My neighbor is stylish, her body equipped with both perfect breasts, but she sometimes got into scandals. She said her friends are jealous about her, because she always got more attentions. Once she found a girl wearing sexy dress shopping, like her, she talked to her; to her surprise, the girl confessed to her. She said it was because of her; since she met a guy, she had to get his attention, and her sexy lingerie was also one of her weapons. They laughed.

My friend said she tried to help her guy’s business but experienced a difficult period and felt painful. She said she connected with some people, felt he was not honest, did some sleaze stuff, so she felt exhausted; plus, on top of that she found it was a business of cut throat, no empathy, and she got no money, but he still tried to control her. 

A girl said she’s smart, and she knows she’s pretty; she said she can use her charming face attracts others and landed any job. But she also admitted she had weird experience; once she thought she had found a good job, but ended up with some bad guys, and she almost got into a scandal.

Some people don’t care about other’s words, they just do what they like. A girl said her ex was a bad guy, so she left him; but she’s still herself, a cool girl, and she spends money on clothing, makeup, skincare products. She hated frugal living, likes modern life. So she wears strong-shouldered jacket, leggy mini, and spends big money on everything, including flying to meet her lover.

My friend said at the party that she did stupid things, one of them was she did her beauty treatment for her ex and she had experienced both trauma and cute. When a girl said like, “Really?” She said, “Yep.” For she liked body-sculpting, fat-freezing, skin vacuuming, but after the treatment there was after-burn, so she resembled a barbecue. People laughed.

My neighbor said her guy lied about his past. When asked how did she find out? She said she looked up his records, credit card statements. She also said he had drinking problem. She said she raised a red flag, to make sure he’s telling the truth. She said her guy is weird in bed, but she’s been satisfied.

A girl said she has many problems, issues, and she has a toxic relationship. Since she said she’s a victim, but she knows what her friends say?  They said she’s such a sucker because she’s still with her guy who was an abusive, macho man.

A girl said she traveled with her guy, but she knew he was sort of a fraud because he wanted to be better than others; he tried to big himself up, said in his field being better was being crazy, so he decided to give it a try, but she didn’t like his idea.

My neighbor said she did boobs job for her ex because she felt she didn’t fit into that world. Since she went through an awkward period, surrounded by weird men and girls, she needed to figure out if she really wanted that kind of life, so she left her guy, and she regretted for what she did.

A girl said she met her guy when traveling and she liked her guy’s way of treating her because he’s addicted to sex; so she thinks she can get everything she wanted and said providing more sex to him is easy, she doesn’t have to do anything except taking off her clothes, lying down there.

My neighbor said she lived in different places, and felt she always in a gray area, because she was afraid to trust people for she didn’t know who had her best interests at heart; when she got upset by some people, such as moral dilemma, her guy cheated on her, she didn’t know what to do, who was right for her, even asked herself like, “What should I do?”

My neighbor is a person of full spectrum and she likes travel; she dated several strange guys, got into sort of scandals, and said she wants to kick ass but also vulnerable; sometimes she feels she likes being a good person, but other day a bitch.

A girl said she’d met different people because she’s an interesting person; when she talking a lot about herself, her adventures, her joy with her exes, her rage, love, vulnerability and loss, others said she just wants people know everything she’d don which is funny.

My friend’s sexy, attractive, but her real power is her gaze. She used her gaze get what she wanted: rich boyfriend, big house, luxury lifestyle, because she knows how to use her sexy body, gaze, to achieve her goal.

A girl said she used to appreciate clothes and fine wine a lot because she felt it was her chic and it could leave some imagination to others. When she wearing mini-skirt that got a thigh-grazing she felt good. When people seeing her with a slick of red lip-stick they might have a sense of mystery, but she always attracted to bad guys.

A girl said she saw her friends got married and after a while break up, so she didn’t cast herself as a victim because she understanding that after the passion wearing off that was the way it was. When she was cheated again, she considered herself still pretty, but not wanting to be some bullshit diva anymore.

A girl said when she was young she had ambitions but she only met bad guys. When she learned something and met a rich guy she found she realized her dream because her guy was famous. Then she and her guy went to travel, to social clubs, and she seemed not remembering where she came from, which let her make mistake again, and understand she’s not always been this fortunate.

A girl said she started her business at home and now she has branch stores. She said her creation is smart, fearless, and boundary-pushing; but others said: she sold herself because she’s seductive, sexy, oddly, and with bad guys.

My friend said she wanted to show her good side after left a bad guy, but people still think she’s party girl, saying she just drinks champagne, spends money; now she fights back, saying: “Don’t you see I work hard? I’m achieved something?”

My friend finally left her partner who had abused her for years; when she traveled around world, she found some hidden gems: a laid-back oasis, where she riding camel along the sand, took photos with goats, and she said like, “They are cute, well fed.”

My neighbor’s a moral person, she still believes in romantic love, and feels one should do the right thing. Since she spent whole night with her guy, they didn’t kiss, and she said like, “That’s the care.” When her friend said she was dating a business guy and was cheated by him, so she started to believe in moral things, she said she liked her more.

A girl said after dating for several guys she felt she was hitting the grown-up dating world. She regretted for staying with her exes for too long and her last relationship was miserable, but she feared of being alone. When she dating a man again she felt weird, and said herself like, “This awkward relationship may be what grown-up love felt like?”

A girl said since left her ex she has changed herself, it means she’s learned to have a strong personality because she would lie to cover her mistake. So she said she thinks everyone lying: kids lying for not finishing homework, adults lying for easier convenience, and telling truth? May be difficulty to handle.

My coworker said after cheated by her ex she decided to find a real lover. She used her lunch time, gym, to see if there was a dating potential, a good man. She also diet, containing her bad behavior, smiling to everyone, to try her best to capture a lover.

My neighbor said when she met a guy, she wanted to create an atmosphere of true consent: It ment when she said “No”, the guy could not force a “Yes”. She said she’d changed herself after leaving her ex, she also wanted to satisfy herself, had deep human urge, and wanted to feel sexually and emotionally special, but only when she wanted. 

A friend said she started to date a man after leaving her ex, all she could see was his cool, polite side. When he applied for a job, he thinking it was a sure bet, for he said he met the qualifications, but he forgot to delete his nasty words online.

My neighbor said her ex always exaggerated things. If he worked for a company one year, he said he worked there for several years. Once he gave her some stuff and she said they smelling good, and he said they were from a garden with seasonal ingredients. So she said she was tired of his exaggerations, when she learned he was flirting with a girl, she just left him.

A girl said she met a guy, attracted by his allure, and she became his secret lover. But her pain and disillusion let her grow fast, she even said: They nurtured her career, let her become an independent. #thingsjusthappened #geniusandfool #datingandsex #shockingthings #addictedtosex #feellonely #lifeexperience #mademistakes

Empathy & Ignored underclass: If your friend offers healthy food in his restaurant and let his customers know about ingredients, you discovered something new, so you realized your other friend also start to do something, she takes action, and her writing, view, reflect the insight through empathy; now you want to take action, you want to be an activist because you think there are some bad law officers and there is an ignored underclass there.

My neighbor said she liked green life but was involved into a scandal, she still doesn’t care about other’s feeling after leaving her ex who manipulated her because she said things she liked are weird, and her world is sexy, where it has brain injury, absurdities and surprise.