Urban life is fascinating because there are different people. A girl said she changed a lot: she stopped being seen as a lonely person, instead of having her earphone in all the time, being introverted within her small bubbles, she went out to meet people, to do exercise. Since not isolated she also wanted to make a statement: she stopped shave her legs, body, thinking women should not supposed to be always smooth, stubble-free; sometimes she even not identifying as woman. But she was smart, creative, and she could be very seductive also. Once she got a job, working in a restaurant. She met some strange people, some of them really liked her. When her coworker reminded her some guys’ funny words, she said like, “Oh, right, isn’t that creepy?” But she suffered a little bit by working in restaurant, even had memory loss, caused by alcohol when sometimes she went out with friends and drinking too much. When she worked there again, she found a guy leave a huge tip for her, she was puzzled, said like, “He was very generous, to buy my attention?”
A girl said she did different things, liked exercise, Nature, and writing. When she tried to highlight her success, she found it was difficult because when she was young she dreamed to be a model; so she quitting job, started her dream, had some success; when her writing about Eco-living and paradise experience became a script, she had her new passion, but she was always worried about her potential jobs. So she said there was no enemy there, it was the risk of taking a job that she was interested, that made her feel stressful because she had to maintain a good relationships with different people, to produce the result, and to get it done in a short period, which also meant the timing was just gut-wrenching. Once she and her guy had a trip, they liked the place, felt it was like a dream, and wanted to stay there longer, but she was still worrying about potential opportunities, and said herself like, “It’s like a dream, but how do I stay here longer? If I relax, will it all be gone? Will someone says: ‘Sorry, you left, so you’re now out?’”
Ali Turner
The girl was a model, a writer, when taking a job she had to get it done fast, so the timing was a gut-wrenching; when took a trip, they liked the place, wanted to stay there longer, but she worried losing her potential jobs, so she was scared of relaxing.
Eco-living may be elusive, but it could be near your life. A girl said she used to work with a guy who was talented, and his business was related to his hometown, a paradise, and cities. When talked about the guy, she would say like, “He’s rich, and smart.” When someone asked like, “Really?” She would confirm, said like, “Yes, he’s very rich, but he’s also weird.” When people said like, “Weird?” She said, “He had an idea, somehow it took flight from his hometown to cities. And now his conceptual view about lavender prompts him to a crazy business.” She said when she was working with the guy she was very interested in his business, but somehow she had those weird moments where his girlfriend said something, which let her had this vague thing of not wanting her to be there; sometimes his girlfriend could suddenly aware something, didn’t want her to do the work. So she would say like, “Am I a threat? No, I am not a threat to your relationship. I am not stealing your guy.” She said she was an honest girl, never wanted to get close to other’s boyfriend, but somehow his girlfriend was scared of her, didn’t want her to know her guy, to work closely with him, which made her feel disappointed.
Carol Young
The girl worked with a guy, his business linked to countryside, cities. She said she had weird moments where his girlfriend was afraid of her; she said she was not a threat, didn't want to steal her guy, but she was denied to be close to him, to her work.
People sometimes like to do things together with their friends, they do exercise together, they like nature, and they said that’s life, but life sometimes is unpredictable. A girl said she did many things together with her best friend. They went to yoga class, traveling together, and they both liked cosmetics. When she had beauty treatment, she got so many compliments about her complexion from her friend, and she said she found balance between not looking as though she’d done too much. She listened her friend’s advice, went further, had her quarterly facials, which let her doctor cherry-pick between calming, refining and plumping laser treatments, and the result was her ruddy skin color transformed into a perfect looking. When she learned her friend had a body worker, she was very interested, so her friend said like, “It gave me deep massage, it was painful, but it stretched out my tight muscles.” When she and her friend went to interview, chasing their dream, they both got the job, but when they were living the dream, then all of a sudden her friend was sick, so she was shocked, felt sad, said life was unpredictable, and she said like, “Damn, that’s life.”
Daniel Frick
The girl did many things with her best friend who said good things about her beauty treatment; when she had body worker she also was happy for her, and they both got the job after interview! But her friend got sick, she shocked, said life was unpredictable which is true.
Some people said they lived in countryside, got used to Nature, to certain things, but they also said they didn’t realize their weird practices. A girl said when she moved to the big city, she was sort of not easy, but she tried to fit into it. When she changed her hair style, she said she learned from people around her, so her hair style was cool also, not curl, because she thinking straight hair let her achieve loose, and therefore a young, relaxed body. But she still had small town girl habits. Once she took her friend to her place, she put the food on table and said to her like, “Eat!” Her friend was showed, later she told others about it, she said it was funny, but a little weird, and she said like, “It just like my mom beg of me to eat, so I won’t feel hungry.” Other time, the girl went to a party; when she went to bathroom, she found some boys peed by standing there, they peed everywhere, she cleaned a little bit, but the smell was terrible, so she went to backyard, peed around corner. When she told her friend about it, her friend said it was weird, but funny.
