A guy said after his coworkers complaining about sex harassment he left the company, he said he wanted to save himself and realized he was not dumb, lazy person. Since he used to drink a lot, smoking a pack-a-day, he wanted to stop doing those stupid things, but he still buying cigarettes.

A girl said after dating for several guys she felt she was hitting the grown-up dating world. She regretted for staying with her exes for too long and her last relationship was miserable, but she feared of being alone. When she dating a man again she felt weird, and said herself like, “This awkward relationship may be what grown-up love felt like?”

A girl said since left her ex she has changed herself, it means she’s learned to have a strong personality because she would lie to cover her mistake. So she said she thinks everyone lying: kids lying for not finishing homework, adults lying for easier convenience, and telling truth? May be difficulty to handle.

My coworker said after cheated by her ex she decided to find a real lover. She used her lunch time, gym, to see if there was a dating potential, a good man. She also diet, containing her bad behavior, smiling to everyone, to try her best to capture a lover.

My neighbor said when she met a guy, she wanted to create an atmosphere of true consent: It ment when she said “No”, the guy could not force a “Yes”. She said she’d changed herself after leaving her ex, she also wanted to satisfy herself, had deep human urge, and wanted to feel sexually and emotionally special, but only when she wanted. 

A friend said she started to date a man after leaving her ex, all she could see was his cool, polite side. When he applied for a job, he thinking it was a sure bet, for he said he met the qualifications, but he forgot to delete his nasty words online.

My neighbor said her ex always exaggerated things. If he worked for a company one year, he said he worked there for several years. Once he gave her some stuff and she said they smelling good, and he said they were from a garden with seasonal ingredients. So she said she was tired of his exaggerations, when she learned he was flirting with a girl, she just left him.

A girl said she met a guy, attracted by his allure, and she became his secret lover. But her pain and disillusion let her grow fast, she even said: They nurtured her career, let her become an independent. #thingsjusthappened #geniusandfool #datingandsex #shockingthings #addictedtosex #feellonely #lifeexperience #mademistakes

Empathy & Ignored underclass: If your friend offers healthy food in his restaurant and let his customers know about ingredients, you discovered something new, so you realized your other friend also start to do something, she takes action, and her writing, view, reflect the insight through empathy; now you want to take action, you want to be an activist because you think there are some bad law officers and there is an ignored underclass there.

My neighbor said she liked green life but was involved into a scandal, she still doesn’t care about other’s feeling after leaving her ex who manipulated her because she said things she liked are weird, and her world is sexy, where it has brain injury, absurdities and surprise.

My friend said she changed her view about vanity and fashion after leaving her ex. She used to be different and her parents’ union was not without its flaws. When she was in college she yearned to fit in, after college she had stress, met a guy, but she was abused and manipulated by him.

A girl said she made some mistakes and people remember her as a mean person; but she doesn’t care about other’s think, she just wants to do her stupid things, hang out with bad guys, until her controversial behavior, craziness, that become objects of joke, for other’s consumption.

If you start your business at home and now you have branch stores, you may say your creation is smart, fearless, powerful, and boundary-pushing, but others may say: you sold yourself because you’re seductive, sexy, oddly.

My coworker said she always gives tips to her friends: how to enjoy life, spend weekend reading newspapers on bed, and try local food. Now she said her friend has surpassed her because she gives her tips such as how to have a perfect romance, get right skincare products and look young and cool.

A guy said he was jealous and angry because once he saw a man saying hello to her girlfriend. When she started to question his cheating, his crazy behavior, and wanted him to tell his secrets, he realized she knew everything he did behind her, so he regretted about getting jealous and angry.

A girl said when she was young she had ambitions to be famous. When met her guy she found she realized her dream because her boyfriend was sort of famous. Then they went to travel, to social clubs, until she felt she’d made a mistake because her guy had been with many girls.

My friend cared about her looks in office, on street. She also worried about her skin, her hair, her makeup. So she carried a beauty kit all the time for fighting dry skin, humidity, frizz hair. When met a guy, he said he liked her style, she felt good, started going out with him, but she realized he liked other girls also.

If your guy said silly things, making stupid jokes, even cheating on you, what would you do? You may get upset, but you may also feel he sometimes seemed to offer support, advice; but what if he says: “I speak from the heart, do what I like”, even it’s crazy?

My neighbor said she’s coming from a dis-functional family. She said she witnessed fights, yelling and toxic relationship. When asked what she learned from her background, she said she learned cherish love, never settle for less, and treat others with respect. #nextdoorgirl #danceclass #yogaclass #exerciseandgym #enjoylife

Grim Subject: If you’ve worked in some jewelry designs, your grim subject may base on your experience: your emotion, feeling, mood; you may feel proud of your designs for you’ve done something without being told by others.

My coworker said she likes fashion, green life, and other things, but her friends are sensitive, so she needs to censor herself. Sometimes she does the opposite, not says what she feels, writes what she wants, even though someone said she tried to make her like something she’s not.

Some Girls: One girl said she was lucky to work in cosmetics industry; another girl said she was the one with stardust over the face; other girls said they’re sexy, their wearing is seductive; and another one said her job is to handle tough situation: announcing the flight is delayed.

If you feel you don’t have the energy, you may start to take some steps; you may eat a real good breakfast: eggs, rye, veggies, banana. which provides protein, fiber, and a little fat; it can also balance blood sugar, and regulates your insulin levels.

A girl said she felt she always lived in a gray area, because she was afraid to trust people for she didn’t know who had her best interests at heart; when she got upset by things in the moment, such as moral dilemma, or her guy cheated on her, she didn’t know what to do, who was right for her, even asked herself like, “What should I do?”

If you feel you’re lucky to have a job, but your job needs to look good and make money, you may try to control yourself, don’t want to be difficult, because your way of being nice, gratitude, politeness, many finally reach a question: how much your payment could be.

My coworker changed a lot after having a child. Since she split from her partner she raised her kid, competed with others, and made money. Now people said she’s a warrior, not gentle, polite anymore, and she said like, “I like a warrior with swords.”

Necessary Qualities: If you have certain rules; work hard, be nice, help others, you may find something else: a skin product that has necessary qualities for busy women because it’s gentle, effective, easy to use, and can give you back a gorgeous skin, beautiful face.

A girl said her dating goes nowhere, so she made a power move, farewell to her guy for good. When she started to fashion design her products, she needs to make another decision and said herself, “My product will be elegant or is for street wearer?” She decided quickly and said like, “It’s kind of ready to wash and go!”

A girl said she likes travel and knows her body well. She can endure long hours of working and recover her energy quickly. The trick is she thinks her body type is power-based, it means she needs to eat meat, protein to keep her have energy.

My friend said her guy is amazing: he can turn ordinary stuff into wonderful things. He also is unique: when she spending his money, he thinks there is a beauty there. #travelingandspending #shoppingexperience #romanticpeople #friendsforlife #makeupfans #beautyproducts #girlstime #funnythings #lookperfect #fancyparty #pinchmemoment #dreamhouse