Sometimes people experienced different things, feel the quality in a man is tricky. A girl said she divorced and experienced her life’s up and down. She struggling for years and whenever mentions her life she can’t hold her tears. But one day she met a guy, so she said herself like, “He chased me before, but I rejected him. Should I give it a try?” When she called her friend, said she had a dilemma, but found her friend was separated from her partner, so she was surprised. When the friend said their healing process was going well, maybe she and her partner would do something together in the future, but she was still not sure, said like, “But it’s a big if.” She said the last thing she wanted to do was pushing him because after their separation, sometimes in her mind she felt she never wanted to be together with him because they both sort of started to grow in different directions, and they needed time to figure that out. So the girl said she didn’t want to jump into another mess and she also needed time to figure thing out.
Some people said after dating and living with several men, they are single again and they like their own freedom. A girl said she lived with different men, divorced, and now backing to single, and she feels great because she enjoying her freedom again; she said since she’d been busy with her works, she didn’t have sex for long time, but she found something new; she said people can live without sex, and it’s perfect normal. She said many people have false impression, such as if someone doesn’t have sex, something is wrong, but it’s ridiculous. Once her friend asked her like, “You want to live a life without sex?” She smiled, said like, “I can have sex, but only if I have a sexual desire.” She said she’s not interested in dating, not worrying about having kids, family, and if she meets a wonderful man, she maybe the one who turns heads, but she’d be smart, let man pay everything, or having some consenting sex, and she’d be happy.
Kris Silver
The girl was single again and she liked her freedom. She said people can live without sex, and not having sex is nothing wrong. She could have sex if met a wonderful guy, they could have consent sex, or she let him pay and she get happiness!
When talking about success stories, people tend to ignore little things, and those little things could be key for success. A girl said when she was betrayed by her ex, she was very emotional, so whenever mentioned that period, she wiped tears from her cheek, said that was her worst moment. Later, she met some professionals, and she tried to be close to them. Once she met a lady, she found she was just like everyone else, but she was an expect of health living, so she was interested in her. When asked how she became a professional, the lady said it was a little bit of by accident, which let her learn something beyond her curiosity. When they became friends, they talked on the phone, meeting for coffee, and she admired her. When she asked some questions about health living, she found the lady didn’t give advice at all, she just talking, which conveyed some encouragement and a sense of having fun to do it; so the girl said she was really inspired, had the pleasure of talking and meeting the lady. When she said to a friend that she also wanted to be an expect of health living and said the lady was admired by others for a number of reasons, her friend said she made a good decision which might let her have a career because the lady holding a lot of cards.
Carmen Caller
The girl was emotional when betrayed by her ex, but she met some professionals, and she liked a lady who was an expect of health living. She talked to her on the phone, met her for coffee, and she learned a lot, decided to be a professional also.
Quality-in-a-woman could be funny, sometimes the same smart and beautiful girl could do stupid things. A girl said when she was young she had ambitions to be famous. When met her guy she found she realized her dream because she was smart, beautiful and her boyfriend was rich. Then they went to travel, to social clubs, and they had a great life. But somehow she seemed not remembering where she came from, did stupid things, so she said she make mistakes. When her guy left her she understanding she’d not always been this fortunate. She said she learned a lot and regretted for what she’d done. Once she talked about her experience with a friend, when asked why she and her ex seemed to be a perfect couple and suddenly their was a breakup, she said she was still shocking, but getting better. She said the secret of a good relationship had to be both ways, it meant a good and lasting relationship depending how they started off and honest was very important, which could always remind them later like, “You’re not gonna be lying.” But she lied to him from the beginning and hid her past.
Keith Millan
The girl was ambitious, met a rich man; when traveling, socializing, she had a great lifestyle, but she made a huge mistake by lying from the beginning, and tried to hide her past; so she said the secret of a good and lasting relationship should be honest.
Some people said finding a good man is really difficult, and they sometimes even end up in worst thing. A girl said she started to date again. But looking back she has broken off her engagement, set the date for wedding, and got divorced. When a friend asked like, “What she thinks about her previous marriage?” Another one said, “She thinks her marriage was probably doomed before she even got married.” So the friend said like, “It kinda of hurt her. She said she did all work, didn’t get credit; when other people said something positive about her husband, she felt weird because they also felt the same, praised her.” At this time, the other friend said like, “She said she’s not scare to share her life, she felt she’s not alone in society because many people like her, married by pressure; she said people feel shame sometimes because they did something they’re not proud of it, but it can be released when they did.” So the friend said like, “You mean feeling doomed before even getting married?” The other one said yes.
Bobby Mcfarland
The girl started to date again, but she had broken her engagement, divorced; her previous marriage was doomed before even got married, and she felt many people like her, married by pressure; she was not proud of what she did, but somehow felt released when she did.
