A girl said she had experienced sort of adventures. She said she was tired of judging by the appearance because she used to wear beautiful, feminine clothes and people didn’t treat her seriously. So she did the opposite: she wearing bold, over-size clothes, and felt powerful and people treated her well. So she was wondering, said like, “Judging by the appearance? It’s easy for me to change, just like I can eat a huge lunch.” Her friend was amused. When the girl said falling in love was great, but that should not be the only thing In a relationship, the friend said like, “If that’s the thing some people chasing, it’s not gonna last because life is more than just falling in love, it has many other things to deal with.” When the girl becoming a nurse, she said to her friend like, “I hate being a mother,” because as a nurse she saw women in labor with blood. Unfortunately, she got pregnant and she had to deal with scaring thing. When she was in labor she was struggling, almost in a panic situation, almost telling her baby like, “Get it out now.” When she hearing some nice words about her baby by doctor, she felt very emotional. Later she said to her friend that before she hated people judging by the appearance, when becoming a nurse, she saw women in labor with blood, she said she hated being a mother; but when she was in labor, she heard doctor’s nice words, saw her beautiful baby, she changed herself, felt proud of being a mother. So the friend said like, “It’s easy for you to change?” She laughed, said like, “Remember we talked about falling in love?” The friend said, “That should not be the only thing In a relationship,” so the girl said, “Life is more than just that.” They laughed again.
Many people like share their stories, give tips, and they feel life is interesting. My friend said she always gives tips to her friends: how to follow her heart, to spend weekend reading newspapers on bed, and to try local food; now her neighbor has surpassed the master: she gives her tips: how to have a perfect romance, to find a place where ocean water is warm, so she and her lover can swim in ocean, but feel like in bath. When she talked more with her neighbor, she found she was a totally different girl before. It turned out she had suffered mental and psychological disorder before because her ex-lover committed violent assault which harmed her for a long time. When he was arrested for battery, he promised to change his behavior, but he failed to prevent from committing acts of violence, abuse, which derailed her life, let her have emotional distress. When he said she was lying about all those things, said like, “I’ll be open with y’all about what I’d done,” accused her of making everything worse, she was very angry, said he was spreading rumors, saying he was worrying about her, and many people didn’t know what kind of bitch she was, so she said like, “Stop running with the worst narratives,” and said he was an abusive and violent person.
Michael Ellis
Giving tips let people feel there are many things they could try, it also let them know problems such as domestic violence, mental health, emotional distress, abusive behavior, so this story is great!
Millennial thing is interesting. My neighbor said she’s getting old and decided to find a lover. So she uses her lunch time, gym, to see if there is a dating potential. She also wants to diet, to contain her nasty behavior, smiling to everyone, to try her best to capture a lover. She said she was coming from a dysfunctional family. Back then she was always alone because her father left her mother when she was very young and her mother was always not at home, so she just felt sad, cried a lot, and envied others. When she tried to learn how to talk about things, how let conversation go, she felt difficult. Sometimes she had choices, wanted to make good decisions, but she just was not sure what to do, she had a sense of unknowing, feeling kind of frozen in a moment, lost her talking point, didn’t feel she was able to continue the conversation. Other times she was inpatient, so people said like, “She has no patience,” because when someone asking her something she just said like, “Look it up on internet.” She could be also very emotional, once she had a fight with her ex, she’d like, “He has left,” so her tears would come down. She said she wanted to be candid about her life, but her life journey was very hard.
Amy Lynch
The girl was honest, she was authentic, said what had happened to her: a dysfunctional family, felt sad, cried a lot, had difficult to focus on things, and very emotional. Wishing her the best!
My friend working for fashion industry, she was very busy, sometimes she needed to travel, so she seemed always rushing; but she had a lot other things to worry. She had a great romance with her partner and they felt happy for a while. Since she was busy every day, sometimes she said she would not go to party because she felt tired, so she just wanted to get things, then she went home, eating, sleeping. Sometimes she was so tired, she falling asleep on buss, on a plane, even in an upright. But her partner didn’t stop going to party. When he met a girl, he said himself like, “You should’ve stopped seeing her,” but he didn’t. One day he wanted to be honest to her lover and said like, “Listen, I need to talk to you. I had affair with a friend, you don’t really deserve me; if you want to move on, I understand.” When she learned his affair her emotional reaction was running very high, but she let him back into her life, which let him promising her that he would not falling back into his old ways and would not let her down again. So he tried to redeem himself and she tried to look forward, but she felt their happiness might not be the same. When she talked to her friend, she said she felt a sense of loss because she and her partner really liked each other and they had a great romance, so she said like, “Are there still romantic values?”
