A girl said she’s changed her lifestyle and after work, she exercises, social and meeting with friends; she said she doesn’t like being intense anymore, so sometimes she likes walking around, which becomes her luxury stuff because she can think about challenges ahead.

My friend has a business, and she's sort of genius. But she also regretted what she’d done for she didn’t have enough information at moments; she said she liked her ex at the beginning, she just didn’t understand why he lived at moments, telling her to try all the shit that didn’t work!

My friend said her success is based on her emotion, her instinct, and her hard working because when she feels about a project, a person, she didn’t have filter, and she didn’t want to play it safe. So she learned different things, has more confidence, and feels she’s good at many things!

My friend said she didn’t plan on doing those things because she felt she didn’t fit into that world where there were scandals. Since she went through an awkward period, surrounded by strange people, she needed to work very hard, to develop her personality, to make a living.

My neighbor said her ex was sort of weirdo, he bragged about how he encountered a girl who liked to be treated like a sex object; he said this way she just needed by posing nude, by sex-objected herself right into the right men. So she left him.

My neighbor said after leaving her ex she met a guy who was a writer; she said he always worked into late night, writing his book, script; but now he learned something else, the tricks in his industry: he starts to sell himself, to ask around, because he realized it’s just like people ask him if he wants to eat something, to drink a beer.

My neighbor questioned herself after a scandal, though she still dreamed to be a model, to have bikini shots of her bums. She also wanted to be sexy, but she never had big boobs! She said she’d sacrificed a lot, thought she had some choices, but she still needed to learn to live with loose ends.

A guy said after his coworkers complaining about sex harassment he left the company, he said he wanted to save himself and realized he was not dumb, lazy person. Since he used to drink a lot, smoking a pack-a-day, he wanted to stop doing those stupid things, but he still buying cigarettes.

A girl said after dating for several guys she felt she was hitting the grown-up dating world. She regretted for staying with her exes for too long and her last relationship was miserable, but she feared of being alone. When she dating a man again she felt weird, and said herself like, “This awkward relationship may be what grown-up love felt like?”

A girl said since left her ex she has changed herself, it means she’s learned to have a strong personality because she would lie to cover her mistake. So she said she thinks everyone lying: kids lying for not finishing homework, adults lying for easier convenience, and telling truth? May be difficulty to handle.

My coworker said after cheated by her ex she decided to find a real lover. She used her lunch time, gym, to see if there was a dating potential, a good man. She also diet, containing her bad behavior, smiling to everyone, to try her best to capture a lover.

My neighbor said when she met a guy, she wanted to create an atmosphere of true consent: It ment when she said “No”, the guy could not force a “Yes”. She said she’d changed herself after leaving her ex, she also wanted to satisfy herself, had deep human urge, and wanted to feel sexually and emotionally special, but only when she wanted. 

A friend said she started to date a man after leaving her ex, all she could see was his cool, polite side. When he applied for a job, he thinking it was a sure bet, for he said he met the qualifications, but he forgot to delete his nasty words online.

My neighbor said her ex always exaggerated things. If he worked for a company one year, he said he worked there for several years. Once he gave her some stuff and she said they smelling good, and he said they were from a garden with seasonal ingredients. So she said she was tired of his exaggerations, when she learned he was flirting with a girl, she just left him.

A girl said she met a guy, attracted by his allure, and she became his secret lover. But her pain and disillusion let her grow fast, she even said: They nurtured her career, let her become an independent. #thingsjusthappened #geniusandfool #datingandsex #shockingthings #addictedtosex #feellonely #lifeexperience #mademistakes

Empathy & Ignored underclass: If your friend offers healthy food in his restaurant and let his customers know about ingredients, you discovered something new, so you realized your other friend also start to do something, she takes action, and her writing, view, reflect the insight through empathy; now you want to take action, you want to be an activist because you think there are some bad law officers and there is an ignored underclass there.

My neighbor said she liked green life but was involved into a scandal, she still doesn’t care about other’s feeling after leaving her ex who manipulated her because she said things she liked are weird, and her world is sexy, where it has brain injury, absurdities and surprise.

My friend said she changed her view about vanity and fashion after leaving her ex. She used to be different and her parents’ union was not without its flaws. When she was in college she yearned to fit in, after college she had stress, met a guy, but she was abused and manipulated by him.

A girl said she made some mistakes and people remember her as a mean person; but she doesn’t care about other’s think, she just wants to do her stupid things, hang out with bad guys, until her controversial behavior, craziness, that become objects of joke, for other’s consumption.

If you start your business at home and now you have branch stores, you may say your creation is smart, fearless, powerful, and boundary-pushing, but others may say: you sold yourself because you’re seductive, sexy, oddly.

My coworker said she always gives tips to her friends: how to enjoy life, spend weekend reading newspapers on bed, and try local food. Now she said her friend has surpassed her because she gives her tips such as how to have a perfect romance, get right skincare products and look young and cool.

A guy said he was jealous and angry because once he saw a man saying hello to her girlfriend. When she started to question his cheating, his crazy behavior, and wanted him to tell his secrets, he realized she knew everything he did behind her, so he regretted about getting jealous and angry.

A girl said when she was young she had ambitions to be famous. When met her guy she found she realized her dream because her boyfriend was sort of famous. Then they went to travel, to social clubs, until she felt she’d made a mistake because her guy had been with many girls.

My friend cared about her looks in office, on street. She also worried about her skin, her hair, her makeup. So she carried a beauty kit all the time for fighting dry skin, humidity, frizz hair. When met a guy, he said he liked her style, she felt good, started going out with him, but she realized he liked other girls also.

If your guy said silly things, making stupid jokes, even cheating on you, what would you do? You may get upset, but you may also feel he sometimes seemed to offer support, advice; but what if he says: “I speak from the heart, do what I like”, even it’s crazy?

My neighbor said she’s coming from a dis-functional family. She said she witnessed fights, yelling and toxic relationship. When asked what she learned from her background, she said she learned cherish love, never settle for less, and treat others with respect. #nextdoorgirl #danceclass #yogaclass #exerciseandgym #enjoylife

Grim Subject: If you’ve worked in some jewelry designs, your grim subject may base on your experience: your emotion, feeling, mood; you may feel proud of your designs for you’ve done something without being told by others.

My coworker said she likes fashion, green life, and other things, but her friends are sensitive, so she needs to censor herself. Sometimes she does the opposite, not says what she feels, writes what she wants, even though someone said she tried to make her like something she’s not.

Some Girls: One girl said she was lucky to work in cosmetics industry; another girl said she was the one with stardust over the face; other girls said they’re sexy, their wearing is seductive; and another one said her job is to handle tough situation: announcing the flight is delayed.

If you feel you don’t have the energy, you may start to take some steps; you may eat a real good breakfast: eggs, rye, veggies, banana. which provides protein, fiber, and a little fat; it can also balance blood sugar, and regulates your insulin levels.