Some people like diversity and consider it a plus; others worry if diversity of all kinds of things almost imply many things would somehow inferior, lowering of their standards. But things may be complicated. A guy said when he was looking for help he interviewed many people, didn’t want to lower his standards, and he finally hired a girl who was smart, creative, and coming from a different culture. When competing with others he admired the girl’s tactics, said she had such a smart way to compete with others, which gave the company an advantage. So he said he had made a right decision when hired her and he loved diversity and said it was great. When they worked together, they ended up as lovers. So she became his partner, managing company’s business, employees, and she felt great. When she found he was sort of weird, even doing harmful things for the business, she disagreed with him, had fights with him. When she said she hated him for what he had said about her background, she felt she could not let it go; so she felt she got lost in her life because he was showing his worst qualities, his prejudices and he was implying things about her. So she left him, wanted starting her life again. She said she may still feel as genuine and fun as his lover and partner, but it also revealed the trick and cruelty of human nature and love.
Some people feel romantic love is cool, but others feel they have their own way of doing things. A girl said she’s an easy-going person and loves everything, because she eats fast food, pasta, meatball, dated many people, and worked several jobs. Now she has everything: kids, lover, but still working hard every day, because she says life is an art-work in progress. Once she went to a party, she discovered other things. When a lady said she had a hard culture shock and identity shock of being brown in white spaces when she moved to a new place, so others asked her about what that felt like for her everyday life there, she said she didn’t want to go out, hiding inside for days, even starving herself. Another lady said sometimes she could be a crappy friend, who did something wrong but blaming others because she didn’t want to admit that she sucks. When they asked the girl what she had to say about life, she said she had her own way of doing things. She said she used to be picky, but learned to be an easy-going person, so she eats fast food, pasta, meatball because her kids like them; she also dated several people, worked different jobs because she had no choice at that time. Now she has everything, and feels life is an art-work in progress.
Amy Lynch
The girl's an easy-going person, when a lady said she had a culture shock when moving to a new area, she hid herself, even starved; another lady said she was a crappy friend, didn't admit her mistakes; so the girl said life is an art-work in progress, which is cool.
People may feel they had exciting and romantic dating, but their adventure might be silly. A girl said she learned something about dating because of her last lover: he was attracted by her appearance, her sexy look, creamy skin, soft lips, luminous eyes. Since she and her guy had a roller-coaster relationship, she experienced a hormonal thrill: sweaty sex, dinner together, watching TV, eating ice cream, and sex again. Later she just laughing whenever recalled those scenes. When she realized she had wasted a lot of time, she started traveling around the world, found there were many things she was interested, and one of them was connect to her mother’s hometown. She said her mother was a successful figure in a foreign country, she was a folk artist there, so she said she left some sort of big shoes to fill. She would make her proud of her but things got complicated, so she got misunderstood, upsetting some people. What scared her the most was she was losing what she thought was doing those things’ studying, that should have fun, not kind of a burden, so she said like, “It affected me for a long time, which felt like a punch in the gut.”
Jacob Stone
The girl said her ex was attracted by her sexy look, so she had a roller-coaster, hormonal thrill experience. When connected to her mother's hometown, she found her mother was a successful folk artist there, so she said she had a big shoes to fill, but it was not easy.
There are some girls who are hippies, they are adventurous, and they have their own understanding about romance. A girl said she was creative about romance because she knew men couldn’t resist the smell, sexy stuff. So she bought perfume, attractive dress, bra; she also wanted to take a yoga class, which she said it could let her be flexible in bedroom. She broke up with her ex-partner because he didn’t understand her world. She felt her ex was kind of slow learning, when she said her career needed her to be fancy, attractive, and sexy, he was puzzled, hesitated to support her; so she had a terrible few months compared with her competitors. When he started to be jealous about the people she met, she said enough was enough because he didn’t have ability to evolve and explore different things, he just wanted to have a girlfriend, so he could have a regular sex life, which was very different from her view as a partner.
Duncan Berry
The girl knew men couldn't resist sexy stuff, said yoga class could let her be flexible in bed; she broke up with her ex, said he didn't understand her world, no ability to evolve, and he just wanted sex, which was very different from her view as a partner.
People sometimes said they are hippies, and they like adventures. A girl said everything happened for a reason; so when her friend divorced her husband, she started going out with him; when her friend accused her of ruining their relationship, she said everything happened for a reason. She said her friend had said some mean stuff about her because she was dumped by her lover, so she was desperate, didn’t know what to do with her ex who left her; she said she knew her friend’s husband when they got engaged, and she attended their wedding; so she said she was not stealing her husband, she was just liking him, because they clicked, and they could talk forever. But her guy had temper, he could be angry easily, and sometimes when he was with someone and he was like, “Can you shut the fuck up?” Other time she was there, and he said to her like, “Can this guy shut the fuck up?” So she said she knew him well, when he was not happy, he acted like a kid, and asked her like, “Can I say those words?” She said he was a hippie, liked adventurous stuff, so she was happy.