Will Grant
The girl changed her hair from curl to straight, looked young, cool; but she was still a country girl, she put food on table, said "eat!" She went to a party, saw boys peed everywhere, so she went to backyard, peed there; her friend said it was weird, but funny.
Sometimes people could be very cool, they just try to be the best of themselves. A girl said she liked exercise, Nature and Eco-living, and she always pursued the best for herself in her own way. When started dating she found her guy was not great, so she didn’t want to waste her time and said “Goodbye.” After tried non-surgical skin tightening treatment she had a young beach-ready body and she said “Goodbye” to her old self. She liked many things, and she was also a fitness pro, so she created a community around her life, which was cool, interesting and sometimes funny. When people said she was a genius, because whether that was a hobby, an activity, or whatever it was, she could let different people be brought into fellowship, working on something, which was a big reward for them. So sometimes she said like, “I’m chill about this,” other times she said like, “Dude, this is hilarious.” But she could also be upset. Once she worked hard with a guy for a while and when the guy getting famous, he did not have acknowledgment of her work, so she was not happy, said like, “It just hurts.”
Scott Tar
The girl tried to be the best of herself; she left her guy, did skin tightening, and she was a fitness pro! When created a community around her life, she and her friends did many cool things, but when a guy didn't acknowledge her she felt bad, said it hurts.
My neighbor’s an activist, she considers some products are huge threat because she finds our environment, ocean, river, are polluted. She also worries about our food because she finds plastic in the fish’s stomach. She seems very smart, always doing the right things, but she regretted for other things, one of them is that she regretted for lost of her friend for years. So she said like, “Am I dumb bitch for letting it happen? Probable.” She said she had a conversation with her friend at the end of their friendship, and said when she met him she was drunken, didn’t know what she was doing. When her friend accused her of stealing her guy she said she didn’t know they were still together, and said like, “You’ll see how we’ve been broken up since then.” She said she still liked her friend, had a tremendous amount of respect for her; she regretted for what had happened, because whenever she felt something happened before, she would always call her friend first; so she said she’d handled the thing stupidly, wrong.
Meridith Thirene
The girl was an activist, worried about environment, food, always doing the right things; but she also regretted for lost of her friend who accused her of stealing her guy, so she said she was a dumb bitch, she was drunken when she did the stupid and wrong thing.
People sometimes want to find something interesting, unique, and some of them did. A guy said he was tired of his routine life and traveled to a faraway place. When he saw a crystal-blue water stretching to the horizon, he was fascinated; then he felt everything empty, except another tourist: She was clad with bikini, and she became his lover! So they talked about their childhood, their passions, and urban life. She said after left her ex she didn’t have any romance. When she got a job, she found she’d gotten so much support, so she was delighted to work even harder, also had some hope; when a coworker said she did a great job, she smiled, said like, “Thank you, and you give me hope.” When her friend said why she liked her coworker, she said he was kind of special, and she was almost falling in love with him; she said it wasn’t with a wave of a magical wand, it was the result of hard working, because they were helping each other, tried their best to get the job done, and he was always kind, helpful. He listened to her, said he was the lucky man; and she smiled.
Kris Silver
He was tired of his boring life, went to a faraway place, met his lover! So they shared everything, their childhood, their life. When she said she liked her coworker, they supported each other, but they just got the job done; so he said he was the lucky guy!
People may say they like countryside, like to be close to Nature, but there are other stories. A guy said he was from a small town, liked to be close to Nature, but he had a difficult childhood. When he realized he was ambitious, he said to his parents that he wanted to see outside world. So he left his so-called paradise, and he did it a little bit dramatically because he escaped from his parents, his hometown! When he lived in city he was struggling for years, he didn’t tell his parents his harsh life, but finally he was okay, and sometimes he was in the middle of glamour, creation, parties, and he said he had a sense of humor. Once he applied for a job, when asked why he should get the job, he said it was his experience and his leadership. He said he had lived in countryside for years and understood how human being functioning. He said human being just liked animals, sometimes they just follow their leader because the leader was more powerful. He said looked at horses and studied them for a while, and found that they having the most powerful one taking the lead, and other horses just follow because they trust their leader; so he said he was that leader, and he got the job.
Robbin Watson
The guy lived in countryside, but he escaped there; he struggling in city for years, but found what he liked; when applied for a job, he said his experience of understanding human being and animals let him have leadership skill and he could be trusted; so he got the job!