Some people said when they met their lovers they were happy, felt they’d found the ideal men, but things changed later. A girl said she encountered a problem. Since her friend experienced something strange because she found happiness outside her marriage, so she started to think about her loveless life, which made her revisit another place whenever she needed a pick-me-up. She said when she met her lover, she was very happy; when her guy said she was sexy, smart, and said he had looked for a long time and finally met her, she felt she was lucky to meet a good man; so they had a lot of sex, got married, but it didn’t last long. She said her guy was not a bad person, he just changed himself, saying he was busy with other things, so she felt he was not interested in her, even didn’t want to have sex. When she experienced a loveless and sexless life for a while, she felt their relationship was changing also, even felt he was a little boring. So she said to her friend like, “Boring guy could also be lover?”
Andy Hauser
The girl's friend had happiness outside her marriage; she also had a sexless life, and had sex with a guy; when needed sex, she just said "pick-me-up". She and her man were happy before, but things changed, so she had a boring life, said her man was not her lover!
Find a good man maybe tricky because sometimes people may not be able to say if they like a person and they need more time. A girl said when she met a guy, she was not impressed with him, but she treated him with respect. Since she seemed not excited about going out with him, she just stayed home, talking to him on the phone and said like, “Let’s see what happens.” When she decided to invite him to her place her guy was surprised to see a simple place, but he said like, “Your place is so cool, now I know why you don’t want to go out.” She was a little bit surprised also. She had bad romance before, so she felt it was sort of finding a good man was never easy. She felt the guy was kind of neither good nor bad, it was just depending on how seeing it; it could be funny, scary, but she said she would never make a quick choice, she just doing her best to see what happened next and she needed more time, maybe a lot more.
Lance Clark
The girl was not impressed with the man, but treated him with respect. She didn't go out with him, just talking on the phone; when invited him, he said her place was very cute, and knew why she didn't want to go out, but she was still careful, didn't want to rush.
People sometimes feel they are tired of looking for a lover because they see their friends get married, then divorced and become single again. A girl said she’s tired of dating a guy for some time and then meeting another guy, so she said she’s looking for a long-term relationship and feels love affecting her life and her career. She also doesn’t want to just be with someone, like her nerghbor who got married and divorced, and let others said: “Whenever she met a guy she liked, the guy turned out to be a husband, a dad.” She said the most nerve-wracking thing is that she didn’t know if she has to fall in love again because she was in it for several times. Once she met a guy, her friend said she should start a relationship; she said she was thinking about getting married, but instead they started to discuss about marriage; so she said to her friend like, “If you got married, it’s like, you’d die soon.” Her friend agreed, said like, “Yeah, I’ve given it a lot of thought.” She said she didn’t want to rush into another relationship, because falling in love again is the most nerve-wracking thing for her, if she falling into that trap again it means her friendship with her guy end.
Katie Roberts
The girl said she was tired of dating, meeting guys because her friend got married, divorced, and was single again because whenever she met a guy, he became her husband, a dad; so she said if get married, it was like dying soon, and falling in love a nerve-wracking thing.
Some girls said they’ve learned some important things, one of them is to treat themselves with respect. My neighbor said she used to be a bad girl, but she changed herself. When someone said she was successful, she said her success was based on her confidence she learned; she said when she dealing with a project, a person, she felt no filter, not played it safe; but she was a smart girl, good at dealing with difficult things, including fight, handle men. When talking about her life, she said it was easy to get lost in life. When she was young, she was sort of stupid, believing in love; later, she had to deal with temptation, competition and ambition; when she got a job, she was excited, then she met a man, felt he was cute, so they lived together. Then she felt she made a mistake, so she left him. She repeated this kind of mistakes again and again, felt wasted a lot of time until she learned how to treat herself better, have more confidence about herself; so she said now she not just treats others with kindness but also treats herself with respect.
Ted Douglas
The girl used to be a bad person, but she learned a lot. When dealing with others, she tried to be kind to them, and she treated herself also with respect; so she could handle tough things, handle men; she wasted her time on different men, but getting better.
People sometimes feel trick, and they don’t know what they should do. A girl said she was confused because her guy gave her what she needed, but not interested in her, not pursuing her thoughtfully. So she said to her friend like, “I could walk away, or stop responding to him, right?” Since he didn’t call her for days, she called to her friend again, asked what she might do, the friend said she didn’t know either; she said she was also confused with men; sometimes she felt she knew how to deal with men, other times she was not so sure; so the girl said like when her guy giving her what she needed, she felt he liked her, so she said she was actually good at dealing with men; once she hushed a man quickly, she said she wanted to let him know women could be rude, aggressive, tough, mean business, because women sometimes felt enough was enough, they didn’t want to be weak all the time to be harassed. When she said if that might be the reason, her friend said like, “Hmm…”
Jay Hall
The girl was confused because her guy gave her what she needed but not pursuing her; she could leave him but not sure; when he didn't call her she said he may drop his phone in toilet; once she hushed a man, showed her toughness, so she said it might the reason.