Jenny Webb
The girl said everything happened for a reason, so when her friend divorced her husband, she made him her lover! She was accused of stealing her guy, but she said they clicked; he had a temper, but she said he was a hippie, and she was happy.
Millennial thing sometimes is adventurous. A girl said being an artist let him feel younger, staying in a wide lane; she said being creative was like learning skill, which let her gain a new power; she said she’d been a huge fan for creative people, and now she was one of them and she said like, “Oh, this is adventurous, but it also just a skill, like cooking, learning a new language.” Her sense of humor also was unique. Once she said her guy deceived her. When he said he had bigger fish to fry, she asked him about his past, he was very vague, refused to give details, so she had to consider her exit strategy and said like, “Should I leave him dumbfounded?” She said she learned something because of him, because he said honesty didn’t matter, even with the one he tried to be together. When asked what about they hit it off quickly at the beginning, she just laughed, said like, “It seemed silly I was head over heels for him.”
Ashley Derr
The girl said being creative let her gain power, felt adventurous; when her guy said honesty didn't matter, she felt he deceived her, but when she met him they hit it off quickly, so she said it was silly for she was head over heels for him at the beginning!
There are cool girls and they like to do their own things. A girl said she started to eat healthy food and to do exercise: yoga, dance, walking. So she felt great and even received a certification. When her friend puzzled, said like, “A certification? From where?” She smiled, said like, “From my yoga class,” so her friend smiling too, said like, “Congratulations!” When they sit down, drinking coffee, they started to catch up what they did, so she said she had learned so much from her previous jobs, and felt she started to enjoy what she was doing. When she got another job, she chose a slow burn to get what she wanted result because she liked to have a wonderful experience. She learned some tricks from her ex, who didn’t tell her what he was planing right from the jump, he handled the things slowly, let everyone enjoying the work, and he said his decides to milk the moment was the key of keeping fascination alive; so she said she was grateful to him even though their relationship ended up unexpectedly.
Katherine Kune
The girl liked to do what she wanted, even received a certification from her yoga class! She learned a lot from her previous jobs, liked slow burn; and her ex also let her learned how to handle things slowly, to milk the moment, to enjoy the work process!
Some people said they like romantic stuff, but others feel differently. A guy said he and his lover lived in different places and they seeing each other once a month. So his friend was surprised, said like, “Once a month?” He said like, “Yes.” He said since they both were professionals and in order to keep their romance alive, he preferred not to see her very often, but his girlfriend was not happy. So his friend asked like, “What she said?” He said like, “She said it’s terrible, not going to work.” His friend laughed. When asked what his girlfriend doing for living, he said she was kind of freelancer. He said when she was a teenager she was sort of bad girl, had many troubles and her parents were so worried about her future. When she accepted a project, she was scared of where it might lead her, but she got it done well, so she said she was lucky, she just happened to handle the job well, and said like, “I would say, hang in there, everything’s going to be okay.” But she still was scared of the future, because she had to find out another project. So his friend asked if he still thinking seeing her girlfriend once a month was a good idea, he said he might change his mind.
Steven Rey
The guy said he and his girlfriend living in different places and they seeing each other once a month was a good thing because it could keep their romance alive; but she was not happy, said it was terrible, didn't know if it would work, so he was puzzled.
Modern society’s life let some people feel busy, they maybe changed a bit, but they may still keep sort of themselves. A girl said her guy was a regular person and when they met again, she found he still kept the romantic cliché, he giving her roses, and felt happy. When she said they smelling like vanilla, he said it let him unearth his childhood: he was in the garden, carefree, very happy. She said she didn’t see him for years, but she was still very excited to see him, so they talked to each other on the phone, went to bar, eating dinner in restaurant, and she said like, “To see him coming back, I just kind of lock-in with him was great.” She said they talked everything, from their hometown to places they lived, and she said like, “It’s like, we haven’t missed anything.” She said she just wanted to catch up, to share. She said she was glad that she was having this break to figure out where she was at in life and what she wanted to do next.
Bobby Mcfarland
The girl didn't see her guy for years and met him again, she found he was still kind of romantic person; so they talked their hometown, their life; she just wanted to catch up, to share, felt happy to him who still kept romantic cliche, giving her flowers, and she liked it.
Sometimes people say their friends are hipsters and they may have a reason. A girl said she studied skin types, found some good skin products and one of them getting her special attention because it not only dealing with different skin types, also could get rid of harmful ingredients; so, she said if you looking for lower price skin products, you couldn’t get multiple benefits. She said her skin product was for sensitive skin type, it was expensive, but skin was moisturized, and she was happy. She said she learned how to take care of herself, enjoying life, but her parents were poor, so she was a working-class girl. When she was young her understanding of safety was coming from money, but she never had any. So she wanted to earn it, earn as much as possible, so she said to her friend like, “That’s why I say yes to this shit.” She said there was no such a fair thing, feeling everything was a burden, mad as hell. But she was happy she found a skin product that had multiple benefits and was great for her sensitive skin type.
