Some girls said they are ambitious, hyper-focused. It turns out they just want something easy, something that could let them have everything. So a girl said she’s waiting for her moment. When asked what her moment is, she said when moved to that mansion, her dream would be succeeded, so she can have a stylish party, walk on the beach in bikini.

My coworker said she started to pay attention to her body. She said when she found there was a problem with her, so she realized it was her eating habit. She started eating healthy food, she’s eating good bacteria, because she has to balance good and bad bacteria in her body. It will also help her digest, improve brain function, immunity, and have a happier life.

My friend is career girl, but she said professionalism is a flow. She said she’s been there for many years and she feels bad, because she’s stuck there; she said sometimes she hated professionalism because it means control. She said when you’re in that field, you’re in the box. Then you have a crisis.

A girl said her industry needed her to sell her beauty, glamour. She said she worked hard, had sort of success, but she encountered dilemma. Since she realized her aging, she had to make a decision, still working there or doing something else, and she met a guy. She said her onetime strained relationship had a nice ending because for years later people still remember her as his secret lover.

When a girl said at the party that she might get divorce, some people were shocked, so a friend asked her like, “Really?” The girl said like, “Yep.” She was seriously, said again, “You see, this is why I could never stay married for long.” So another friend said to her like, “Look, I know it doesn’t make sense. But what she tries to say? She may just need some time off. Time off, huh?” They all laughed.

A girl said she likes shopping around, making her feel good everyday; she also likes controversial topics, when asked what kind of controversial topics are, she said she likes controlling, was snobbery, but she sometimes still feels powerless, for she was manipulated by her exes, her spouse, so she said she lost patience, could not endure more.

My friend’s coming from a different culture, sometimes she was ashamed about her way of eating, life style. But recently she joined the conversations, talked about her hometown, their life there, and she even discussed the embarrassing habits, practices, taboo subjects. Then she said she felt better, not ashamed.

A girl said her beauty treatment let her experience both trauma and cute. She said she liked nose job, body-sculpting, fat-freezing, skin vacuuming, but after recent face treatment there’s after-burn, so for a while she couldn’t go out to see people because she looked terrible, resembling a barbecue.

Some people don’t care about other’s words, they just do what they like. A girl said her ex was a bad guy, so she left him; but she’s still herself, a cool girl, and she spends money on clothing, makeup, skincare products. She hated frugal living, likes modern life. So she wears strong-shouldered jacket, leggy mini, and spends big money on everything, including flying to meet her lover.

My neighbor said she grew up in a remote area, but had a lot of love. So a friend was curious, said like, “Really?” The neighbor said yes, but when she moved to city, she experienced trauma and tragedy. The friend said again, “Trauma and tragedy?” She said yep, so started her creations, and her creative works depict her lost love and her people.

A guy said he changed his eating habit. for a fit lifestyle. So his friend asked like, “What you eat?” He said he stopped eating meat for having muscles. The friend said, “You excise?” He said yes. He said cows eating grass, their protein coming from plants. So he stopped eating meat. The friend puzzled, asked again, “You eating grass?” He laughed.

My coworker said she feels her friends are sensitive, so she needs to censor herself. But before she said she would do the opposite when others did the same thing because she wanted to say what she felt, writing what she wanted, even though someone she tried to make her like something she was not.

A guy said his girlfriend is a spender, so he worries about their future. But his friend not agreed, said he makes money, it’s true, but she does house chores, child-care, and those works count too. He said he encourages his girlfriend to treat herself, buy makeup, which also makes him a better person, not resent others.

My friend said when he was a little kid he was not aware his dad’s friends were odd, eccentric. But now his business also made him odd, eccentric because he’s ambitious and greedy. He tried to control himself but still argued with his girlfriend because she likes being fashionable and sexy and he feels she’s lazy. #hateloverelationship #beinglazy #feelsexy #controlyourself #pursueyourdream #businesstrick #femalefault

My neighbor said she felt lucky that she didn’t choose a major when was young because she knew there were certain things she wanted. When she met some friends who were professionals she had an idea of becoming a designer and she started her business.

A girl said she did all those things for surviving because she was alone, together with her child. Since she making a living by being sexy towards men she feels no shame, just hard working because it’s her life and she said she has no other choice but working with men, being nice to them.

A friend said when she was young she wanted to accomplish something, have personal fulfillment because she didn’t want to be like her mother, who fell in love when she was young and her life was just raising children, doing things like many women do. But now she wants, after accomplishing something, like her mother, she wants to have kids, so she can have both!

My neighbor said her life and success are always linked to fear. When she was young she supposed to go out and have sex but she feared people would say: “You’re a slut.” When she got a good job she had fear and thought: “People may find out I’m not as good as I said. People may think I’m a lie, I may get fired.”

A girl said her attitudes are changing because she thinks her hair color doesn’t have to match her nature. Now she uses different color for her hair, lip, and by trying a range of colors she feels adventurous. She still fears not being taken seriously at work because some color is still perceived as edgy.

My neighbor said she lived in different places, and felt she always in a gray area, because she was afraid to trust people for she didn’t know who had her best interests at heart; when she got upset by some people, such as moral dilemma, her guy cheated on her, she didn’t know what to do, who was right for her, even asked herself like, “What should I do?”

My friend said she tried to avoid being perceived as tricky, difficult, and arrogant in the workplace; so she never raised her voice because it runs the risk of being labeled, but she still had some heated moments and intimidating situation where she didn’t know if she should stand up for herself.

My friend started her business at home and now she has branch stores. She said her creation is smart, fearless, powerful, and boundary-pushing; but others said she sold herself because she’s seductive, sexy, oddly.

My neighbor changed a lot after having a child. Since she split from her partner she raised her kid, competed with others, and made money. Now people said she’s a warrior, not gentle, polite anymore, and she said like, “I like a warrior with swords.”

A friend said she worked very hard and tried to get a promotion. When she started to work there she found she may not have a crossover appeal and could not assimilate there because she tried to fit in, questioned yourself if she was in the wrong business and even felt hopeless, pathetic.

A girl said she’s changed her lifestyle and after work, she exercises, social and meeting with friends; she said she doesn’t like being intense anymore, so sometimes she likes walking around, which becomes her luxury stuff because she can think about challenges ahead.

My coworker said she used to travel, and knew her body well. She said she could endure long hours of walking and recovered her energy quickly. The trick was she thinking her body type was power-based, it meant she needed to eat meat, protein to keep her have energy, but now she’s sitting in office, worrying about eating behavior, weight and energy.

A girl said she likes arts, sports, but feels many people lacked decency, respect, sometimes they put down others and they back stab, so she said she’d made a decision: in order to be her friend, one needs to be polite, nice, not making anyone uncomfortable!

My neighbor’s sexy, powerful and her friend is not, but she feels her friend gets more respect, even she’s sexy-less. When she goes to work, to restaurant, to social with others, she feels she lives in a sexy bubble and even hears people call her a bitch.

My neighbor said she’s still working on being a normal person because people call her a bitch. Since her attitude, her divorce, made others pointing a finger at her, saying she’s a failure, but she said it’s her choice, a choice of being happy, because she thinks sometimes happiness didn’t exist just for staying in a marriage. 

My friend likes makeup, she said she worked for a company for so long, felt exhausted and finally got a promotion, which is her breaking point. Now she considers herself a late bloomer because she can say no to certain things, even though she complained about working there like a slave.