Urban life is fascinating. A girl said she and her guy were sometimes funny and had a sense of humor because he liked to let himself and his lover loose sometimes. Once they went to a museum, he only wanted to see nudes, and she wanted to see ancient statues’ marble parts. And on the road back they slowed down for a quickie. When she was accused of being too close to her friend, she was upset, said she was close to many friends, but she never had affair with any of their guys, so she said like, “I was never a wrecker at all, that’s a terrible name.” She said she just wanted to be part of the group, including being someone’s assistant, doing some tricky stuff, and she was proud of being helpful, and said like, “Many people didn’t know about her, nor could they come up with who she really was,” but it didn’t matter, because she helped some people created some great works, and she was respected by them.
Jack Smith
The girl and her guy had some sense of humor, they went to a museum, he only seeing nudes, she men's marble parts; on the way home they had a quickie! When she was accused of having affair, she said was never a home wrecker, she just helping her friend!
Some people find their paradise faraway, others find it nearby their life. A girl said she was strong and independent because she always thinking on her own. Since she was not from a rich family she felt her friends were smart than her and she didn’t belong to any place. When started her career she felt she was rich, chic, because she liked literature, was intellectual, and found her own place. Once she invited some friends to her home, while drinking wine, they also said her home was beautiful, comfortable, so she said she did a lot of redesigns and now she felt her home was her paradise because she did some of her favorite designs at home. When asked how she became a designer, she said she still remembered her go-to looks moments. She said at the beginning she saw others wearing sneakers, boot cut jeans with knee-length frilly dresses, she got some inspiration and decided to be a designer. After traveling around the world her tastes were changed, so she said her recent designs tried to balance between dressy and casual, together with feminine look, rebellious spirit. So they all toasted.
Andrew Christy
When was young she felt her friends were smart than her for she was poor; when became a designer she found her own place; when asked how she got the inspiration she said she got it from life; she traveled a lot, her tastes changed, but still tried her best!
My friend said she was an eye shadow girl and liked to make her lips look bigger. She also liked huge heels because they making her taller. Her personal attachment was her coat because it was not like a party dress she just wearing once, it was comfortable and protected her. When she became a clime change activist, she was attacked by others, so she said her rivals were mean, they spreading rumors, so she said she’d not just sit there, let them attack her, she’d fight tooth and nail to stop them, even it could ruin her chance to win the project. She said she knew her rivals and once they were friends, but somehow there were jealous about her; she said that element of the secret was so deep and dark, that they started spreading rumors about her, said she’d slept with different guys, dumped her ex, who said it was a hurtful betrayal and he’d been holding her shameful practices for so long and now he said it may be not worth holding them anymore. When she talked about it with her partner, she said she was not afraid of her rivals because she had her coat which was so comfortable and could also protected her.
Heather Redman
The girl liked fashion, makeup, and she also liked her coat which was comfortable and protected her. When she became a clime change activist she was attacked for a project, but she said her rivals were jealous, because she was fashionable, smart and having a great partner.
People like exercise, they make friends, and they talk each other. A girl said she was the one with enviable curves, but her boss, her parent and even her boyfriend went beyond that of normal demand; she said she was a reasonable person: she never raised her voice, never called anyone name, never disrespected anyone, and she felt painful. When she was sort of lost, she decided to be herself, not worrying about other’s words, she wanted to move on to realize her dream, and said to her guy like, “Okay, I’m happy now.” So her guy said like, “That’s all that really matters.” When she got a project, she worked really hard, so she was promoted to the next level. When her guy was amazed, she was like, “You know what? Suck it up.” So her guy knew she would just work her way to the top. When asked what about her boss’ reaction, she said her boss changed himself, he liked her a lot, which let her guy feel jealous; she said she also changed a lot, she was no longer to be the girl who scared of raising her voice, she respected others at workplace, but also demanding responsibility and productivity.
Amy Lynch
The girl's curves let others go beyond normal demand, she was upset, but she worked hard, got a promotion; when her guy was sort of jealous, she said her boss liked her, which is interesting and trick.
Urban life let people feel things are complicated and they learn a lot. A girl said she felt many people lacked decency, respect, sometimes putting down others and back-stab, so she made a decision: in order to be her friend, one needed to be polite, nice, not making anyone uncomfortable! She did everything like she said for a while, felt things were complicated because she didn’t have a lot of friends. Once she met a man, she liked him, but he was complicated. He said things didn’t play out the way he’d desired them to; he said he gave all of himself but still coming short, so he felt suffering, had sort of loneliness, bad mood, and he did some stupid things which let his ex leave him. When she said she also had same experience before, which was kind of growing up pain, he said he realized his bad behavior, but he still needed to live on his own, take responsibility, and become a real man; so she said she’d learned a lot after meeting him because before she felt many people lacked decency, so she only wanted to be with polite, nice people, who were not making anyone uncomfortable, but things were much complicated.