Some people said they dating different people and they have fun. A guy said he dated different girls, some of them were lucky to work with stars, others in cosmetics industry; one girl working at the airport, she was sexy, her wearing was seductive, she said her job was to handle tough situation, and sometimes she had to face the customers, announcing the flight was delayed. When he started going out with her, she was funny, said she left her ex-lover just days ago and already had a guy she liked, so she showed photos and said to him like, “Oh, there’s my boyfriend.” When he had first night out with her, his friend asked if she liked him, he said like, “I don’t know, I said something stupid.” She said her feeling was like she knew him but he felt she didn’t. She said she used to date bad buys, so she was also sort of crazy, but he felt he already love her, even obsessed with her.
Emily Hill
The guy dated different girls, but one girl he was obsessed with; she worked at airport, handling tough stuff, including announce of flight delaying; when they going out she showed him her boyfriend's photos, said she knew him well but he felt he already loved her and she didn't know!
Sometimes people feel good because they find a way to make their business work and they said it’s their success story. A girl said her designs were tricky, since she always wanted to wear stylish clothes, fancy shoes, to feel she walking taller, so she discovered some tricks. Since she was an expert on lifestyle, personal best, one of her tricks was taller style’s strategy; she said the trick was she designed some clothes, tops, that could tuck T-shirt in, making people’s legs longer. When she met a guy, she found he was interesting, which let her think more about her business. He liked to find different things, let others figure out his next move because he said his life journey just began, even not yet half the journey. He never satisfied himself, he intentionally looking for new stuff, talking to different people, liked their interacting, to find some magical things, a new way to live a life, some confrontation, rough moments, ingredients of basic fun, and he said like, “I gonna tie them up, cracking my own story.” So she said she was picking up where she left off, going to a new direction. She wanted to crack more stories, and said like, “My life journey also just began, even not yet half the journey.”
Ann Hanson
The girl said her designs were tricky, one of her tricks was let people feel they walk taller; when met a guy, she discovered more, because he said his journey just began, even not yet half the journey, so she was inspired, wanted to crack more her stories!
Sometimes people find there is not connection between two parts, so they want to know if they can fix it. A girl said she felt there was no connection between she and her partner, except kids that let her stay in the relationship; so sometimes she would ask like, “What about me?” She couldn’t have answer. But she was smart, so she said like, “I’m not going to lie.” She said sometimes she would say nothing, other times she felt she needed to tell the truth, so she said like, “Oh, that’s a shame.” When asked if she knew everything, she said she knew many things well if asked by company leader, so when the things got out of control, she felt she must say something, do something. When she left her partner, the rumor said she’d have an affair with the company leader, but she said she didn’t sleep with him, they just had a trip together, it was fun, and they connected well.
Bill Atlanta
The girl felt she and her partner didn't connect well except their kids; when things got out of control she left her partner; when the rumor said she had an affair with her boss, she said they had a trip together, she didn't sleep with him but they connected well.
A friend said her neighbor was single, sweet, and always greeted others. She said “Hi, sweetie” to her friends, which let others talk about her. So one guy asked like, “She’s still single?” The friend said like, “Yep. But she wants to meet someone who is also sweet.” So the guy said like, “Hmm...” But he still wanted to know more about her neighbor, so the friend said her neighbor knew a guy since she was a child; when she got a project, she found he was also there, so she tried to be not too close to him; when she tried hard to avoid being romantically with him, she ended up not passing that hurdle, so they kissed passionately, and said like, “Imagine having a friend for so long, non-romantic, and then you have to be dying in his arms.” When asked how she could make a childhood friend her lover, she said it was also something she wanted to figure out. She said sometimes there was some magical thing there, he was suddenly so wonderful, played a key role for the project, which impressed her, but she still felt it was a little weird. So the guy puzzled, said again like, “Hmm...”
Jade Andelso
The girl was sweet, but single, so people talking about her; when a guy was interested in the girl, her friend said the girl had some romance; she met a childhood friend, they worked together, had some magical moments, but she still wanted some sweet guy, so he puzzled!
Quality-in-a-man could be funny. A guy said he liked to play guitar because he was a fan of pop culture. He also liked beautiful girls and wild party. Once he had a naked body, playing guitar, then he lifted it up to show his part. To his surprise, he impressed a girl, who admired his humor. When they going out for the first time, they felt good, so he appreciated her humorous way of treating him, she said she had experienced humorous scenes before and felt humor and trivial things were great, sometimes they could be a great help. Once she and her friend had a party, when her friend did something trivial, she was a little uncomfortable, even upset; but later her guests said they loved the party, would like to do some business with her; so she realized it was her friend who did something that impressed her guests, so she said to her friend like, “I’ve got to tell you, I thought everything you were doing while we were parting was way too over the top, now that I see it in result, it’s brilliant.” Her friend smiled. So the guy smiled also, and he kissed her.
