My friend said she used to shop online, and now she started a bricks-and-mortar-store. She said once she ordered some artworks online, and she was shocked because she said they failed to meet her expectations. She said they looked crap, but expensive. So she felt it’s better seeing something, feeling good, and then buying, which let her started a business.

A girl said her attitudes are changing because she thinks her hair color doesn’t have to match her nature. Now she uses different color for her hair, lip, and by trying a range of colors she feels adventurous. She still fears not being taken seriously at work because some color is still perceived as edgy.

A girl said she felt she was a winner because she married to a rich person, but her friends say she was a gold digger, which made her change herself. Now she’s interested in helping others: she uses her money, influence to make other’s life better.

If you left your hometown, working the edgy and the ancient with an old-world- style austerity in a new city, you many talk about flexibility, proposed options for beauty, and found your new freedom, because sometimes you may be confrontational, other times you may be a peacemaker.