Daniel Frick
The girl didn't want to be with people who were not respectful and not so nice, but she met a guy, who was that sort of people she disliked before; he did stupid things, had bad behavior, and he explained why he did, so she learned something which is great.
Sometimes people want to have some simpler time because they can adjust their life. A guy said he sometimes wanted to back to his parent’s simpler time: biking, farmer’s market, cook simple dinner. When met a girl, she said she liked old stuff and sometimes wanted to escape from city life even though she embraced modern time: buying jewelry, fancy clothes, feeling she deserved it. So they went to countryside, enjoyed some simpler time, paradise moment. When he said their meeting was sort of magical moment, she was not totally agreed. She said so-called magical moment could also fool people because once she met a man, she thought she had a magical feeling, felt she was somehow connected, even said like, “We were clicked.” When her feeling and emotion were so high that her whole world felt flipped upside down, she felt something was wrong. So she realized it was because she had accepted a job, so she devoted her energy for it, and said to her friend like, “It’s hard to find any career where there’s no compromise.” When she worked very hard, her boss said like, “You always knew how to draw people in,” she was happy, but her partner was jealous. So she asked her guy like, “Do we have to compromise something?”
Brian Lawrence
The guy had some good time, while the girl wanted to escape from city she also enjoyed modern life. He said their meeting was a magical moment, she said she met a man before, had a magical feeling, but it didn't last long, and said to compromise is not easy.
Urban life is fascinating. A girl said her guy bought her things: jewelries, handbags, clothing. But when she saw her friend’s breakup, she said to herself like, “I’m being bought?” One day she went to a party, she talked a little bit about her guy. She said when she met him he was very nervous, so she felt a little bit exciting because she was sort of overwhelmed with everything. She said she didn’t have any dating for a while, and said like, “After meeting him, somehow he ghosted me.” When asked if she wanted to see him again after that time, she said he was so shy, so she regretted she didn’t get more info from him. She said she thought it wasn’t meant to be a lot at the time but somehow she felt she always knew him and in the back of her head she would meet him again, so she said like, “It’s not over.” When they met again, her guy seemed to be a little different, he was still shy, but he bought her things: jewelries, handbags, clothing. So when she saw her friend’s breakup, she was worried a lit bit, said herself like, “I’m being bought?”
Michael Patt
The girl liked her guy, who bought her things; but she also worried about being bought, for she saw her friend's breakup; she talked about it, said she met him he was very shy, she even didn't get his info, when met him again, he changed, which let her worry!
Some people said they were bored, so they start to travel around world, and they found some hidden gems. Once a girl said she felt nothing exciting, she felt life was boring. When she talked about it with her friend, her friend also felt the same, and said like, “I was bored.” She said she didn’t know how to change her lifestyle, she just working, going home, and sometimes window shopping. So she said if some people could let her feel exciting, she would reward them. So the girl said she used to like many people, sometimes she met a guy, she felt he was cool, and she left it like, “I can’t marry you, but we can have an affair sometime.” The friend said she also experienced something like that, but she said she couldn’t do it any more because it was also boring. When the friend said the biggest challenge was that they may need to understand that life was not to be feeling exciting and they had to accept the fact that life was boring and to live a full life meant to suffer more, the girl said she was sort of accepted the loneliness as part of life, and also sort of understanding that not everyone was going to like her, but she still wanted to find a way to feel good. One day she traveled to a faraway place, she found a laid-back oasis, where she riding camel along the sand, took photos with goats, and she called her friend, said like, “They are cute, well fed.”
Kris Silver
The girl felt life was boring; she talked about it with her friend, so her friend said sometimes she met a guy, didn't want to marry him but could have sex; when the girl felt lonely, she went to a faraway place, found her good feeling, and was excited!
Urban life is colorful. A girl said she had a crush on her neighbor. One day she ran down on him and said some funny shit, and he was like, “Wow, this is crazy.” She said she was nervous, tried to find her cool at that moment, but she felt like all her cool was out the window. When he divorced his wife, she said her guy was the coolest person in the world because from the beginning she had the crush on him he had the same feeling, he just tried his best to control himself, but once a desire started, it never was just a sort of controlling, it was a kind of natural force, it would get the place it would. So the girl was happy for a while, but she discovered something else. She found although her guy made some money, but he liked gambling. One day he went to gamble, he bet all his money on cards and he lost. When he felt he was a fool, she said to him like, “You didn’t give enough money to your mother, who cares of you, but to cards, do they care?” So she remembered the day she ran down on him and said some funny shit. She said he wanted to make some quick money, his intention may be good, but he also lost his coolness. So he said when he starting a new life, he needed money; he said since the time he ran down on her and found she was nervous, he knew she liked him, so he tried his best to control himself; but once he had her, he found it was not easy. So she hugged him, said she was happy.