Emily Hill
Romantic love is great, but it's difficult to keep it. The girl thought she had a romantic love, devoted to her career, but her partner was different; when he had affair he was struggling about it, confessed it to his lover, so she felt a sense of loss.
Millennial thing is tricky, sometimes romantic thing could turn into a bizarre situation. My neighbor said she had been with different men and experienced so-called romantic love; but she also suffered a lot, so she said all men are not good. When she looked at her picture with a bikini pose, she was thinking back to her exciting moments, romantic love, and her relaxed and good feelings, but all those things were just her past. Now she worried about herself. Since her face seemed OK, but her skin looked almost twice the age of her face because of stress, so she started to take care of her skin: she scrubbing her body, just like she peeling off the top dry layer of an onion, but she hated. Back then, she was busy with men, they only interested in sex with her, so she just using them to make money, to profit herself, to have more connections, and didn’t think about having a long-term relationship. Once a man begged her back with him and she said she also suffered a lot, so she wanted men to suffer also. When her friend said the man lost his job, he even could not live by himself, she said he was arrogant, why he became so miserable and wanted to beg her back now? When the man said he just wanted to be with her because they had some good time, some romantic moments, but she said like, “Even he said this, I can’t do anything about it; if he wants to die, just die.”
Jenny Webb
The girl is smart, she said she suffered a lot which let others think about their past, where many girls dreamed to meet a good man, live in big house, be success in their career, but all those things disappeared, so the girl just wants to be herself.
Smart people take risks, they may feel great, but also regret. A guy said his friend’s smart, adventurous, and rich. When someone said like, “Really?” The guy said like, “Yes, he’s smart, adventurous, and very rich, but he’s also weird.” When asked how weird, he said his friend had an idea, somehow it took flight from his hometown to big cities. And now his conceptual view prompted him to a crazy business. It turned out he liked show business and wanted to see if he could be lucky again and make more money. When he met a girl, he had a weird idea, so he said the fear was that he was going to screw up the girl by making her famous. When the girl turned out as a sexy and bad girl, a crazy human being, a weird and nasty bitch, he laughed, but also regretted his decision; when he not felt good, not proud of what he did, he wanted to stop his work, but he couldn’t, so sometimes he said like, “Oh, boy, that was a mistake to let that girl be crazy, silly.” He said he wanted to be more adventurous, had the idea of disrupting mainstream thinking, but he was surprised that people said like, “We don’t like stupid things, crazy girl.” He said he made some jokes, which may let some people laugh, but also pissed others. And for the girl, she may feel her life had changed, got famous, but she had also to learn how to bring herself back to Earth.
Ashley Parsons
There are some crazy people who just want to get attention and do all they can but sometimes they just feel they have done some stupid things and they regret what they have done.
Some girls said they did everything for their partner, but they still feel something wrong, so they ask: Are you still a woman? A girl said when she had her boobs augmented, her butt lift, her ex-lover said it was too hot for him to handle; but she said she worked hard, didn’t feel bad about beauty surgery. When her friend got pregnant, said like, “My stomach kept growing.” She said she was afraid of getting weight; when her friend asked her if she wanted a baby, she said like, “No, no, it’s too hot for me to handle.” But her friend said she and her partner both were ecstatic, so the girl was confused. When the girl met another man, she wanted to start her life again, but felt her lover always busy, so she felt she was alone all day long, and only her friend, a photographer came to see her, taking photos of her. When she said to her best friend that if the photographer didn't come, she would almost become a monster. So, when she met someone, she had a strange feeling, felt like even if that person was a stranger, she was willing to let him kiss her, touch her breasts, intimate with her. She said only in this way she could feel she was still a woman and that someone still wanted her. When she said she really missing her boyfriend, she said she didn’t have sex for a while. She said after the photographer intimated with her in bed, she missed her boyfriend a lot because he said if they got married and gave birth to a girl, their daughter would be like her, with a charming figure and personality.
Katherine Boston
So many girls did things only for their lovers, but they still got dumped because many men want to play around, they like flirting with other women and feel they are still very young in their 30s, 40s, but women can't wait forever.