Kurt Mcdonald
The girl studied skin types, found one skin product had multiple benefits, and was good for her sensitive skin type. It was expensive, but she bought it, she said her parents were poor, so she didn't have any money, she earned everything herself, and she was sort of hipster!
A girl said her guy was a writer and he believed he had an invisible power, but he was fooled by his ex, so he wanted to revenge. When he plotting, well-prepared, imaging its fate, just like other humans would behave, having their fates, he got tired, so he abandoned his plan. When asked how she met her partner, she said she met him at a party. She said they hit it off pretty quick, then they spent as much time as they could being together. She said started from exchanging numbers, hanging out, talking on the phone, she was head over heels for him. When asked about their future, she said she’d mentioned about marriage, but she found he was just separated from his ex, they still had to go through divorce process, so she was upset, said to her friend like, “He deceived me.” When asked why he was so angry about his ex-lover, she said he was attacked by her as unworthy. Since his ex thinking men usually should be breadwinners, women should provide sex, if men couldn’t uphold their duties, women could punish them by giving them less sex, even leaving them. She said he may deceive her, still going through divorce process, but he was cute and he had an invisible power.
Paul Parker
The girl met a guy, she liked him a lot; he was a writer, but a little weird; he wanted to revenge his ex-lover, by writing; so he plotting, imaging her fate, because she left him for teasing him not a breadwinner, giving him less sex!
Some people said they’ve changed their lifestyle but they may hurt others. A guy said he’d changed himself, he didn’t like being so intense, so he working, exercising, and social; sometimes he liked to disappear, nobody seeing him around; he said it was his luxury stuff, because he was in forest, he could rest, going any direction! He did it for a while, his girlfriend was upset. When her friend asked her why she was upset, she said like, “It’s all down to whether he will commit.” She said she felt unwelcome, so she had a pain; she didn’t know if she had to reach out to him; she said he was kind of weirdo, he may purposely made her feel painful; she said she was accused of a branch swinger, who wanted to have the next guy secure before leaving her partner, but she said she didn’t have any such plan; she didn’t plan to leave him, she just was not sure about him, so she said again like, “It’s all down to whether he will commit.” When he heard the words he said he didn’t like being so intense, and sometimes liked to disappear, which was a little bit selfish, because he was tired of his routine life, he didn’t know if he could continue to live a life like that, but he didn’t want to hurt her either.
Lisa Daniel
The guy changed his lifestyle, he didn't like being intense, he worked a little bit, exercising, and liked to be alone, which let his girlfriend feel bad because she didn't know his plan and felt he was not committed!
Some people said they work very hard, try to realize their dream, but they don’t see any kind of hope. A guy said he worked hard, writing till mid-night every day. His agent liked him, but he said like, “The market is modest.” So he felt pain, had sad eyes, trying to win his fans one by one, but he still wanted to realize his dream, to be a writer. Once he met a girl, when they going out again she already treated him like her boyfriend; so she said she messed up with many things, wasted her time. She said she didn’t know what to do with her future. When she applied a job she got accepted, she felt it was huge step, so she said like, “Am I even gonna have a job?” She said she had many issues, struggling with loyal to someone, betrayed by others, now she had to deal with serious things. She had to work, please others, let people like her, trust her, so she said she was walking a tightrope, being in a precarious situation. She said although she’d messed up with many things she also had some wonderful moments. Sometimes her happiness lasted for few months, which became the best time of her life. She still considered her as a smart and good girl, she just needed to get her best version of herself out to meet the challenges. So the guy said he worked very hard, trying to realize their dream. He writing till mid-night, but his agent said the market was bad. But since met her he got some inspiration and felt a little better. So she hugged him.
Tim Swann
The guy writing till mid-night everyday, he blamed bad market, felt pain, had sad eyes; when met a girl, she was sort of opposite, she got a job, exited about it; she was a mess before, had bad guys, but she also had good things, so he got the inspiration!
Millennial things sometimes are funny. A girl said when she started to date she became a makeup fan. Once her friend was there, she was sort of interested in makeup, said like, “It will help you attract a potential male?” She said like, “It will impress a date, bolster my self-esteem.” So she started her ritual of getting ready to go out, she darkening her eyes, reddening her lips, to make her look more feminine. Her friend was fascinating, asked again, “You feel this way you have a layer of protection?” She laughed, never thought makeup had so much fun. She dated for a while, found it was really hard to keep a relationship together. She felt at the beginning she always attracted to someone, but later she realized actually there had nothing between she and her exes in common, so they just gradually grew apart, which she said it happened to a lot of others. Once she met an artist, but she said like, “It’s not that I don’t appreciate the art, nor do I wonder why artists are so weird.” After she was involved with him, she said she was attracted to him at the beginning because she was curious about him, but there had nothing in common between them, it was hard to keep a good relationship, so they just gradually grew apart. When she met her friend again, she was kind of disappointed, said like, “Makeup could impress a date, but not much.”