Euro Damas
The guy was cool, he played guitar by being naked, and he lifted it up to show his private! It impressed a girl, when they went out together, he appreciated her humorous way of treating him, she said humor and trivial things could be cool, even brilliant, he liked it!
A girl said she was hitting the grown-up dating world. She regretted for staying with her ex for too long and her last relationship was miserable, but she feared of being alone. Now she said like, “This awkward relationship may be what grown-up love felt like?” When she met a friend, she had some sympathy for her because she had three kids with three different men, so she started to learn how to not judge others. She said she also had several abortions, once she was pregnant, she asked the guy if he wanted a child, he was kind of funny, didn’t say anything, so she said she didn’t want any kid either. She said she felt she was still young, having a baby wasn’t important to her, because she liked freedom, do whatever she wanted, and she said she was sort of fucking bitch then. When she talked with her friend, looked at her kids, she felt a little bit strange, because she didn’t have kid, had freedom, but they both were single, felt lonely, and they both want to find a man.
Carrie Johnson
The girl said she was hitting the grown-up dating world and she blamed for staying too long with her ex; when met her friend, who had three kids with three different men, so they talked about being a single, feeling lonely, and they both wanted to find a man!
Dating is fascinating, but also could let people feel tired. A girl said she worked hard, started dating, and found her romance was an all-or-nothing affair. But her ever-changing relationships let her learn something: not possessions, not fairy tale ending. When she met a guy again, she said she had a weird feeling, so she talked about it to her friend, said like, “A lot of people may worry for their safety, they might not want to stay with him.” So her friend said like, “I probably wouldn’t want to be with him either,” because she didn’t want to be in a dangerous situation; but the girl said somehow she stayed with the guy till mid-night and she was kind of liked him; she said her romance was an all-or-nothing affair, her ever-changing relationships let her learn something, such as not possessions, not fairy tale ending, but she needed a man, she wanted to start her real life, so she said she still didn’t know who this guy was, there were so many unknowns, but he was sort of funny, and she was interested in taking a risk, to know him more.
Sam Nash
The girl said her romance was an all-or-nothing game, so she learned to be not possessive, not having fairy tale ending; when met another man she felt weird because the man was sort of scary, her friend said she wouldn't be close to him, but the girl took a risk!
Some people said they find their friends look different and they realized their friends did something for themselves. A girl said her friend seemed a different person, when she asked her the friend said she did face massage. Her way of massage was to use small cups to shift trapped fluid on face, squeezing the cup over the face, moving upwards and outwards, to drain away puffiness, tone muscle, and stimulate micro-circulation. After the girl learned the trick, she also did the face massage. When her coworker said she looked great, she confessed, so the coworker said like, “That’s why your skin looks wonderful!” So the girl using small cups to show the coworker how to massage, she watching her to shift trapped fluid on her face, moving upwards and outwards, felt good. After a while, the coworker started to talk again. She said people should give women enough empathy because when she got pregnant she gained weight, and after giving birth to her daughter, she worked hard to lose weight, and then she was pregnant again, but she determined to get her body back in shape again; so the girl said after doing face massage her face also would look great again. They smiled.
Michael Ellis
A great story about friendship and how to look cool and good. The girl learned face massage from her friend and let her coworker also try it; so she learned her story, how she got weight, pregnant again, and wanted to go back herself again and to look good again!
Find a good man could be tricky, sometimes could be very difficult, other times very easy. A girl said her favorite face product with Vitamin C was antioxidant and could brighten her skin. Before meeting her guy she was struggling, not happy. When had a lunch with her guy she found he was cute because he showed her path as a professional. So she said she found a good man, it was very easy, and she lived with him, said to him like, “I’m yours for life.” But back then, she was a very different person. She said she got judged and shredded to pieces for showing herself and her thinking, but she said sharing her life was part of her healing process. Sometimes she could ashamed of speaking the truth, other times she was terrified by attacks, but she felt she was more connected with people, because there were may people craved raw stuff. Once she met a man, he was cool, but crazy, so she was kind of kept it a little distance from him, but she also wanted to be adventurous, so she said the wrong things could happen and she could just slip into the abyss, into the craziness, and into the scandal.
Heather Redman
The girl liked skin products, but she was not happy. When had a lunch with a guy, she found a good man! So she said it was easy, lived with him. But before she was very different, she was attacked, ashamed, and she could be easy to slip into craziness.
Some people said they regretted what they’d done for they didn’t have enough information at the time. A girl said she liked her boyfriend at the beginning, she just didn’t understand why he living at mements and telling her to try all the shit that didn’t work! So she left him and regretted about wasting her time. When she got a job, she worked hard, tried to be creative, but she got kicked out for being weird and sexy behavior. She said her getting fired moment let her be more braving, more creative, and somehow she wiggled her way in and got another job. When she found people there liked her crazy off-the-wall idea, and her passion, so she said it was fun. When a guy asked her to go out, she said life was magical, sweet, but she kept their relationship low-key because she knew she could be fooled again.