Millennial thing could be rough, funny and surprising. A girl said after becoming a department leader she’s still scrambling when has meeting, even though she said she finds out what’s best for her, likes her own pace, like BYOB, “Be your own bestie”, she said to her friend. But she was a different person a year ago. Since she was a brown girl, a so-called women of color, she said she had grown accustomed to feel like there were just not good enough, hearing “no” all too often when looking for job, promotion, and opportunity. She said her divorce made everything worse. It turned out her husband was violently at home, she was scared of him, so left there; when her ex said he wanted to keep the family together, she said like, “I need to move on.” When she left her home she felt very sad, but after a while she was kind of relief, said like, “It was done.” Once her friend said she broke up with her guy, so she said like, “Start your life again, it’s never too late.” When asked how was her life after divorce, she said like, “Gosh, all this makes me wonder if I did right thing for myself.” But she also said she made mistakes. She said her ex was a self-center person, when she felt hurt, wronged, and wanted him an apology, he said he was stressful, also stonewalled, so he insisted his way, his strange behavior, which made the thing worse. When she accused him of being hypocritical by saying he wanted to keep the family together, but doing the opposite, he said he couldn’t fix the problem, blamed her for putting pressure on him, so she said that was a mistake in her previous relationship.
Kurt Mcdonald
Very cool and interesting post. The girl is smart, she left her guy because of domestic violence, but she also said she made some mistakes, one of them was putting pressure on her ex, which may be true because many relationships didn't work just because of stress and pressure.
When talked about romantic values, a girl said she believed it before, but had changed her view. She said finding a partner was very simple, because she just telling the other person what she wanted, and if the other person did not agree, she finding someone else. So, she said finding a partner was a number game, the bigger the number, the more success. It turned out she did change her life dramatically. She said she used to have a simple life because she just working, eating, sleeping and no drama at all in her life. Since met her partner her life changed completely. When her guy wanted her, she just said like, “Okay, I’m here.” So they left, traveling, shopping, getting exhausted. Sometimes she’d like, “I miss home, miss my mom, my dad.” But she still believed what she said: Dating was a game. When she realized something was not right, she said to her friend that after being with her guy for a while she still didn’t know her guy, so the friend asked her why she felt like that, she said like, “What is wrong with me?” At that point the friend was still not processing, so the girl said her life was changed completely, she didn’t know what was going on, because she didn’t know her guy well, seeing him still like a strange, and she became more emotionally, left with a “what if”, and lost her cute little moments.
Jay Hall
Dating game for some girls played very well, and they just brag about it all the time, but if someone played for a while and got tired of it, it just not working any more because when playing the game also wasted a lot of time and energy.
Some girls liked to be adventurous and they took different forms. A girl said she made mistakes and felt bad for herself. When she had to fully define who she wanted to become, she married a rich guy, but she suffered a setback again, got divorced, so she said like, “It was difficult for me to see ahead when I was fighting for my life.” She said she was an adventurous girl, liked to take risks, but she still didn’t know what the future could be. When she met her high school friend, she admired her and seemed to know what she wanted to be. It turned out her high school friend had lived abroad, learned a lot, and became very brave: She went to farmer's market, buy live fish and chickens, when got home, she killed the chickens and fish and cooked them for dinner. When asked why she went abroad, the friend said she went abroad because she and her boyfriend broke up. So, the girl learned the friend quit her job, said goodbye to her hometown, and started a new life in a foreign country. She said after living in a foreign country for a while, she became brave, not afraid of anything, even started a business, became a boss. One day, the girl heard someone said her friend was a bitch. When an employee said like, “She’s impatient, going mad often, but she may not go back to her 20s.” So the girl learned that her friend was a boss bitch, she freezing her eggs, had sex with different people, and wanted to be younger, hotter. So the girl didn’t know what her future could be again.
Neil Holland
Girls who could take risks do getting more than those who are not so adventurous, but if greedy, trying to take revenge on society, it could lead to bizarre ending, which might express why the girl didn't know her future could be again after learning her friend's story.
When encounter difficult things, some people feel panic, others use their brain. Once a girl said her boyfriend wanted to seduce a woman. When her friend asked her what other things he liked, the girl said he also liked to be jealous. So the friend said she should use her brain to meet the challenge. One day on the way home, she met a coworker and chatted with him for a while, which was seen by her guy, so he became jealous. When she told her friend about this, the friend said since he liked to be jealous, she could fight back by bluffing him. When asked how it would work, the friend said she had worked before in a law enforcement office and many law officers using bluffing to let criminals confess. When she met another man on street and her guy started to be jealous again, she said like, "Don't think men are always smarter than women. Don't think you seduce woman and others don't know." Her guy was baffled after hearing her words, but she didn't back down, she asked him like, "Who was that woman?" He said she was just a friend, but she was seriously, said like, "Do you really have nothing to do with that woman? You keep a secret from me? What is the relationship between you and that woman? When did your relationship with her start?" Her guy felt a little guilty when heard a series of questions and thought she probably found out about his cheating, so he confessed all his secrets to her.