Andrew Christy
The girl had a crush on her neighbor; when he divorced she said he was the coolest person in the world; when started a new life he needed money, so he went to gamble; one day he was betting all his money and he lost, but she still love him.
Sometimes people just want to enjoy their desires and they don’t care about other’s thinking. A girl said once she went to the pool, sit in a chair naked, stretching her legs out, crossing one over the other, and experienced that strangely comfortable feeling. She was not just enjoying her desire of being naked, she also was ambitious. So she experienced different things. When she met a guy she liked, he said he was like her, had his own dream, so she felt their together would be a good fit, but it wasn’t the case. So she said herself like, “Do you want someone to support you in life and lift you up?” So she decided to look for that person who could support her and lift her up. When she met a man, she felt exited, but her friend waved a flag, saying she was not liking him but just wanted to have a purse, so she could live a comfortable life. She was upset, said she was still ambitious, wanted to realize her dream; she said her partner may lift her up, but she was still comfortable in her own skin, but she admitted she was struggling sometimes because she needed to take care of her partner, working like a nurse to let him have a good mood, live a happy life. When she met her friend again, she said like, “I sometimes want to enjoy my desires and don’t care about other’s thinking, but now…” Her friend said like, “He’s a good fit?” She said like, “I don’t know if I could do it anymore. “
Liz Lewis
The girl wanted to enjoy her desires; she liked being naked, and she was also ambitious. When met a guy she thought they could work together to realize their dream, but that was a little too much; so she met a rich man, but she worked like a nurse!
Life sometimes could have low point and be fragile. A girl said she became a bikini girl: she swimming, walking along the shore, talking to others, but not long ago she was a different person, felt very fragile and painful because she had suffered several failures, had stress, felt pressure, so she started to drink, and almost killed herself. When asked how she came back from her lower point of life, she said the process of coming back was painful. When she enrolled into a mental health program; she learned how to become somber, stopping self-destructive behavior. She was grateful to her friend who had insisted she needed to go to the program, which let her have a crisis intervention process, inspired her to have strength to reconnect with her family, coworkers, and back to normal life. When she had lost all hopes she was thinking about suicide, but she was lucky because her friend had noticed something wrong and she was always around her. When she said she could take care of herself, she said she also had experienced bad things and said like, “We need to look out for each other.” So they started to do exercise, go to dance and swimming. She said before she’d only worn one-pieces, it was her first time wearing bikini! She said her sense of adventure let her determined not to let fear swallow her adventure. When her friend asked how she felt, said like, “How do you feel?” She said like, “It’s the first time I’d ever tried on that sexy bikini;” so her friend said, “You feel…”, she said like, “I feel it hugged me tightly that my hips spilled over the top.” But her friend said like, “You look great!”
Terry Martin
It's true when having low point life could be fragile. She becoming a bikini girl after experienced her lower point of life, because her self-destructive behavior almost got her killed. She was lucky because of her friend who helped her a lot and let her feel strong and adventurous again.
Urban life is complicated. A girl said her guy was busy, working in a company, so she did all the other things: grocery shopping, doing dishes, cleaning, and working at home. But her guy felt those things were simple, easy, which made her ask him like, “Do you think all housekeepers, nannies, working at home people are lazy?” Since she was tired of repeating the same things she worried about their future. When she applying for a project, she thought it could have the potential to be something extraordinary or a disaster, so she said herself like, “If you think it’s worth the risk, you just roll the dice, see what happens.” When she started to work on the project, she was busy, going out a lot, so she could not do other things: grocery shopping, doing dishes, cleaning; when her guy complaining, said she didn’t do those things, she said she was busy, working on her project, just like he working in a company, so she asked him again like, “Do you think all housekeepers, nannies, working at home people are lazy?” He didn’t said a word.
Tiffany Lewis
The girl was smart, she working at home, also doing all those household chores, but her guy felt those things were easy, not real works, so she asked him if all housekeepers, nannies, and those working at home people were lazy, which is really cool.