Carol Young
The girl liked her ex, but he kept asking her do the shit that didn't work. She left him, got a job, but was fired for being creative. She was still being herself, got another job and people liked her. So a guy liked her but she was cautious!
Dating sometimes could be tricky. A girl said she’d been single for a long time and suddenly got asked out and she said it was her right makeup. So she was thinking how to put the right makeup in front of mirror before going out and she asking herself like, “Wearing a metallic smoky eye, applying flawless eyeliner, wearing a perfect red lipstick?” She had a good first night going out date and she was happy! Now she wanted more, she wanted to fix her other problems. She always had bad mood, anxiety, depression, and she felt bad. So she said her first step was watching less TV and spending less time on phone, she wanted getting off screens an hour before going to bed because she thought her mood hinging on sleep; she also switched her room’s lights, from bright lights to softer lighting at night which she felt helping her brain wind down before bed. She also realized something else, said she wanted to connect with friends, because it was a good way to improve mood, decrease anxiety and depression. When her boyfriend said she’d changed a lot, she smiled, said like, “Dating sometimes could be tricky.”
Alex Day
The girl was single for a long time, got asked out for dating and she was excited, said it was because of her makeup! So she wanted more, to fix her other problems; when her mood changed, reconnected with her friends, she felt good, and her guy also appreciated!
When talking about quality in a woman, some people still believe what they believe, but others not. A girl said she was a moral person, she still believed in romantic love, and felt one could do the right thing. Since she spent whole night with her guy, they didn’t kiss, and she said: “That’s the care.” When talked about it with her friend she realized there was sort of different opinions. So she learned her friend was kind of the opposite of it. She worked very hard to get the job done, but some people said bad things about her, they said like, “She’s nothing but flirting, and it’s easy to craft words that way.” Her friend was very upset, she said she was hired for connecting to different people, but she was blamed for doing her job. She said she may be a little stupid, did some crazy things, but she was good at talking to different people, instead, she was blamed for flirting around! She said many people liked her, including her boss who hired her for her. So the girl said when she said she was a moral person and believed in romantic love, she may feel she did the right thing but it didn’t mean for everyone; when she spent whole night with her guy, they didn’t kiss, she felt that was the care, but it also didn’t mean everyone should be like this. She said her friend was hired for her ability to connect different people, and craft words was not easy, so some people saying bad things about her was just kind of attacks and jealous.
Ann Hanson
The girl was a moral person, she spent whole night with her guy and they didn't kiss. Her friend was different, when hired to deal with different people, she may flirting, attacked by others, but the girl said her friend was great, for crafting words was no easy!
Some people said they are curious about many things, they may discover something, they may also be fooled. A girl said she used to be curious about everything, even with people. Once she met a stranger, but she was fooled, so she felt like an idiot. When started to date she liked a guy, but she was cheated again, and her friend said like, “You’re such an idiot, doing it all the time.” She changed a little bit, but not. When she met another guy, she said he was a sweet and loving person, but he was getting weirder with the time that passed. He did silly things, forgot what he had promised, and sometimes was inpatient, said he was tired of everything, would commit suicide if continuing to live a life like that. When she felt horrible about it, she said to her friend like, “I’ve been in so much pain to hear that.” So her friend said she was too harsh on her before, saying she was an idiot, but she seemed doing better. The friend said her guy would be scared for her and she had done nothing wrong, but her relationship with him was toxic, she still had a few choices, and one of them was to leave her guy. So the girl said she was nervous, she was not ready to answer the question if leaving or staying with him because she worried about her guy; he may do some terrible thing; he may scare others, but he was also fragile, sometimes he felt humiliated. Once she asked him why crying, he said like, “I may be a jerk, but I’m a regular guy, just like you.” So she was moved.
Abby Layru
The girl was curious but fooled by others; when felt like an idiot, she met a guy, he seemed sweet, loving, but he also getting weirder, even wanted to suicide; when her friend said she should leave him she said she was worried about him which is cool.
Dating could be fascinating, but also could be disaster. A girl said after several bad experiences about dating and wasted her time, she learned something and considered any going out was a privilege, for she didn’t want to be alone in home! Before going out she spent hours to do makeup, to dress herself, for she thinking it was a privilege! She said she was sick of the lies and wouldn’t be surprised to hear some lies; when asked why people she had dated were liars she said she might also have problems. She said her last guy was sort of her boss, she dated him because he agreed with her all the time and had his back whenever they discussed works. Once they went to a restaurant for lunch, someone said she was seducing their boss, but she said like, “To be clear, we’re not dating.” When they stayed till night, she said they didn’t do any illegal things, they just talking about job, business. She said they both had been through many things and being able to be there for one another. She was grateful for meeting her boss and said like, “Yeah, we definitely have a good relationship.” But by the end her relationship with him ended. When asked how she ended her relationship with the guy, she said it was a little different, she didn’t want to hurt him; while they could continue their relationship she didn’t know if he wanted to call it quit with his wife, so she said he was also kind of lying to her.
