A girl said she admires her friend a lot, for her friend is so together. She said her friend works, has family and kids, but she thinks she’s f-ed up as a mom because she’s not happy; she tells everyone her frustration, airs her dirty laundry. She said she tried to learn from her friend but it’s hard.

My neighbor’s smart, quick, but sometimes she was confused because she said she always could find a way to let her life be interesting, but once she encountered unique and weird thing: She flying to a new place, participating in a party, then she eating her pasta, laid-back, got bored, then…, she wanted to start dating.

My friend said she’s got her self-confidence again because her job needs traveling a lot and she worrying about sweat, pollution, and makeup. Since she started to buy expensive skincare products to reduce water loss, prevent dryness, improve elasticity, she not just feels more confident but also get her look back!

Some people said they like to fantasize things and send messages to their crushes because they sometimes would ask which of their friends would they want to go on a date with. So others said they like to flirt because they like to say stuff in a vaguely pattern, and they get the same lies in return.

My friend seemed to be a different person because she did face massage, which shifted trapped fluid on face, drained away puffiness, toned muscle, and stimulated micro-circulation. So she said like, “That’s why people said I’m different because my skin looks wonderful!”

My friend’s a people person, he lived in foreign countries, which let him be good at dealing with different people, customers, and sourcing providers. When he went to travel last time, he not just got the job done, but also found his lover in life, and he’s brilliant! 

My friend said she tried to avoid being perceived as tricky, difficult, and arrogant in the workplace; so she never raised her voice because it runs the risk of being labeled, but she still had some heated moments and intimidating situation where she didn’t know if she should stand up for herself.

My coworker’s very nice and kind because she’s learned a lot from her friend and she always keeps herself in check, asking herself if she did some crap thing, not being kind to others, and said sometimes she’s not good enough for certain things.

A guy said he liked something, but disliked other things, so his girlfriend was puzzled; when he said he not loyal to some brands, groups, her girlfriend was not happy because she felt his attitude made her difficult to have a long-term plan.

My friend’s very nice and kind because she’s learned a lot from her daily life. Now she always keeps herself in check, asking herself if she said a lot of crap, being kind to others. Sometimes she reminds herself that she needs to realize that she’s not good enough for certain things, others are better than her.

My coworker was from a small town, had a difficult childhood, but he was ambitious and wanted to see outside world. Instead of farming, watching trains passing he escaped from his hometown! Now he’s in the middle of glamour, creation, parties, and has a sense of humor.

My neighbor said she’s still working on being a normal person because people call her a bitch. Since her attitude, her divorce, made others pointing a finger at her, saying she’s a failure, but she said it’s her choice, a choice of being happy, because she thinks sometimes happiness didn’t exist just for staying in a marriage. 

A friend said he’s a people person, he lived in foreign countries, which let him be good at dealing with different people, customers, and sourcing providers. When he goes to travel again, this time he not just gets the job done, but also finds his lover in life.

A friend said likes to travel, and his job is creating images; when he worked with an artist he learned some tricks, but he suffered also, felt his career was daunting: he did not make money, though he still cherishes his choice, he sometimes asking himself: “Keep going?”

A guy said he liked to travel, help others and be a volunteer. But sometimes he also said silly things, making stupid jokes; so people said he some times seemed to offer support, advice, other times not; once he argued, said, “What if one says ‘I speak from the heart, do what I like’”, other people said like, “Even it’s crazy?” He didn’t know how to answer.

A guy said after his coworkers complaining about sex harassment he left the company, he said he wanted to save himself and realized he was not dumb, lazy person. Since he used to drink a lot, smoking a pack-a-day, he wanted to stop doing those stupid things, but he still buying cigarettes.

A girl said after dating for several guys she felt she was hitting the grown-up dating world. She regretted for staying with her exes for too long and her last relationship was miserable, but she feared of being alone. When she dating a man again she felt weird, and said herself like, “This awkward relationship may be what grown-up love felt like?”

My neighbor liked charity activities, she’s a blabbermouth because she tells people everything: her friends, family, job. When started to date she met a guy, who just likes her: He’s also eager to tell everything.

A girl said she felt she was a winner because she married to a rich person, but her friends say she was a gold digger, which made her change herself. Now she’s interested in helping others: she uses her money, influence to make other’s life better.

A girl said she’s very busy, and has a lot to worry. She always feels tired: she just gets things done every day, then she goes back, eats, sleeps. Sometimes she’s so tired, she falls asleep on buss, on a plane, even in an upright position.

My friend likes to be volunteer, she also does charity things, so she said she’s always scrambling when has meeting. Now she finds out what’s best for her and likes her own pace. So she said to her coworker that she’d learned something about BYOB: “Be your own bestie,” her coworker laughed.

A girl said she was very fashionable for a while but did all those things for just surviving because she was alone. Since she making a living by being sexy towards men she felt no shame, just hard working because it was her life.

My neighbor said she made a mistake before when she was fashionable and dreamed to be successful; so she started to figure out something and learned how to fit in for a new environment, she said her unintentionally flirting was hilarious, but it incited desire. So she objectified herself and went into it willingly.  

A friend said she thinks people like to control others because she sees man like to control woman and woman like to control man. But she also finds something else: the only moment people lost control but not feeling bad is when they have sex.

My friend is a people person, he lived in foreign countries, which let him be good at dealing with different people, customers, and sourcing providers. When he go to travel again for a fashion company, this time he not just gets the job done, but also finds his lover in life.  

If you’re a person of full spectrum, you may want to be a capable person, but you may also feel you are vulnerable; so sometimes you feel you like being a good person, but other day a bad guy because you have to make difficult decisions and you don’t know how to handle.

A guy said he was from a small town, had a difficult childhood, but he wanted to see outside world. When he managed to escape there, went to a city, worked for different jobs and suffered for years, and now he’s in the middle of glamour, creation, parties, and he has a sense of humor.

My neighbor said when she was young she wanted to accomplish something, have personal fulfillment because she didn’t want to be like her mother, who fell in love when she was young and her life was just raising children, doing things like many women do. After accomplishing something, she said she wanted to like her mother, to have kids, so she could have both.    

If you’re sexy, powerful and your friend is not, you may feel your friend gets more respect, even she’s not sexy. So you may also find when you and your friend go to work, to restaurant, to social with others, you may live in a sexy bubble and even hear people call you a bitch.

My neighbor had an early marriage and then ended up divorce. While her mother, friend, blamed on her stupidity, she started to date again. Now she’s smart: she gets her mother, friend’s advice, she even audits candidates for next date, and not let her guy being close to her body.