Some people said they have to work hard because they have expectations; but others said they want to break the cycle of what people expect because expectations were stupid. A girl said she liked many things, but she was still working on being a normal person because people called her a bitch. Since her attitude, her divorce, made others pointing a finger at her, saying she was a failure, but she said it was her choice, a choice of being happy, because she thought sometimes happiness didn’t exist just for staying in a marriage, so she said like, “Staying in marriage to survive? Fear of being alone?” She said sometimes people felt they were entitled to have something, to expect others to do something they had expected, but that could be bad for others, and also could be boring. When she took the less obvious road, she said it could be more rewording; so when she didn’t have any other options in life, except doing this, that, people said she was weird, a stupid girl, but she didn’t care. So she started being herself, breaking the cycle of what people expected, she said she was adventurous because she grew up by discovering what the real world was. So she wanted to experience all again, including failure, nightmares, horror, and she wanted to sex up, to start to her new adventure.
Wes Samarag
The girl did what she could; she was choosing happiness and said it didn't exist in traditional marriage; she did different things and others said she was stupid but she didn't care, wanted to start her new adventure which is cool.
Urban life is really fascinating sometimes. A neighbor said she wanted to show her good side, but people still thinking she’s party girl, saying she just drinks champagne, spends money; now she fights back, saying like, “Don’t you see I work hard? I’m the first one at the office, the last one closing the door?” So someone said she’s smart, quick, and quite teeth. She’s also kind of luck because her boyfriend is also kind of unique. He didn’t have a lot of money, when his resources were wearing thin, he was broke, getting desperate. When he got a call for interview, he was desperate, treated it like live or die situation; so he prepared for the interview all the time, didn’t have time to do any other things, and he just stayed inside for days. After interview he got the job. Later, his coworker asked him why he looked a little funny when doing interview, he said at that time he went for interview without eating for days and his stomach grumbled during the interview because he didn’t have money for food. When he met his girlfriend he said he always worked into late night: Writing his book, script; but now he learned something else, the tricks in his industry: he started to sell himself, to ask around, because he realized it’s just like people ask him if he wants to eat something, to drink a beer. So the neighbor said people think she’s party girl, but she’s also working hard, so they can just go to party, drinking champagne, ask around, and see if the tricks work.
Go Long
The girl not just a party girl, she's also a fighter; when her guy experienced a bizarre situation, got the job, she wants to fight together with him, to sell his works, and to sell themselves which is hilarious.
Clime change may not related to some, but becoming a serious business for others. My neighbor said she used to be a girl who only cared about herself. When she started to date she became a makeup fan. Once her friend was there when she was putting makeup, so the friend asked like, “It will help you attract a potential male?” She felt it was funny, she said like, “It will impress a date, bolster my self-esteem.” So she started her ritual of getting ready to go out: She darkening her eyes, reddening her lips, so she looked more feminine. The friend asked again, “You feel this way you have a layer of protection?” She laughed, never expected makeup had so much fun. When she was hired as PR officer for a clime change and environment protection company, she felt it was her duty, but she needed to fight this battle alone even though she knew she was unprepared. When her friend asked what she wanted to do? She said she wanted going back to her 20s when she was chased by many people and she was really hot, charming and smart. When the beauty expert transferred her from a next door girl to a sexy PR officer, she knew she would rally more people around her and defeat her rivals, who had damaged environment, polluted river, air, they were greedy, ruthless and they wanted to use backstabbing to get what they wanted.
Dana Foyle
The girl changed herself from a makeup fan to s sexy PR officer, fighting for environment protection, greedy companies! She was hot when she was young and she wanted to use it for getting more people's attention and support which is really cool.
People sometimes don’t know what they really want, they may feel their situation is okay, but they also feel they lost something. A girl said since she moved to the city she was kind of liked it because she had more friends, went to different areas and seemed enjoying her life. When she started to eat healthy food and to do exercise, she said she liked yoga, dance, and walking. So she felt living in city is okay and even received a certification. When her friend heard it and said like, “A certification? From where?” She smiled, said like, “From my yoga class,” so her friend said like, “Congratulations!” She smiling too. But she was not sure if she wanted to live in city for her whole life. When she felt like she was doing something good to help others and said every life had meaning and value, some people seemed to be not care about it. So she said when she was very young, her mother was sick, their neighbor came to take care of her mother; when she moved to the city, she experienced cruel treatment, selfish behavior, and greedy mentality, she said it was like dog eat dog; but back in her hometown, people were sweet, and they were good people. So she had kind of nostalgic for the past, for nature, and for that paradise.
Mark William
Feeling lost, not sure about future let many people question their work, lifestyle and value; when the girl said every life had its meaning and value she said from her experience in small town where people were nice, sweet, which she felt lot in big city.
