My neighbor said she’s still working on being a normal person because people call her a bitch. Since her attitude, her divorce, made others pointing a finger at her, saying she’s a failure, but she said it’s her choice, a choice of being happy, because she thinks sometimes happiness didn’t exist just for staying in a marriage. 

My friend likes makeup, she said she worked for a company for so long, felt exhausted and finally got a promotion, which is her breaking point. Now she considers herself a late bloomer because she can say no to certain things, even though she complained about working there like a slave.

My friend said she had an early marriage and then ended up divorce. While her mother, friend, blamed on her stupidity, she started to date again and she became smart because she let her mother, friend giving her advice, and she not let boys being close to her body.

A girl said she tried to avoid being perceived as tricky, difficult, in the workplace; so she avoids to raise her voice, which runs the risk of being labeled even though there were some heated moments and intimidating situation; so she asked should she stand up for herself?

My neighbor’s pretty, sharp, and her coworkers don’t like her; but her cry becoming a resistance, because she doesn’t want to be judged by others likes, don’t likes, even though she’s sexy, she still doesn’t want to feel she’s treated differently by her look.

A girl said she accepted doctor’s advice and has a go-to formula because she missed out on many years of looking great. Now she embraces her skin tone, buying cruelty-free, environmentally friendly skin products to take care of her skin problem.

Some people like to make jokes, they may feel they are smart, but they may also feel making mistakes. A guy said he liked to made stupid-fun to his coworkers; he also making fun to his girlfriend, blaming her for her laziness. But she was not happy, she fighting back: she joking about him sucker of working, making money.

What’s Up: A girl said she knows all the things her friends do by asking: what’s up; she said they shopping together, buy makeup, jewelry; they also talking on the phone about their boyfriends, lover, breakup; but she also regrets something she’d done; sometimes she had devastating moment, feeling embarrassed, and she doesn’t know what she would do for her future.

My neighbor said she felt she didn’t have the energy, she started to take some steps, eat a real good breakfast: eggs, rye, veggies, banana. which provides protein, fiber, and a little fat. She said it can also balance blood sugar, and regulates her insulin levels.

My friend’s always wanting people to try something new because her passion is about changing status quo. But she’s blamed by her opponents because they said she’s radical, and she feels freak-out and she’s like, “What?”

Enigma & Irony: If your creation, work, were controversial, criticized, you may change your styles; but you may find out some same critics later like your creation, works; so you may feel you’re still an enigma, your work, creation, still remains a riddle, but you are determined to let your voice be heard.

A girl said she envies her friend and wants to be stylish. She always says: “Maybe one day I’ll die my hair, buy fancy clothes.” But it’s just “maybe,” because she doesn’t like to change her routine.

Conscious Learning: If your mother is a biracial person and you find your relatives live in different parts of the world, your conscious learning about your family members may let you have unique view point and creation motivation about fashion and business: a mix of different cultures, races, activities and fun time.

If you prepared long time for your high-stakes moment because you have an important interview, you may feel you’ve tried it like your hit or miss opportunity, but you may regret about your chance because when you needed all your talent, energy, you came short, so you feel bad, thinking about getting some help.

A girl said when she traveling, she found green life is interesting and wants to do something, but she doesn’t know how to have a long-term plan, so she thinks if she jumps into it she may not have enough energy to handle it, if she waits for her plan and her inspiration, it can make her lazy, waiting forever.

If your guy has many problems, issues, and you have a toxic relationship, but you still ignore them. Since you said you’re a victim, but you know what your friends may say?  They may say you’re such a sucker because you’re still with him.

Empathy & Ignored underclass: If your friend offers healthy food in his restaurant and let his customers know about ingredients, you discovered something new, so you realized your other friend also start to do something, she takes action, and her writing, view, reflect the insight through empathy; now you want to take action, you want to be an activist because you think there are some bad law officers and there is an ignored underclass there.

A girl said she used to work for a tech company but she was fighting for her right. While she was a fighter, she never bending to social norms. When she lost everything: job, boyfriend, and living in a small place, she still had her individuality and she said she would never give up her fight.

A girl said she changed a lot after having a child. Since she split from her partner she raised her kid, competed with others, and made money. Now people said she’s a warrior, not gentle, polite anymore, and she said like, “I like a warrior with swords.”

A friend said she thinks people like to control others because she sees man like to control woman and woman like to control man. But she also finds something else: the only moment people lost control but not feeling bad is when they have sex.

A girl said she made some mistakes and people remember her as a mean person; but she doesn’t care about other’s think, she just wants to do her stupid things, hang out with bad guys, until her controversial behavior, craziness, that become objects of joke, for other’s consumption.

A girl said she cares about social issues, but also wants to have a good mood, to feel glamorous, so she wears her favorite clothes, wears red lipstick, and creates graphic eye looks, which boosts her confidence, transforming her day!

If you start your business at home and now you have branch stores, you may say your creation is smart, fearless, powerful, and boundary-pushing, but others may say: you sold yourself because you’re seductive, sexy, oddly.

If your success is based on your instinct, for you say what you feel about a project, a person, no filter, and not play it safe, you may have more confidence, so you feel you’re good at many things, including handle rude men!

A guy said he was from a small town, had a difficult childhood, but he wanted to see outside world. When he managed to escape there, went to a city, worked for different jobs and suffered for years, and now he’s in the middle of glamour, creation, parties, and he has a sense of humor.

A girl said she liked to travel because she could meet different people. When she dated several guys she felt it was difficult to keep their relationship; so she felt she was sort of different girl; she said she still working on being a normal person because people call her a bitch, a whore.

Necessary Qualities: A girl said she has certain rules; she works hard, being nice to others and tried helping people; she also takes care of herself and finds a skin product that has necessary qualities for busy women: it’s gentle, effective, easy to use, and can give them back a gorgeous skin, beautiful face.

If you’re sexy, powerful and your friend is not, you may feel your friend gets more respect, even she’s not sexy. So you may also find when you and your friend go to work, to restaurant, to social with others, you may live in a sexy bubble and even hear people call you a bitch.

My friend cared about her looks in office, on street. She also worried about her skin, her hair, her makeup. So she carried a beauty kit all the time for fighting dry skin, humidity, frizz hair. When met a guy, he said he liked her style, she felt good, started going out with him, but she realized he liked other girls also.

A girl said since she’s the person with enviable curves, so her boss, her parent and even her boyfriend go beyond that of normal demand; but she’s reasonable: she never raised her voice, never called anyone name, never disrespected anyone, and now she feels painful.