Rachel Muller
The girl said dating was a privilege! But she also hated lies; when she said she liked her last guy, who was her boss, she was also kind of not sure, but she didn't want to hurt him, pushing him to divorce, which is funny.
Some people said their success was really hard. A girl said she had a lot of OMG because she’d still grieving. Once a guy thinking her success was easy but she said she experienced a lot of “holy shit,” “Oh My God,” and she put those feelings in her creations. When talking about her relationships, she said she also failed several times. She said a relationship was a team thing, it took two to fight. She said her ex partner talked about her negatively, so she was upset; somethings she throwing towel, crying, said she deserved a lot and was treated unfairly. When her friend said if she felt their relationship was bad, why she still staying there, she said it was also a problem she had to deal with. Sometimes she was stupid for arguing with him for nothing, because she just wanted to vent her anger, her resentment toward him, so she said like, “I know I also angered him, I’m not blaming him for everything.” When she tried to ignore him if he was mean, saying he was spreading bad things about her, she was still not ready to dump him, she just wanted to have a little more time to figure out if she wanted to stay with him forever or just for a period of time. But she left him.
Edith Campbell
The girl's success was not easy; she also failed several times when dealing with relationships; she said it took two to fight, and admitted she had done some stupid things. When left her last ex she was hesitated, but she left him anyway.
People sometimes feel guilty of what they had done. A girl said she was sometimes confused about her background because she was a biracial girl. However she learned how to become a conscious learner, so she learned about her father’s background, his biracial history and she found her relatives living in different parts of the world; when she started to write, her conscious learning about her family let her have unique creation: a mix of different cultures, races. When her friend heard her story, she said she also was rebellious when she was young, she would sneak out at night to meet up with boys, so they smoking, drinking, and having sex. She said her parents also were kind of mixed races, so she never knew exactly where they came from. Once she said to a boy that she would run away with him, so he took her to another city. When she said her parents might hate her, he said they probably already did, so he said she just needed to forget them. She lived with him until he left her, so she was freaking out, didn’t know what to do with her life because she left her home simply wanted to get rid of her family’s restrictions, simply wanted her freedom. When she became a professional she said she felt guilty of what she did to her parents because they worked so hard for their life, raised her, but they were treated badly by their own daughter.
Scott Tar
The girl was biracial; when she learned about her father's background she started writing about her story which let her friend talking about her experiences: she ran away with a guy, simply wanted to get rid of her family's restrictions, she regretted for causing pain to her parents.
Some people liked to fantasize things because they feel good about themselves. A girl said she was chased by many, so she liked to fantasize things. When she sent messages to her crushes she would ask which of her friends would she want to go on a date with. Since she liked to flirt, saying she liked their stuff in a vaguely pattern, then she got the same lies in return. But she still felt good about herself. She said sometimes one minute she liked someone and the next minute she liked someone else. At that time she was not surprised she was a risk-taker because she got that charm, smile and sexy body that she couldn’t help because she was chased by many. When she started to work with her friend, she said they both were kind of smart girls with strong personality. When she didn’t want to shut herself off, her friend said she found something toxic, broken, and she also didn’t want to shut herself off. So both of them said they just wanted to say what they felt. When she said her friend was kind of person messing with working together, said the problem was her friend’s jealous about her, so she said to her friend like, “I really want to work on our differences,” her friend said like, “Okay,” but she still talking bad about her, saying she was fantasizing she was chased by many, meeting a rich man, living in mansion; she never heard her friend said anything about working on their differences but the words like, “We were finished, whatever.”
Shilling Lake
A great story. The girl liked to fantasize things, had many crushes, but she also knew she was a risk-taker! When her friend found their relationship was toxic, she wanted to work on their differences, so she was still a lovable girl but her friend refused.
Flirting may be interesting, fascinating because it could lead to having sex or a funny situation. A girl said she was sexy, liked flirting, which let her meet a guy. So she started to work together with her guy. She said sometimes she just helped him to get the work done. Other times she worked very hard, taking care of his kids, doing all the donkey work, and he just kicking back. So after a while she left him. When she flirting around she met another guy, so she said she could be evil because she was sexy, funny and flirting; when she felt life was interesting and flirting was fascinating, but she didn’t realize it until someone said she was going to take her husband. When the guy said he liked her they were secretly getting together. Their sex sometimes was awkward because she said she was ashamed a little bit because she had said she could be evil. But she also learned how to enjoy sex because her ex was a weirdo who didn’t know how to appreciated her, he just let her work, taking care of his kids and treated her like a donkey! While she enjoyed her sex life she also discovered weird stuff. Once her guy said human body sometimes making funny noises, bad smell and other goofy things when having sex, so she experienced how they were in those kind of situations, like getting sweaty, slipping out, getting into awkward positions; while they were laughing about those things, they said they had more fun during sex because they could just ignore, laugh, and move on, instead of wondering whether their partner could hear it. So she felt he was funny and interesting also.