Anderson West
The girl became a makeup fan for it could impress a date; but she felt it was hard to keep a relationship; she could attract someone, but there always had nothing in common, so her relationships grew apart from her exes, and she said it happened to many others.
A girl said she had an affair with her coworker. She always did right things, but when she traveling, stayed in hotel, she did things she wouldn’t do at home. Since her affair let her out of ordinary life, she entered into middle-up class group. But she was still not happy because she could only be someone’s mistress. She said she’d wasted her time for years, believing in romantic love. When she left her ex she said like, “I’ve wasted my time, I don’t have more time, I’ve got to do it quicker than what I used to do.” When she didn’t have sex for a while, she lost a lot of confidence in having a new relationship. When she was single she felt lonely, said like, “I don’t really like being single,” so she said herself like, “You said you’ve got to do it quicker, but you still picking.” She said she was afraid again because if she was involved in another relationship she could regret again. But she wanted sex, so she met her secret lover again and again. When she was addicted to sex, she remembered what her friend said: “Everyone likes sex.” But she felt her addiction to sex let her consuming her life, which was kind of ridiculous, she said herself again like, “People call your friend a whore, it wouldn’t have shamed her because she was addicted to sex, what about you?”
Ella Sank
The girl always did right things, but she slept with her coworker when traveling. When she became his mistress, she got what she wanted, but she was not happy, felt she was wasting her time, but she was addicted to sex, and felt like a whore.
Some people said they worked hard, but not got recognition. A guy said he felt he worked hard, not got reward, and also was marginalized. So he felt he was not treated as a full-human-being, which let him feel if he did not have anything in this society, except his body, why would he care about others? But he still wanted to be part of the society. Sometimes he was wondering like, “Connect to my community? Even though the society is imperfect?” When he met a girl, he realized she was kind of worked as a musician, so he said he also liked music and wanted to work for a band someday. When he said he felt he was marginalized, was not treated as a full-human-being, she said she was also abused, and had sexual trauma. She said she had toxic relationship for years because her ex didn’t feel like she was enough for him, so finally she left him, and started to do what she wanted to do; she said she was being manipulated, lost her sense of self, and suffered emotionally. When asked how she worked as a musician, she said once she worked in an established band at a community. She found the chemistry between members was more important than actual playing ability, mastering the music was a given, as it should be, but it was just a part of what it took to join a band. So he said sometimes he was wondering like, “Connect to my community? Even though the society is imperfect?” She nodded.
Carmen Caller
The guy felt he was treated badly, so he didn't care about others; when met a girl, she said she was also abused, had sexual trauma, but she managed working in a local band, learned some tricks, so he said he also wanted to get involved into local community!
Sometimes people just feel they are not doing well, they envy others. A girl said she admired her friend a lot, for her friend was so together. So her neighbor said like, “What do you mean?” She said like, “Look, my friend works, has family and kids.” The neighbor said like, “What about you?” She said she was fucked up as a mom. So the neighbor asked, “You’re not happy?” She said yes, because she telling everyone her frustration, airing her dirty laundry. When the neighbor said she should learn from her friend, she said for years she was not included because she looked different, like coming from other part of the world. When her ex left her, she took a crash course in mind and body, learned how to live a meaningful life, being a creative person, so she started her business. She learned how to manage the business on a daily basis because she made different things, with different people, desires, inspirations, and challenges. She said she was open to failing, but she still envying others, admiring her friend. When she telling everyone her frustration, airing her dirty laundry, she knew it was not right, but she still complained about not included, looked different, like coming from other part of the world. She said the crash course helped her a little bit, but she still didn’t know if her business would work.
Katherine Boston
The girl envied her friend, also felt she was not included; she had a business, but she was struggling, not sure if it would work; so she said she was open to failing, just like she said she was fucked up as a single mom.
Millennial things are fascinating. A girl said she met her guy, was not impressed with him, but she treated him with respect. Since she seemed not excited about going out with him, she just stayed home, talking to him on the phone and said like, “Let’s see what happens.” When she decided to invite him to her place , her guy was surprised to see a simple place, but he said like, “Your place is so cool, now I know why you don’t want to go out.” So she felt good, said herself like, “He’s cool.” So she changed her view about him, started going out with him. When they dated for a while, one day she said to him like, “We should have a baby now,” because she felt she was getting old, he didn’t say anything. So she remembered at the beginning she met him, she was not impressed with him, not excited about going out with him. When he said he was worried about financial burden, she felt sad, at that moment she wanted to punch him, thinking that when someone said he loved her he supposed to do something to build a life together, to have children, family, but he still hesitated, worried about this, that, which let her feel if she wanted to stay with him.
Heather Redman
The girl was reasonable, she treated her guy with respect, even though she was not excited about him. When they dated for a while, she wanted to have a baby, but he worried about financial burden, which let her feel her guy may not the one she was looking for.
