Some people like to make jokes, they may feel they are smart, but they may also feel making mistakes. A guy said he liked to made stupid-fun to his coworkers; he also making fun to his girlfriend, blaming her for her laziness. But she was not happy, she fighting back: she joking about him sucker of working, making money.

What’s Up: A girl said she knows all the things her friends do by asking: what’s up; she said they shopping together, buy makeup, jewelry; they also talking on the phone about their boyfriends, lover, breakup; but she also regrets something she’d done; sometimes she had devastating moment, feeling embarrassed, and she doesn’t know what she would do for her future.

My neighbor said she felt she didn’t have the energy, she started to take some steps, eat a real good breakfast: eggs, rye, veggies, banana. which provides protein, fiber, and a little fat. She said it can also balance blood sugar, and regulates her insulin levels.

My friend’s always wanting people to try something new because her passion is about changing status quo. But she’s blamed by her opponents because they said she’s radical, and she feels freak-out and she’s like, “What?”

Enigma & Irony: If your creation, work, were controversial, criticized, you may change your styles; but you may find out some same critics later like your creation, works; so you may feel you’re still an enigma, your work, creation, still remains a riddle, but you are determined to let your voice be heard.

A girl said she envies her friend and wants to be stylish. She always says: “Maybe one day I’ll die my hair, buy fancy clothes.” But it’s just “maybe,” because she doesn’t like to change her routine.

Conscious Learning: If your mother is a biracial person and you find your relatives live in different parts of the world, your conscious learning about your family members may let you have unique view point and creation motivation about fashion and business: a mix of different cultures, races, activities and fun time.

If you prepared long time for your high-stakes moment because you have an important interview, you may feel you’ve tried it like your hit or miss opportunity, but you may regret about your chance because when you needed all your talent, energy, you came short, so you feel bad, thinking about getting some help.

A girl said when she traveling, she found green life is interesting and wants to do something, but she doesn’t know how to have a long-term plan, so she thinks if she jumps into it she may not have enough energy to handle it, if she waits for her plan and her inspiration, it can make her lazy, waiting forever.

If your guy has many problems, issues, and you have a toxic relationship, but you still ignore them. Since you said you’re a victim, but you know what your friends may say?  They may say you’re such a sucker because you’re still with him.

Empathy & Ignored underclass: If your friend offers healthy food in his restaurant and let his customers know about ingredients, you discovered something new, so you realized your other friend also start to do something, she takes action, and her writing, view, reflect the insight through empathy; now you want to take action, you want to be an activist because you think there are some bad law officers and there is an ignored underclass there.

A girl said she used to work for a tech company but she was fighting for her right. While she was a fighter, she never bending to social norms. When she lost everything: job, boyfriend, and living in a small place, she still had her individuality and she said she would never give up her fight.

A girl said she changed a lot after having a child. Since she split from her partner she raised her kid, competed with others, and made money. Now people said she’s a warrior, not gentle, polite anymore, and she said like, “I like a warrior with swords.”

A friend said she thinks people like to control others because she sees man like to control woman and woman like to control man. But she also finds something else: the only moment people lost control but not feeling bad is when they have sex.

A girl said she made some mistakes and people remember her as a mean person; but she doesn’t care about other’s think, she just wants to do her stupid things, hang out with bad guys, until her controversial behavior, craziness, that become objects of joke, for other’s consumption.

A girl said she cares about social issues, but also wants to have a good mood, to feel glamorous, so she wears her favorite clothes, wears red lipstick, and creates graphic eye looks, which boosts her confidence, transforming her day!

If you start your business at home and now you have branch stores, you may say your creation is smart, fearless, powerful, and boundary-pushing, but others may say: you sold yourself because you’re seductive, sexy, oddly.

If your success is based on your instinct, for you say what you feel about a project, a person, no filter, and not play it safe, you may have more confidence, so you feel you’re good at many things, including handle rude men!

A guy said he was from a small town, had a difficult childhood, but he wanted to see outside world. When he managed to escape there, went to a city, worked for different jobs and suffered for years, and now he’s in the middle of glamour, creation, parties, and he has a sense of humor.

A girl said she liked to travel because she could meet different people. When she dated several guys she felt it was difficult to keep their relationship; so she felt she was sort of different girl; she said she still working on being a normal person because people call her a bitch, a whore.

Necessary Qualities: A girl said she has certain rules; she works hard, being nice to others and tried helping people; she also takes care of herself and finds a skin product that has necessary qualities for busy women: it’s gentle, effective, easy to use, and can give them back a gorgeous skin, beautiful face.

If you’re sexy, powerful and your friend is not, you may feel your friend gets more respect, even she’s not sexy. So you may also find when you and your friend go to work, to restaurant, to social with others, you may live in a sexy bubble and even hear people call you a bitch.

My friend cared about her looks in office, on street. She also worried about her skin, her hair, her makeup. So she carried a beauty kit all the time for fighting dry skin, humidity, frizz hair. When met a guy, he said he liked her style, she felt good, started going out with him, but she realized he liked other girls also.

A girl said since she’s the person with enviable curves, so her boss, her parent and even her boyfriend go beyond that of normal demand; but she’s reasonable: she never raised her voice, never called anyone name, never disrespected anyone, and now she feels painful.

A girl said she likes makeup, and wants to save herself; she also realized she’s not dumb, lazy person. Since she used to drink a lot, smoking a pack-a-day, now she wants to stop doing those stupid things, but she still buy cigarettes.

My neighbor said she’s coming from a dis-functional family. She said she witnessed fights, yelling and toxic relationship. When asked what she learned from her background, she said she learned cherish love, never settle for less, and treat others with respect. #nextdoorgirl #danceclass #yogaclass #exerciseandgym #enjoylife

A guy said at the party that he’s coming from a different culture, sometimes ashamed about his way of eating, life style. So a man said like, “Really?” He said yes, but he recently joined the conversations. The man asked. “What conversations?” He said he discussed the embarrassing habits, practices, taboo subjects, then, he felt better, not ashamed.

Experimental Period: If you’re hired as an assistant but need to take a leading role, so you feel challenge; during this experimental period you may perform okay, but your boss wants you to lose weight, put cosmetics, so you refused, you may understand your power, but you created a difficult position.

A guy said his girlfriend is a spender, so his friend asked him if it’s true, he said like, “Yeah,” he said he worries about his future. So the friend said it’s true the guy makes some money, but his girlfriend does house chores, child-care, and those works count too. The friend said he encourages his girlfriend to treat herself. The guy said like, “Really?” The friend said, "Yes, for she makes me a better person, not resent other."

Some Girls: One girl said she was lucky to work in cosmetics industry; another girl said she was the one with stardust over the face; other girls said they’re sexy, their wearing is seductive; and another one said her job is to handle tough situation: announcing the flight is delayed.