A coworker said she used to say she would never buy expensive stuff, be a fancy girl, be sexy, stylish. When her favorite designer has made something that is fixed to her proportions, taste, and she says: “It’s a magic, I love it!” Now she’s a fan of fashion.

Light-skinned: A friend said her dream was to be an actress; once she said at the party that she could be good at acting because she was funny; so a guy said since she was a light-skinned girl, even though she didn’t have experience, but liked movie and makeup, so he wished her the best to play a role in a show. But she realized she also had to deal with the guy who was sometimes weird.

If you’re pretty and you’re in a show business, your director may say: you need to lose weight, so your instinctive desire is you need to consider it because you’re ambitious and want to achieve something; however you may decide to do the opposite because you realized even you do everything others tell you you still need to be yourself.

Low Tech: If your everything is done by high tech, you may feel boring and want to try some product done by handmade; or if you see some people use their hands to make bag, shoes, you may also prefer get thing done with your finger, by low tech, and feel this is the right way to get the job done.

Look Forward: If you start to look forward: your next five years; or you prepare yourself for any given moment: buy fancy stuff for your social events, going out for dinner, meet friends for coffee, you need to think about yourself again so you could look younger, fit for the new environment.

My friend said he returned to his glory days, where he had a mix of sex, art and fantasy, a life of the well-heeled and he said it’s his little world.