People may talk about romantic values, visual arts, but reality is there are many bizarre things in society. Once a girl said she was bullied, mocked when she was young. She had no boys who wanted to date her, so she became a mid-30s virgin, felt worthless, emptiness inside. When she had no illusions about finding a good man, she found an old man started flirting with her, wanted to have sex with her, so said like, “You’re very nice and kind.” The man said he had learned a lot from his friend. Now he always kept himself in check, asking himself like, “Did you say a lot of crap recently? Are you being kind to others?” Sometimes he remind himself like, “You need to realize that sometimes you’re not good enough for certain things. Others are better than you!” So the girl dated him for a while, wanted to have a good relationship with him, but she couldn’t. When she became single again she discovered something else. She knew she was interested in women since she was young, so she waited for a while and finally said herself like, “I’m gonna go on some dates with girls, and not feel ashamed about it.” When she met a girl, she felt she was very chic, red nails, hair to the back, and she was very talented also because she was a visual artist, so they became partners.
Will Grant
The girl was a mid-30s virgin, she gave up finding a good man, but was pleased by an old man, so they had sex, dated for a while, till she realized she was also attracted to girls, so she tried, and it was great!
My neighbor said her favorite face product with Vitamin C was antioxidant and could brighten her skin. Before her guy she was struggling, not happy, always asked like, “Why must I live like this?” When she had a lunch with a guy she found he was cute because he showed her path as a professional. Now they living together, but at the beginning she just said like, “Who knows if it works, but I’ll take it.” And later she even said to him like, “I’m yours for life.” She said she had waited for a long time and finally found her man. Years ago she had her eye on a guy, who was smart, handsome, and funny. One day she and her guy ran into each other, he said she was cute, she said he was the most fun person she’d met in a long time, so they started dating. When she was compassionate, caring, eagle to help others, he was puzzled, didn’t want to be part of it, so she was disappointed, said to her friend like, “I didn’t know how to react,” she said her life was falling apart, felt painful and sad when he left her; when she figured out what she really wanted to be, she learned how to be independent, be the one she dreamed to be. When her friend asked about her life now, she said before she felt to live was difficult, so she always asked like, “Why must I live like this?” Now she was sort of feeling better, but to live a full life still facing huge challenges.
Michael Patt
The girl was lucky, met a guy her type; but before she was like, "Why must I live like this?" She had a guy before but somehow they couldn't get alone, so she was kind of lost and didn't know what to do which is interesting.
Sometimes people feel like a huge burden on their shoulder and they want to lift it, but it’s not easy. A girl said she was a single mom and her son was four-year old. When she met a guy, she said he was like no one she had met before and she had no doubt in her mind that when had a baby she and her guy would get married. But he changed, he told her that being settled was too much for him, so she said she didn’t understand what was going on, he wasn’t what she’d expected at all. When she left him she felt like a huge burden had been lifted. So she said she learned something from her past. She said it was hard raising a child as a single mom, but also rewarding: she seeing her son crying, then laughing, so she learned how emotions worked. When she felt sad, she also knew there was happiness. When she had a partner, who helped her a little bit, but she found he was nasty. Sometimes she felt those hurting insults were extremely inappropriate, but she had to endure. When her friend said like, “That’s a red flag, don’t put up with that,” she said she had been thinking about that, but she also didn’t want to go back to be single again. She said she was adventurous when met her ex-lover, it was the hormones that let them connected, so they moved very fast, made a hasty decision. Instead of moving into unknown territory she would rather stay in her current situation. When asked if she regretted the choice she’d made with her partner, she said her life had many regrets, feeling like a huge burden on her shoulder, but most important thins was to survive.
Rachel Muller
Feeling like a burden let many people get lost; the girl lifted her huge burden when left her ex, but got another one; when felt her partner helped her she also felt he was nasty, so she didn't know if going back as a single mom or enduring his insults.
People sometimes don’t take themselves too seriously, they just want to live in the moment, enjoy freedom of doing what’s the natural. A friend said she sometimes questioned herself, though dreamed to be a movie star, model, to have bikini shots of her bums. But she was a pear-shape girl, never had big boobs! She also said she’d sacrificed a lot, thought she had many choices, but she still needed to learn to live with loose ends. Once she was drinking at a bar, she discovered something new. So she met some people who were dating, married, and others who were identified as friends for benefits. They claiming they wanted finding love, but it was not the most important thing because they also wanted having sex, and they said the best part of it was they wanted to be themselves. When the girl mingling with them she met friends, their partners, so they dancing, eating, drinking, and having a sensual mood, pleasure. She sometimes let man put his penis in her hand, between her breasts, penetrate her with his fingers, having oral sex, and sometimes they having mutual masturbation. So she said she had questioned herself many times about how to realize her dream, being a movie star, model, how to look sexy, being attractive, but she was a pear-shape girl. She said she’d sacrificed a lot, still needed to learn to live with loose ends, but she realized she didn’t need to take all those things too seriously, she just needed to live in the moment, enjoy her life because life is short.