People talking different things when going to gym which could be funny. A guy said he sometimes felt embarrassed because he couldn’t get an erection. When first time he had sex with his girlfriend he had problems getting an erection. He said as a man, he felt like, he was completely failing because he was an embarrassment. So he felt it was shameful, with many emotions, even wanted to cry. When asked how he met his girlfriend, he said he met her when they were doing exercise. He said after meeting his lover she changed a lot. One of the things was that she was not wearing underwear when sleeping, so they could have more sex. But before she always wearing underwear because she was worried it would make it easier for some harmful bacteria to find their way into her vagina and increase the risk of infection. She said she was sticking with her cheating boyfriend for too long and wasted her time. When people said she lowered her standard when dealing with dating, love, she said she didn’t understand her ex’s motives because whenever something happened to her, she felt lost. When she met him she was very happy, even changed her sleeping habit, not wearing underwear, but he disappointed her.
Tim Swann
A different cool story. The man had his problem, the girl also had her own story, when she got ready for her new life she found her guy had problem, which made her guy feel sad.
Urban life may be exciting for some people, but also could feel lonely for others, and they get lost. A girl said at the party that she used to think that lovers were in a group working relationship. There would be fights and unpleasant, but at night, they slept in the same bed and lived peacefully together. There are many problems they must solve, but they must be solved one by one. This is just like what her model friend said: Whenever she accepts a new task, she would get rid of the fat on her body. Once completed her mission, she returned to her daily life, eating, drinking, and having fun as usual. When the girl supported her lover to quit his job and pursue his dream, she started to feel strange, soon she realized she couldn't stand it because her lover was not only busy every day, but also ignored her, which made her feel lonely, feeling uneasy and a sense of loss. When her model friend asked her what had happened, she said that her lover was away from home all the time, sometimes for days, and he was emotionally alienated from her because he had found something he really liked, and it was not her, so she felt pain and lonely. When asked what else she had discovered about her lover, the girl said her guy tried hard to fit in with gay people in his orbit; he also seemed to behavior strangely, learned some funny accent; once he met a black girl on street, he said like, “Oh yeah, what’s up homie?” So she said she didn’t know what to do.
Chris Chapmen
Feeling a sense of loss, alienated from your lover because of pursuing dream which let many people have regret; the girl supported her guy quitting his job to pursue his dream but only got back her sense of loss, loneliness, maybe also his weird behavior.
Some people said they like strong woman as friend, not as lover, which may be true. A girl said when her friend got engaged, she was a little bit surprised, said like, “She just want to get married.” It turned out that her friend first time going out to date, her guy talked about the current situation, but she talked about her bag and her ex-boyfriend. When leaving, he found her drunk at the bar, but he said their date was very good. When the girl asked her how she met her guy, she said she was feeling stressed at work, so she just grabbed a man. When asked whether she would have a future with her guy, she said it was hard to say because she once said to her ex that she would wait until he got a promotion and she could congratulate him. So the girl thinking about herself. She found many people said she was beautiful, capable, and strong, but there was kind of beautiful ugly, so she said like, “They want to be your friends, not as lover?” She said she had some drama because her last boyfriend said he worried about his past, having her ex as his wife. So the girl waited for a long period, but only got the word sorry, which wasted her time. He said she was beautiful, smart, but didn’t want to be with her for life, so she said like, “He didn’t want to commit to me.”
Liz Lewis
Smart and strong women may be good for business, but many men feel difficult to deal with if they becoming lovers because men like to control others and those strong women don't like it.
Urban life is interesting because people enjoyed poking fun at themselves, watching their friends stumble their way through daily life. A girl said she liked mystery, felt weird if someone said it was just a family issue, instead, she said she loved hanging out with different people, to understand better that so called family dynamic. So a lady said she suffered a lot, she struggled, caused her kind of misery for her life; she said sinister things happened and it seemed she was stuck there, being kept there against her will. Another girl said she was still growing up, she said it was hard work because she had to figure out how the society functions, the world works, which let her kept going for a while, but she got bored. She said she almost didn’t have a dad because he was stupid; when she needed helps she called her friends, which let them get sick of it. She said her recent divorce was her choice, and said like, “If there’s no love, why should one stay in the marriage?” She said many people felt there was no love, but they stayed in the marriage because they were afraid of being single again after divorce. But there was a loveless marriage.
Debra Darling
Urban life has everything, some of them are family issues, growing up pain, loveless marriage, so the girl said her divorce is for her own benefits because a loveless marriage is worth nothing and she was not afraid of being single again which is very brave.
