A guy said he liked his girlfriend, and they did things together; but somehow she felt he was not working hard enough, so she was upset and she left him; he argued with her about it, felt he was wrongly accused, but it going nowhere because she believing his desire to be with her was based on sex.

My neighbor said after fooled by several men, she decided to be herself and she found her passion. It turned out she went to a foreign country and met her challenges. Once she’s scheduled to treat 20 people, she found hundreds standing outside. She was moved, wanted to cry, wish having more volunteers there.

My neighbor said her life and success are always linked to fear. When she was young she supposed to go out and have sex but she feared people would say: “You’re a slut.” When she got a good job she had fear and thought: “People may find out I’m not as good as I said. People may think I’m a lie, I may get fired.”

Enigma & Irony: If your creation, work, were controversial, criticized, you may change your styles; but you may find out some same critics later like your creation, works; so you may feel you’re still an enigma, your work, creation, still remains a riddle, but you are determined to let your voice be heard.