My coworker said she met her guy, was not impressed with him, but she treated him with respect. Since she seemed not excited about going out with him, she just stayed home, talking to him on the phone and said: “Let’s see what happens.” When she finally going out with him, she realized he’s a smart, cool and funny guy.

My friend said he’s sort of stupid because he let his girlfriend upset. When she left him he realized she felt his desire to be with her was based on sex and she's kind of feminist. He felt bad for a while but met another girl, and he said his new girlfriend is OK because she let him go down on her, and they both are happy.

A guy said he prepared long time for his high-stakes moment and he had an important interview. So he tried it like his hit or miss opportunity. He tried very hard, did what he had to do during the interview, but he regretted about his chance. So he said when he needed all his talent, energy, but he came short.

If you’re a person of full spectrum, you may want to kick ass but also feel vulnerable; sometimes you feel you like makeup, being a good person, but other day you have bad mood because you have to make decisions, such as having a child, birth control, getting fat.