men and they like young, stupid and sexy girls, so the rest just follow.
My coworker said after married for years she divorced her partner. She said she's not a victim, instead she choosing happiness because she thinks many people are not divorced, but it doesn't mean they're happy, for they're afraid of being single again. She said love is a passion, it would disappear after a while. She said her friend also regretted about marriage. It turned out that her friend used to be slender and as charming as a Greek goddess. Since giving birth to a baby, her body has changed because her figure is no longer goddess-like. When she looked in the mirror she found her belly was bulging outward, arching like a globe, which made her sad. She had been afraid to get married, to have children, to gain weight, but she was told marriage may make her happy, but she got the opposite. Now she feels fat on her body and waist has been growing, and she hates watching TV, to see those beautiful girls there.
Jacob Stone
It's true that many people not divorced because they afraid of being single again but they also complain about many things, they don't have sex, they live a miserable life but they stay there, still married which is sad.
How to design happiness? It's not that easy. Once a girl said after meeting her boyfriend she became happy; she also bragged about sex, saying: She was addicted to sex. But she didn't know the deception of love and the cunning of men. When her colleague said she also met a man at the business meeting. She felt the pressure she had before was relieved because whenever she met her guy they just took off clothes and the rest just moved automatically, like a robot. The girl listened, felt strange, because she also met her guy in a business meeting and they also took off clothes, moved automatically like robots. So, she said to herself: "Did the man do it to your colleague also? Does he do the same thing to other girls?"
Brian Lawrence
Find a partner seems a big deal because it can change people's feeling, but many men are greedy and want to have different girls which is very tricky.
Girls discover new things every day, one of them is men's masculinity. A girl said when her guy always went to travel, she followed him once and discovered his strange behavior. He stayed in a resort where young ladies taking sauna in hot spring. One lady said her guy once wearing shorts, walking around her, his testicles were dangling in shorts, as if he deliberately showed off in front of her which almost touched her hair and face. Another lady said she had a child with her guy, and asking him for support was very difficult, like the way people try to break open oysters with their fingers when eating seafood in restaurant. So the girl talk her friend: Her guy is a real gentleman who would do absurd things but pretend he doesn't know anything, and the reason why he keeps leaving because he feels he's still masculine, still young enough to get any woman even he's in his middle age.
Diana Gadway
Those who pretend they not know anything but have done some ridiculous things should know there are people who watch their absurd behavior and they just let them have a change to change their behavior but their patience is limited.
Modern charm also let girls treat their breasts differently. One girl said she went to an interview and got hired immediately. Then she and her boss went to a restaurant. When others said she was hired by her breasts, she said besides her self-confidence she could do many things. When people said she was their boss's secret lover she said their relationship is still between employer and employee.
Howard Fisher
Very interesting and cool post and picture. Men do obsessed with women's breasts so the girl hired by the boss immediately after interview. When they become kind of lovers the question is what they do next which is fascinating for many people, including the girl and the boss themselves.
A friend said she met her partner in a ballroom. When she said being sexy means a lot of work because she needs to work with hair style, lips, eyes, makeup, clothes, and accessories, but he complained about her spending money and her laziness; for this she fights back, saying he liked her sexy look when they met and now he complains, even saying she's being lazy, which only shows he's stupid, he only knows about money.
Ann Hanson
Very interesting post and picture and like it a lot. Many men like sexy girls but somehow they complain and the girl fights back which is really cool because those men are really stupid and they only know how to make money.
A friend said modern charm let him feel comfortable by taking pictures from exotic culture to girl wearing sexy dress.
Ashley Parsons
Great pictures and like them a lot!
Frank Turner
Like the post and pictures!
Chris Chapmen
Cool post and pictures!
Anderson West
Cool post and pictures! Now I understand why some people getting so excited when seeing a girl wearing sexy dress and said to others: Breasts, breasts, breasts!