Going to gym let people make friends. A girl said she had a lot of expectations and felt pressure, so she went to gym. When a friend complained that she was neither the youngest or oldest in workplace the girl realized her own problems, so said like, “When people like our age, their metabolism stops, gravity starts tearing down, bones start wearing off.” When her friend said sometimes she tried to be stronger, but what happened was it pushed her over the edge, so the girl said like, "It had no fun." Once she and her friend talked about health food. When she said she had bad breath, her friend said she started drinking green tea. So the girl learned that green tea could reduce bad breath, could better oral health. When asked what other stuff could be helpful, her friend said like, “Apple is also good, because it has acids that wash away bacteria that causes bad breath.” She was very interested in the topic and said again like, “What else you know?” The friend said: “Chewing parsley, carrot, basil, celery, also can reduce bad breath.” When she learned that her friend had breakups, but last time was hard, she asked her why, the friend said like, “Because it was betrayal, disloyal and difficult to face.” So the girl said she also had a lot of setbacks and sometimes she felt it was love wasted because she always had a tough moment. But she still wanted to try. When asked how to try, the girl said she was always looking for a partner, but she never met the right person. So this time she signed up for a cruise. She said there were many tourists on the cruise, and she wanted to find a husband there. She said that there were thousands of people on the cruise ship, and even if picked one person out of a thousand, she would probably be able to find one person.
Ann Hanson
A story that let many middle-age people think about their life, career and what they really want because we have so many people working, busy, but realized they still don't have what they really wanted and they wanted to try all the ways till they felt exhausted.
Being pretty and strong may not be easy. A girl said pretty people are fucked-up too, because she had anxiety, depression loneliness, didn't know what she should do with her life. It turned out she had a relationship with a writer for a while. When she broke up with him, she had a strange feeling because he regretted that he had stupidly told her that he was writing harder, so one day he would become famous, then they would not worry about anything. So she realized he was using his way of filling her hunger, painting cakes, letting her wait for that wonderful future. When she became smart and strong, she picked a project, working her butt off until it was done, but she was angry again because her friend said she was home-wrecking, blamed her for damaging her relationship; but she said she would never want to home wreck any relationship. So she had heart broken moment and felt bad. She said she just like everyone's been through, had a long period of feeling lonely, stressful, sometimes she crying in bedroom, then she had to go out, be cheerful, pretending everything was OK.
Diana Gadway
Pretty girls have their own dilemma which is how to deal with their life; some of them married to rich people, others want to prove their worth but they feel they are treated badly which is interesting and funny.
Writing seems fascination, because it deals with many things. Once a girl said after falling in love with her partner, she started writing. She focused on details, dialogue, and complexity of characters. When her writing was adapted to a movie script, her friend said: "It's a funny script, that people can re-watching." When asked how she discovered the story, the girl said: Once they went hiking, her boyfriend jumped off the cliff, which surprised her. When he was swimming in the sea during a violent storm, his attention was very focused as a razor blade, to experience that unique feeling, to that ecstatic feeling that was difficult to encounter in ordinary life. When asked about their current relationship, she said she and her partner had a fight not long ago, but her kindness could influence him and make him back to her. One day she got news, he went a faraway place, discovered a paradise where there were surfers, fishermen, and artists there. He felt as if he had reached the end of the world and captured some characteristics, which he had not found that feeling for a long time. So the friend asked if the girl also searching those lost things, those unique characteristics of like and unforgettable things, the girl nodded. She said he also discovered another thing: People seemed to be on vacation forever, as if they were in a very good mood. He said he wanted to buy her a red and black dress, which could defeat all enemies. Her friend smiled.
Lona Green
A great story and like it a lot. Searching those lost things and those feelings that had unique meanings in life let many people realized what they really wanted were those that they had before and if they could get them back they could be very grateful.
Liz Lewis
A very cool story. Yes, kindness, find lost feelings and unforgettable things work!
Some people think if you develop something and it just falls through, but something else might come. So there are optimistic people there, they talk different things, feel the right parts could find them. Once a girl said she loved a mediterranean diet, which is full of protein, fatty fish, vegetables, fruit, but without any bread, pasta. She said her staying happy and healthy secrets are exercise, sleep enough, socializing a bit, and eat veggie, fruit, protein. But she hit the wall. Once she discovered an area where was changing and the vibe there seemed OK. When she mentioned clime change she realized local people liked culture war. They just didn’t like certain people, they called them autistic people, trans people, high-functioning people. They said there are little difference between them. They were aggressively talking to her, one guy was like, “What’s going on with you, you idiot, jerk.” So her tears were rolling down her cheeks.
Paul Parker
Cultural was is what many people like because we have a country that is divided and many people feel their only hobby is fighting against others.
Lona Green
The girl stopped being a lonely person, wanted to make a statement by saying women could be very different; when working in a restaurant, people liked her, but she said they were creepy; when a guy left a huge tip for her, she said he tried to buy her attention!