Keith Millan
Very interesting story. The girl questioned herself, felt her dream was getting away from her, so she discovered something new, which let her experience another kind of lifestyle and she enjoyed her freedom of doing what's the natural.
A girl said she had experienced sort of adventures. She said she was tired of judging by the appearance because she used to wear beautiful, feminine clothes and people didn’t treat her seriously. So she did the opposite: she wearing bold, over-size clothes, and felt powerful and people treated her well. So she was wondering, said like, “Judging by the appearance? It’s easy for me to change, just like I can eat a huge lunch.” Her friend was amused. When the girl said falling in love was great, but that should not be the only thing In a relationship, the friend said like, “If that’s the thing some people chasing, it’s not gonna last because life is more than just falling in love, it has many other things to deal with.” When the girl becoming a nurse, she said to her friend like, “I hate being a mother,” because as a nurse she saw women in labor with blood. Unfortunately, she got pregnant and she had to deal with scaring thing. When she was in labor she was struggling, almost in a panic situation, almost telling her baby like, “Get it out now.” When she hearing some nice words about her baby by doctor, she felt very emotional. Later she said to her friend that before she hated people judging by the appearance, when becoming a nurse, she saw women in labor with blood, she said she hated being a mother; but when she was in labor, she heard doctor’s nice words, saw her beautiful baby, she changed herself, felt proud of being a mother. So the friend said like, “It’s easy for you to change?” She laughed, said like, “Remember we talked about falling in love?” The friend said, “That should not be the only thing In a relationship,” so the girl said, “Life is more than just that.” They laughed again.
Howard Fisher
The girl truly had some unique adventures. When she looked feminine she was put down by others so she changed herself; when she was scared of giving birth she heard doctor's words and saw her beautiful baby she said she was proud of being a mother!
Many people like share their stories, give tips, and they feel life is interesting. My friend said she always gives tips to her friends: how to follow her heart, to spend weekend reading newspapers on bed, and to try local food; now her neighbor has surpassed the master: she gives her tips: how to have a perfect romance, to find a place where ocean water is warm, so she and her lover can swim in ocean, but feel like in bath. When she talked more with her neighbor, she found she was a totally different girl before. It turned out she had suffered mental and psychological disorder before because her ex-lover committed violent assault which harmed her for a long time. When he was arrested for battery, he promised to change his behavior, but he failed to prevent from committing acts of violence, abuse, which derailed her life, let her have emotional distress. When he said she was lying about all those things, said like, “I’ll be open with y’all about what I’d done,” accused her of making everything worse, she was very angry, said he was spreading rumors, saying he was worrying about her, and many people didn’t know what kind of bitch she was, so she said like, “Stop running with the worst narratives,” and said he was an abusive and violent person.
Michael Ellis
Giving tips let people feel there are many things they could try, it also let them know problems such as domestic violence, mental health, emotional distress, abusive behavior, so this story is great!
My friend working for fashion industry, she was very busy, sometimes she needed to travel, so she seemed always rushing; but she had a lot other things to worry. She had a great romance with her partner and they felt happy for a while. Since she was busy every day, sometimes she said she would not go to party because she felt tired, so she just wanted to get things, then she went home, eating, sleeping. Sometimes she was so tired, she falling asleep on buss, on a plane, even in an upright. But her partner didn’t stop going to party. When he met a girl, he said himself like, “You should’ve stopped seeing her,” but he didn’t. One day he wanted to be honest to her lover and said like, “Listen, I need to talk to you. I had affair with a friend, you don’t really deserve me; if you want to move on, I understand.” When she learned his affair her emotional reaction was running very high, but she let him back into her life, which let him promising her that he would not falling back into his old ways and would not let her down again. So he tried to redeem himself and she tried to look forward, but she felt their happiness might not be the same. When she talked to her friend, she said she felt a sense of loss because she and her partner really liked each other and they had a great romance, so she said like, “Are there still romantic values?”
Emily Hill
Romantic love is great, but it's difficult to keep it. The girl thought she had a romantic love, devoted to her career, but her partner was different; when he had affair he was struggling about it, confessed it to his lover, so she felt a sense of loss.
Millennial thing is tricky, sometimes romantic thing could turn into a bizarre situation. My neighbor said she had been with different men and experienced so-called romantic love; but she also suffered a lot, so she said all men are not good. When she looked at her picture with a bikini pose, she was thinking back to her exciting moments, romantic love, and her relaxed and good feelings, but all those things were just her past. Now she worried about herself. Since her face seemed OK, but her skin looked almost twice the age of her face because of stress, so she started to take care of her skin: she scrubbing her body, just like she peeling off the top dry layer of an onion, but she hated. Back then, she was busy with men, they only interested in sex with her, so she just using them to make money, to profit herself, to have more connections, and didn’t think about having a long-term relationship. Once a man begged her back with him and she said she also suffered a lot, so she wanted men to suffer also. When her friend said the man lost his job, he even could not live by himself, she said he was arrogant, why he became so miserable and wanted to beg her back now? When the man said he just wanted to be with her because they had some good time, some romantic moments, but she said like, “Even he said this, I can’t do anything about it; if he wants to die, just die.”