Chris Chapmen
A great story and like it a lot! The girl did the right thing because her guy cheated on her and if she didn't tell her friend about her suspicion she would never find out the truth; now it's up to her if she wants to stay in the relationship.
Today’s world may be completely different from the past because of war, conflicts and big greedy companies, but there are still people with good intentions. Once a guy said when he realized many oil companies decided to expand their production, they drill more new wells, with the AI digital tech support in the cloud business, he was shocked and said like, “I’m so blown away at the impact that this decision has had.” When someone said it was a complex moral thing, where there were no goodies and baddies, a girl said that to produce more oil and natural gas, make more money, increase more emissions, was not a good thing for our earth, but she couldn’t think of people so bad. It turned out the girl still believing the Bible. She said in this world most people are good people. When someone said the girl said this had other purposes she did not agree. She said when she was teaching the Bible some people also said the same thing, but she felt her good intentions were mistreated. But she still believing in God, in what the Bible said. When she was attacked, she began to discuss it with other people because the world became more rough, she wanted to use her good intentions to change the world. When someone said today’s people is different from the people in the Bible, in other words, Bible is outdated, she said most people still want to be a good person, do good deeds, to impress others with good intentions, which means they still care about morality, which is also the Bible said.
Donna Sears
A very cool and interesting topic. The girl is definitely cool and she believed in God and the Bible which is still a big deal for so many people who have their own believes and they are very good citizens even in the modern and material society.
Being an artist may have au aura, but it also means constant work, because it's about fighting out of a survival mode. A girl said if you meet someone you click, who understands your work, your needs, you're lucky. When she met an artist, she thought he was weird, but she liked, so they became lovers. Sometimes her lover's behavior put her over the edge, with potential self harm, but it was fun. When they started talking about marriage, she discovered he had cheated on her. So she told her friend, said like, "He had a child." When asked what other secret he had, she said he wanted her to show respect for his physical defect. She said when she discovered his defect, she was a little at a loss, but now he also had a child. She said if she let him behavior like this, she would not know what weird thing he would announce to her in the future. So she asked her friend: Should she let him torture her like this?
Andrew Christy
Artists do have their aura, and they sometimes acted very weird, but the girl seemed really liking her partner even though he was kind of torturing her which is funny.
Some people like the idea of together-forever, but others don't like it. A girl said her last relationship was fizzled when she resisted intimacy, marriage and children. Her friend also didn't like the idea of together-forever. When she found her guy using a lie to cover up another lie, she asked him why he did that, he was like, "Kids lie, adults lie, everyone lies." He said he didn't like liars before, but since many people lie, he started to lie. So she left him. When the girl said they both followed their heart, her friend said, they both in mid-30s, they may feel pressure, their career may not align with their long-term aspirations, but they still want to be themselves. So the girl said: People said she's missed out on the benefits of romantic partnerships, sharing essential decisions, and maybe, socially acceptance, but she just like everyone else, she enjoying her life to the fullest because she travels, socializes, takes challenges, and no one ever throws a wrench in her plans.
Liz Lewis
The idea of together-forever is kind of old fashion; look at the reality how many people feel good about their relationship and many of them said even they getting old they still think divorce or separation is OK, not a big deal.
People sometimes like to tell funny things, but it could hurt others. Once a girl said: "It's no big deal for a woman to have money or just being loved, it's the femininity that is useful and admirable." And she wanted to be a princess again. But she liked to tell funny things. When she had been in pain her friend learned that it was a bit ridiculous because at that time the girl liked to watch bullfighting, so she discovered that for a matador to qualify for the competition he must stay on the back of the bull for at least eight seconds. Only in this way could he qualify and participate in the competition. So she declared at a party that matadors were related to sexual intercourse because if a man wanted to become a matador he must have a certain intensity and stay there for a certain period. When asked if a man also needs to maintain a certain time and intensity to be qualified to have sex, she said, yes. So the people learned that the reason why she said this because she felt her partner did not reach a certain level of time and intensity on bed, she said he died quickly during intimacy which frustrated her. When the words reached to her lover, she said it was a joke at the party, but he was embarrassed and not happy.