Matt Wood
Interesting and funny story! The girl's flirting let her meet a guy who treated her like a donkey. So she met another guy who was funny and she discovered how to enjoy sex life, weird stuff, body smell, noises and other goofy things when having sex!
Sometimes it’s hard to talking about quality in a man or in a woman. A guy said after college graduation he found a part-time job in a company, was exited about it because he could learn some tricks about business. When he worked with a girl boss, he realized she was creative because she always thinking about possibilities. It turned out when she was young her friends were rich, so she wanted to work with them for her project. Her secret was that she knew some executives liked to burn money, and she wanted them to burn money on her stuff. When she became one of the bosses of the company, she married to another boss, but soon she found he tried to dim her when she wanted to be herself, but he failed. When she needed his support he was kind of jealous, didn’t want to support her fully. So she said she was serious, she was meant to be, but he still didn’t want to commit her. So she said there was big difference between then, when she supporting him she was unconditionally, but his support was mixed with his ego, and he tried to dim her. When she found out he was seducing other girls she was very upset. One day she met the guy, said she wanted him to take a trip with her. The guy was exited, it was the first foreign trip he had. When they were in a foreign country she started seducing him, so he slept with her. She said her husband was with other woman, she was always ready for her lover but he didn’t want, he prefer to go out to find other women and she said like, “There’s woman there in home, but he didn’t want.”
Ted Douglas
The guy worked for his girl boss, who had an amazing story herself! She used other people got her current position, but her husband was also tricky, he was chasing young girls! So the girl boss confessed to her employee who slept with her, but the guy learned some tricks?
When people were young, they may do crazy, unreasonable things; when getting old they realized they were so bizarre and did those stupid things because they were with their lover, didn’t care about anything others said, and they just wanted to do what they wanted, which could let them learn a lesson. My coworker was very smart, when she successfully completed several projects she was promoted to the leadership position; she considering beauty and strength were the most important things for a woman. Once she went to social, met a woman and wondered: The woman was her age, she looked awesome, and she thought: “I pass the test.” Since passed the test she also wanted to celebrate herself! But she said her past was very different. It turned out she was always afraid of letting others know her past because those things she did were not reasonable, so she felt ashamed about them. Once she met a guy at a party, she ran away with the guy. When her friend said the guy was a monster because he beat his ex-lover, cheated on other girls, and was cruel to different people. When she stayed with him for a while she got tired and went back to her hometown, and said to her friend like, “Some monsters are real.”
Ann Hanson
When getting old many people feel they had done some ridiculous things; the girl was successful, promoted to the leadership level, when she went to a party she met a lady, realized she was still beautiful even though getting old, so she talked about her past which is good.
Some girls said when they met a man they liked but soon they disappointed. A girl said when her guy found some funny things he’d like, “What the heck?” So she’d like, “Is that what you like really? He said like, “Yeah.” But he never took action. She was disappointed because she thought she had a right man. When lured into a luxury lifestyle she felt people talking bad things about her, said she seduced a rich man, had a fighting with his wife, but she said like, “I didn’t do it.” When her friend asked if she got into trouble, she said she didn’t know what the friend talking about, but she said she went several trips with men, but she never seduced any man. If there were rumors about her it was because she worked very hard which let others envy her. She said she was close to decision makers which elevated her status; when some people said they didn’t believe what she said because she was a cheap bitch whose only interests were money, and she was using sex to let rich people addict to her game, to stay with her, even fighting with their wife; but she said those people were just jealous, and there was a big difference between just working and working smart, even though there was a fine line between the two.
Karl Joyce
The girl is smart, when she was disappointed with her ex she changed herself and started to deal with rich people and she experienced a luxury lifestyle which let others envy her but she was not ashamed and wanted to fight back.
Flirting may be a bad thing but it could become a motivation. A girl said she dreamed to be successful and learned how to fit in for a new environment. But her unintentionally flirting was hilarious, which incited desire. So people said she objectified herself and went into it willingly. But she was not a stupid person. When she got another job, she worked very hard, and got a project. So she started to wrestle with others a bit. She said she learned a lesson from her previous job, but she still was herself; it meant she still liked flirting, but in a different form. So she asked coworkers how they might know about the project, what they knew about next stage, how each one playing a role in it, what kind of result it may have, what kind of delicate thing may happen, how to pull it off if something happened, what if it taking a long time to get the goal, and what was the unreasonable thing even thought each coworker said they had worked on really hard. She said the coworkers sometimes felt funny, other times intimidated, and she also had struggles because she had to deal with her own battles, but she wanted to use the project to prove her value, her ability to handle difficult things. When the coworkers said she gave each of them their own opportunity to connect with others, and working with her was really fun, she said she just wanted to use her own words and action to show her humanity, her spirit, and her life experience that people could be themselves, they may be sometimes stupid, but they also could be creative and very smart.