Jenny Webb
The girl is smart, she said she suffered a lot which let others think about their past, where many girls dreamed to meet a good man, live in big house, be success in their career, but all those things disappeared, so the girl just wants to be herself.
Some girls said they did everything for their partner, but they still feel something wrong, so they ask: Are you still a woman? A girl said when she had her boobs augmented, her butt lift, her ex-lover said it was too hot for him to handle; but she said she worked hard, didn’t feel bad about beauty surgery. When her friend got pregnant, said like, “My stomach kept growing.” She said she was afraid of getting weight; when her friend asked her if she wanted a baby, she said like, “No, no, it’s too hot for me to handle.” But her friend said she and her partner both were ecstatic, so the girl was confused. When the girl met another man, she wanted to start her life again, but felt her lover always busy, so she felt she was alone all day long, and only her friend, a photographer came to see her, taking photos of her. When she said to her best friend that if the photographer didn't come, she would almost become a monster. So, when she met someone, she had a strange feeling, felt like even if that person was a stranger, she was willing to let him kiss her, touch her breasts, intimate with her. She said only in this way she could feel she was still a woman and that someone still wanted her. When she said she really missing her boyfriend, she said she didn’t have sex for a while. She said after the photographer intimated with her in bed, she missed her boyfriend a lot because he said if they got married and gave birth to a girl, their daughter would be like her, with a charming figure and personality.
Katherine Boston
So many girls did things only for their lovers, but they still got dumped because many men want to play around, they like flirting with other women and feel they are still very young in their 30s, 40s, but women can't wait forever.
Millennial thing could be rough, funny and surprising. A girl said after becoming a department leader she’s still scrambling when has meeting, even though she said she finds out what’s best for her, likes her own pace, like BYOB, “Be your own bestie”, she said to her friend. But she was a different person a year ago. Since she was a brown girl, a so-called women of color, she said she had grown accustomed to feel like there were just not good enough, hearing “no” all too often when looking for job, promotion, and opportunity. She said her divorce made everything worse. It turned out her husband was violently at home, she was scared of him, so left there; when her ex said he wanted to keep the family together, she said like, “I need to move on.” When she left her home she felt very sad, but after a while she was kind of relief, said like, “It was done.” Once her friend said she broke up with her guy, so she said like, “Start your life again, it’s never too late.” When asked how was her life after divorce, she said like, “Gosh, all this makes me wonder if I did right thing for myself.” But she also said she made mistakes. She said her ex was a self-center person, when she felt hurt, wronged, and wanted him an apology, he said he was stressful, also stonewalled, so he insisted his way, his strange behavior, which made the thing worse. When she accused him of being hypocritical by saying he wanted to keep the family together, but doing the opposite, he said he couldn’t fix the problem, blamed her for putting pressure on him, so she said that was a mistake in her previous relationship.
Kurt Mcdonald
Very cool and interesting post. The girl is smart, she left her guy because of domestic violence, but she also said she made some mistakes, one of them was putting pressure on her ex, which may be true because many relationships didn't work just because of stress and pressure.
When talked about romantic values, a girl said she believed it before, but had changed her view. She said finding a partner was very simple, because she just telling the other person what she wanted, and if the other person did not agree, she finding someone else. So, she said finding a partner was a number game, the bigger the number, the more success. It turned out she did change her life dramatically. She said she used to have a simple life because she just working, eating, sleeping and no drama at all in her life. Since met her partner her life changed completely. When her guy wanted her, she just said like, “Okay, I’m here.” So they left, traveling, shopping, getting exhausted. Sometimes she’d like, “I miss home, miss my mom, my dad.” But she still believed what she said: Dating was a game. When she realized something was not right, she said to her friend that after being with her guy for a while she still didn’t know her guy, so the friend asked her why she felt like that, she said like, “What is wrong with me?” At that point the friend was still not processing, so the girl said her life was changed completely, she didn’t know what was going on, because she didn’t know her guy well, seeing him still like a strange, and she became more emotionally, left with a “what if”, and lost her cute little moments.
Jay Hall
Dating game for some girls played very well, and they just brag about it all the time, but if someone played for a while and got tired of it, it just not working any more because when playing the game also wasted a lot of time and energy.