Debra Darling
Very funny and interesting topic. When men can't perform well on bed they do let women feel differently, so this post could be a tip for those who do have problems in terms of intimacy.
Jacob Stone
The girl is very smart, she knows being loved is not lasting for a long time and femininity is more than any other thing that is useful and admirable. But she's too smart, she found the relationship between bullfighter and men on bed which is very funny.
Romantic love is great, but it may have limit. A girl said when she met her guy he was very different because he talked about romantic values. Later he changed. Sometimes he liked to be alone which gave a feeling as if he had disappeared from the moment. When she asked why he had that feeling of disappearing he said once he went to a forest alone, he felt very relaxed because he could walk around without any restrictions. So she became alert, asked: "Did you really go to the forest?" He said although they were together he still had his personal privacy. When she worried about the wrinkles on her face he asked: "Did the wrinkles really worry you so much?" So she told her friend: He wanted to be alone meant he wanted to be free, which was a sign of getting bored with her. He had pressure, but her intuition told her more than that, which let her realized what their future would be like.
Ann Hanson
People get tired of getting together and this kind of staying together forever is absurd, so the girl told her friend she didn't know about their future is what so many people feel under the stressful work, life and suffering.
Adventurous sometimes could be funny. A girl said once she made her breasts very big. When arrived at a restaurant she found the waiter was still standing there after ordering. It was her breasts that were working because the waiter stared at her breasts, forgot his work. After bewitched the waiter one of her friends said he wanted to be friend with her, she said: "Aren't we already friends?" But he said he wanted to be friend in love. So she said: Why did the previous friendship suddenly change?
Allen Pace
A great post, interesting, cool and funny. My friend also kind of adventurous, rebellious, and she's against status quo; she also did some stunt that was funny, hilarious which let her friends treated her like a ring leader.
People making promise when getting married, but for some others they have their own understanding, which might be a millennial thing. My friend got married, but she said marriage is boring. She said no one could have predicted this kind of thing at first. When she felt she could no longer understand what marriage was she found kind of happiness outside of marriage. When asked about promise she made, she said since people now live longer, they can't make a promise once and stick to it for the rest of life.
Sam Nash
People do live longer and they also make promises; some of them take it very seriously but many others feel they make a mistake and want to pursue other way which let marriage become a joke.
If you’re an artist you may know The Mona Lisa. What this mysterious woman taught us? Immortalization, which is artist’s ability.
Steve Spencer
Artist could create the best thing in the world, which is very different from tech guys.
Matt Wood
It's a very cool post and like it a lot. So, for artists and for those who like art, it's a big deal to be creative, competitive, and also having a vision.
Diana Gadway
It's true dictators are getting more and more attentions because we still lice a world where there are more dictator countries than democratic countries and we have to deal with them for a long period.
Another potential conflict Taiwan straits: Biden and Taiwan’s president draw a red line, but China’s dictator repeated military exercise, supported by Russia and Korea dictators.
Will Cohen
This is a serious threaten to international order and must be stopped.
Dana Foyle
Ukraine was means dictators want to see if they can prevail, dictatorship or democracy, freedom or control?
Katie Roberts
Ukraine war let Russia hit the wall, now it's up to Putin to decide if he continue to want to live his life or die, together with his Soviet dream; and for Chinese dictator, he's worried about how to keep his country from going down quickly, economically and politically.
Edith Campbell
Ukraine war let Russia, China and other dictator countries' people feel their countries are really terrible, bad, but they can't say anything because of no freedom, no democracy, and they can only suffer and envy those who live in West.
Michael Ellis
We will see which parts of the world will prevail because Russia and China may become a real challenge to the free world.
Matt Wood
Dictatorship coming back! And people in Russia and China feel hopeless because they don't have freedom, can't express themselves, and if they protest, their leaders can put them to jails.
Mark William
Terrorists attacks are the most scare things you can have because you don't know when and where and you think you go to concert to enjoy music but attacked, which is sad.
Tim Swann
People from Russia and China still have to deal with dictators after so many decades, which is really sad because many countries already enjoy freedom for generations and they live a much better life than those who under dictatorship and communists control.
Howard Fisher
The girl truly had some unique adventures. When she looked feminine she was put down by others so she changed herself; when she was scared of giving birth she heard doctor's words and saw her beautiful baby she said she was proud of being a mother!