My neighbor said she lived in different places, and felt she always in a gray area, because she was afraid to trust people for she didn’t know who had her best interests at heart; when she got upset by some people, such as moral dilemma, her guy cheated on her, she didn’t know what to do, who was right for her, even asked herself like, “What should I do?”

My neighbor is a person of full spectrum and she likes travel; she dated several strange guys, got into sort of scandals, and said she wants to kick ass but also vulnerable; sometimes she feels she likes being a good person, but other day a bitch.

A girl said she’d met different people because she’s an interesting person; when she talking a lot about herself, her adventures, her joy with her exes, her rage, love, vulnerability and loss, others said she just wants people know everything she’d don which is funny.

My friend’s sexy, attractive, but her real power is her gaze. She used her gaze get what she wanted: rich boyfriend, big house, luxury lifestyle, because she knows how to use her sexy body, gaze, to achieve her goal.

A girl said she used to appreciate clothes and fine wine a lot because she felt it was her chic and it could leave some imagination to others. When she wearing mini-skirt that got a thigh-grazing she felt good. When people seeing her with a slick of red lip-stick they might have a sense of mystery, but she always attracted to bad guys.

A girl said she saw her friends got married and after a while break up, so she didn’t cast herself as a victim because she understanding that after the passion wearing off that was the way it was. When she was cheated again, she considered herself still pretty, but not wanting to be some bullshit diva anymore.

A girl said when she was young she had ambitions but she only met bad guys. When she learned something and met a rich guy she found she realized her dream because her guy was famous. Then she and her guy went to travel, to social clubs, and she seemed not remembering where she came from, which let her make mistake again, and understand she’s not always been this fortunate.

A girl said she started her business at home and now she has branch stores. She said her creation is smart, fearless, and boundary-pushing; but others said: she sold herself because she’s seductive, sexy, oddly, and with bad guys.

My friend said she wanted to show her good side after left a bad guy, but people still think she’s party girl, saying she just drinks champagne, spends money; now she fights back, saying: “Don’t you see I work hard? I’m achieved something?”

My friend finally left her partner who had abused her for years; when she traveled around world, she found some hidden gems: a laid-back oasis, where she riding camel along the sand, took photos with goats, and she said like, “They are cute, well fed.”

My neighbor’s a moral person, she still believes in romantic love, and feels one should do the right thing. Since she spent whole night with her guy, they didn’t kiss, and she said like, “That’s the care.” When her friend said she was dating a business guy and was cheated by him, so she started to believe in moral things, she said she liked her more.

A girl said after dating for several guys she felt she was hitting the grown-up dating world. She regretted for staying with her exes for too long and her last relationship was miserable, but she feared of being alone. When she dating a man again she felt weird, and said herself like, “This awkward relationship may be what grown-up love felt like?”

A girl said since left her ex she has changed herself, it means she’s learned to have a strong personality because she would lie to cover her mistake. So she said she thinks everyone lying: kids lying for not finishing homework, adults lying for easier convenience, and telling truth? May be difficulty to handle.

My coworker said after cheated by her ex she decided to find a real lover. She used her lunch time, gym, to see if there was a dating potential, a good man. She also diet, containing her bad behavior, smiling to everyone, to try her best to capture a lover.

My neighbor said when she met a guy, she wanted to create an atmosphere of true consent: It ment when she said “No”, the guy could not force a “Yes”. She said she’d changed herself after leaving her ex, she also wanted to satisfy herself, had deep human urge, and wanted to feel sexually and emotionally special, but only when she wanted. 

A friend said she started to date a man after leaving her ex, all she could see was his cool, polite side. When he applied for a job, he thinking it was a sure bet, for he said he met the qualifications, but he forgot to delete his nasty words online.

My neighbor said her ex always exaggerated things. If he worked for a company one year, he said he worked there for several years. Once he gave her some stuff and she said they smelling good, and he said they were from a garden with seasonal ingredients. So she said she was tired of his exaggerations, when she learned he was flirting with a girl, she just left him.

A girl said she met a guy, attracted by his allure, and she became his secret lover. But her pain and disillusion let her grow fast, she even said: They nurtured her career, let her become an independent. #thingsjusthappened #geniusandfool #datingandsex #shockingthings #addictedtosex #feellonely #lifeexperience #mademistakes

Empathy & Ignored underclass: If your friend offers healthy food in his restaurant and let his customers know about ingredients, you discovered something new, so you realized your other friend also start to do something, she takes action, and her writing, view, reflect the insight through empathy; now you want to take action, you want to be an activist because you think there are some bad law officers and there is an ignored underclass there.

My neighbor said she liked green life but was involved into a scandal, she still doesn’t care about other’s feeling after leaving her ex who manipulated her because she said things she liked are weird, and her world is sexy, where it has brain injury, absurdities and surprise.

My friend said she changed her view about vanity and fashion after leaving her ex. She used to be different and her parents’ union was not without its flaws. When she was in college she yearned to fit in, after college she had stress, met a guy, but she was abused and manipulated by him.

A girl said she made some mistakes and people remember her as a mean person; but she doesn’t care about other’s think, she just wants to do her stupid things, hang out with bad guys, until her controversial behavior, craziness, that become objects of joke, for other’s consumption.

A girl said after a sort of scandal, she’s changed a lot, now her daily activities are simple, she just works enough, starts to exercise, and social; she thinks her recent trip was great for everything was just enough: she and her guy went for a walk, relaxed by the pool, had a drink and dinner, then sex.

My neighbor said she likes fashion, started to date again. But looking back she has broken off her engagement, set the date for wedding, and got divorced. When asked what she thinks about her previous marriage? She said she thinks her exes were all bad guys, and her marriage was probably doomed before she even got married. 

A guy said he was jealous and angry because once he saw a man saying hello to her girlfriend. When she started to question his cheating, his crazy behavior, and wanted him to tell his secrets, he realized she knew everything he did behind her, so he regretted about getting jealous and angry.

A girl said when she was young she had ambitions to be famous. When met her guy she found she realized her dream because her boyfriend was sort of famous. Then they went to travel, to social clubs, until she felt she’d made a mistake because her guy had been with many girls.

My friend cared about her looks in office, on street. She also worried about her skin, her hair, her makeup. So she carried a beauty kit all the time for fighting dry skin, humidity, frizz hair. When met a guy, he said he liked her style, she felt good, started going out with him, but she realized he liked other girls also.

A girl said her success about fashion design is based on her emotion, her instinct, for she says what she feels about a project, a person, no filter, and not plays it safe. When her guy cheated on her she left him and said she has even more confidence, saying she’s good at many things, including fight, handle men.

A girl said she used to be a casual person, but she had a big event. When asked what the big event was she said she met a man, received jewels, then a diamond ring. So she became stylish because her guy liked to see her happy, looking younger and feeling glamorous. When she realized he also had other woman she was not happy again.

A girl said she liked sports and met a guy, so she started her beauty treatment, which let her experience both trauma and cute. So her friend said like, “Really?” She said, “Yep,” because she liked body-sculpting, fat-freezing, skin vacuuming, but after treatments there were after-burns, so she resembling a barbecue.