Some girls liked to be adventurous and they took different forms. A girl said she made mistakes and felt bad for herself. When she had to fully define who she wanted to become, she married a rich guy, but she suffered a setback again, got divorced, so she said like, “It was difficult for me to see ahead when I was fighting for my life.” She said she was an adventurous girl, liked to take risks, but she still didn’t know what the future could be. When she met her high school friend, she admired her and seemed to know what she wanted to be. It turned out her high school friend had lived abroad, learned a lot, and became very brave: She went to farmer's market, buy live fish and chickens, when got home, she killed the chickens and fish and cooked them for dinner. When asked why she went abroad, the friend said she went abroad because she and her boyfriend broke up. So, the girl learned the friend quit her job, said goodbye to her hometown, and started a new life in a foreign country. She said after living in a foreign country for a while, she became brave, not afraid of anything, even started a business, became a boss. One day, the girl heard someone said her friend was a bitch. When an employee said like, “She’s impatient, going mad often, but she may not go back to her 20s.” So the girl learned that her friend was a boss bitch, she freezing her eggs, had sex with different people, and wanted to be younger, hotter. So the girl didn’t know what her future could be again.
Neil Holland
Girls who could take risks do getting more than those who are not so adventurous, but if greedy, trying to take revenge on society, it could lead to bizarre ending, which might express why the girl didn't know her future could be again after learning her friend's story.
When encounter difficult things, some people feel panic, others use their brain. Once a girl said her boyfriend wanted to seduce a woman. When her friend asked her what other things he liked, the girl said he also liked to be jealous. So the friend said she should use her brain to meet the challenge. One day on the way home, she met a coworker and chatted with him for a while, which was seen by her guy, so he became jealous. When she told her friend about this, the friend said since he liked to be jealous, she could fight back by bluffing him. When asked how it would work, the friend said she had worked before in a law enforcement office and many law officers using bluffing to let criminals confess. When she met another man on street and her guy started to be jealous again, she said like, "Don't think men are always smarter than women. Don't think you seduce woman and others don't know." Her guy was baffled after hearing her words, but she didn't back down, she asked him like, "Who was that woman?" He said she was just a friend, but she was seriously, said like, "Do you really have nothing to do with that woman? You keep a secret from me? What is the relationship between you and that woman? When did your relationship with her start?" Her guy felt a little guilty when heard a series of questions and thought she probably found out about his cheating, so he confessed all his secrets to her.
Chris Chapmen
A great story and like it a lot! The girl did the right thing because her guy cheated on her and if she didn't tell her friend about her suspicion she would never find out the truth; now it's up to her if she wants to stay in the relationship.
Being an artist may have au aura, but it also means constant work, because it's about fighting out of a survival mode. A girl said if you meet someone you click, who understands your work, your needs, you're lucky. When she met an artist, she thought he was weird, but she liked, so they became lovers. Sometimes her lover's behavior put her over the edge, with potential self harm, but it was fun. When they started talking about marriage, she discovered he had cheated on her. So she told her friend, said like, "He had a child." When asked what other secret he had, she said he wanted her to show respect for his physical defect. She said when she discovered his defect, she was a little at a loss, but now he also had a child. She said if she let him behavior like this, she would not know what weird thing he would announce to her in the future. So she asked her friend: Should she let him torture her like this?
Andrew Christy
Artists do have their aura, and they sometimes acted very weird, but the girl seemed really liking her partner even though he was kind of torturing her which is funny.
People sometimes like to tell funny things, but it could hurt others. Once a girl said: "It's no big deal for a woman to have money or just being loved, it's the femininity that is useful and admirable." And she wanted to be a princess again. But she liked to tell funny things. When she had been in pain her friend learned that it was a bit ridiculous because at that time the girl liked to watch bullfighting, so she discovered that for a matador to qualify for the competition he must stay on the back of the bull for at least eight seconds. Only in this way could he qualify and participate in the competition. So she declared at a party that matadors were related to sexual intercourse because if a man wanted to become a matador he must have a certain intensity and stay there for a certain period. When asked if a man also needs to maintain a certain time and intensity to be qualified to have sex, she said, yes. So the people learned that the reason why she said this because she felt her partner did not reach a certain level of time and intensity on bed, she said he died quickly during intimacy which frustrated her. When the words reached to her lover, she said it was a joke at the party, but he was embarrassed and not happy.
Debra Darling
Very funny and interesting topic. When men can't perform well on bed they do let women feel differently, so this post could be a tip for those who do have problems in terms of intimacy.
Jacob Stone
The girl is very smart, she knows being loved is not lasting for a long time and femininity is more than any other thing that is useful and admirable. But she's too smart, she found the relationship between bullfighter and men on bed which is very funny.
If you’re an artist you may know The Mona Lisa. What this mysterious woman taught us? Immortalization, which is artist’s ability.
Steve Spencer
Artist could create the best thing in the world, which is very different from tech guys.
Matt Wood
It's a very cool post and like it a lot. So, for artists and for those who like art, it's a big deal to be creative, competitive, and also having a vision.
Mark William
Terrorists attacks are the most scare things you can have because you don't know when and where and you think you go to concert to enjoy music but attacked, which is sad.
Heather Redman
The guy hired a girl from a different culture, loved diversity; when they became lovers, she managed their business, found his weirdness; she disagreed with him, but he said things about her background, which let her see his true himself, so she said human being has its trick and cruelty.