Edith Campbell
Definitely the girl was very smart; she liked flirting, had affair with other, but she learned a lessons and became a successful leader, handling the project with creative way, winning respect from others.
Once a guy said he was bullied at grade-school. He said he was teased and threatened by others because he was not interested in some sports activities. When asked what he was interested in now, he said he was interested in helping poor, learning a foreign language, even die for a cause. So he became friend of an old man. When he found out the man was a writer, he asked him what he was interested, the man said he was interested in women, because they faking their orgasms, which let him awaken for himself also. He said he saw more diverse writers, film makers, who were also interested in those topics. When the guy told his friend that he liked the man, the friend said he had daddy issue, draw to homos, to old men for their money. But the guy denied, said like, “He’s a very interested man, he hooks me in the ribs and starts saying things like he never introduced a lover to his friends.” So the friend learned how the guy crushed on the old man and how married men with children also look for action on the side, asking for a date. When asked how the man’s financial situation, the guy said they never thought about money because the man said when he was in love with his ex-girlfriend, he often went for picnics and walks in the park, but his ex didn't like it. She said it was stingy, he didn't want to spend money because it was clear that a picnic or a walk in the park didn’t cost much. Once, the man said he wanted to treat his ex like a guest, but when they had dinner in a restaurant, the wine he ordered was not expensive, because he attributed it to his cleverness.
Kate Brown
A fascinating topic and like it a lot! People live in big city share a lot of stuff and friendship is one of them because life sometimes getting boring, people just want to have something exciting, and same sex draw to each other become normal.
It’s interesting that to find a good man has a different meaning. A girl said she felt climate change was a real thing. To drive change she talked with different people, said we needed to move faster, not backwards. Once she met a man, they discussed greedy companies, our oil-dependent economy; sometimes she said like, “You are on point with this one.” He would say: “Their reputation is on the line.” When he said he liked Tom Cruise Sci-Fi action flicks, she knew he was a stuntman. Speaking of him being a stuntman, he said it was not difficult if you not afraid of death. In this way he began to jump from high altitudes, was thrown off a cliff, and was killed by a car. He worked so hard, he couldn’t bear it, and got blue and purple. Other times he limped and had to be helped away. When he met the girl again she surprised to see his injuries and asked how he felt, he said he felt much better than before. When the girl said she liked him he felt overwhelmed, so they became lovers.
Shannon Benard
A great story and pictures! Being a stuntman is really a challenge but the man handled well and the girl also was brave enough to find her man, a good man.
Sometimes opposite people can be good friends. A girl said her best friend is a capable person. She adopted a universal method to apply for job, to go along with her boss and to get what she wanted. She knew the trick well, when her boss seduced her, she had affair with him. When her boss found there was less money in bank, she left him, and said when she got scared situation her instinct let her be save. But her friend also knows other stuff. She said: "Being healthy is not about deprivation, it's about balance, choose what kind of food to buy, what kind of breakfast to eat, pancakes with syrup?" So she is happy with her friend. When her friend said she didn't fit what was imagined to be a mom, she was puzzled. So when she was with her friend again, she hearing the same words: "Which dress looks good?" She would like, "They all look good." Then she said like, "Good answer." Eventually she told her about her problem. It turned out she had met a guy not long ago and went out with him. When he wanted to have sex, she felt uneasy because her hormones urged her to have sex but her morality prevented her. When a doctor said although some people had tried sex when dating, she had made a right decision. However, her friend said: "There is no need to seek doctor's help." She asked her: "Can a doctor encourage a girl to try sex? Of course not." So she was at a loss again.
Heather Redman
A great post. The question is: When dating having sex is OK or not? Many people feel it's OK, but the girl's moral thinking let her ask question; when doctor said she did the right thing but her friend said the opposite which let her puzzle again.
Quality-in-a-woman is tricky. A girl said she was envied by many before, but since she found out her boyfriend secretly went to meet a neighbor she changed herself. When she started to follow her guy for a while she found out the neighbor had a fight with her lover and left the area, so she to her friend that this sounded a bit funny, but she did not stop the suspicion of of her guy. She told her friend: "Although the previous problem disappeared, she discovered other suspicious things." When her friend asked if she wanted to continue to be with her guy she said since last incident she considered if starting a relationship again. When asked if this matter would be easy to handle, she said, yes. It turned out there were several people pursuing her, but she couldn't be too eager. She wanted to do it quietly, so no one would think she's too cheap because at the beginning she already knew men were unreliable, so she always paying attention to other men because she liked to have men around and also likes sex.
Will Grant
Like the post and picture! Many women seem OK, but they also can me very mean because they know how bad men were when they were young, dating and sleeping with different men and they know how to deal with those bad men even they may get married.
Flirting may bad but also could be interesting. A friend said he traveled around world, studied different people, cultures, and knows women well; but one day he was drinking in a bar a lady said she had a trick when it comes to falling in love, that was to use different colors of lipstick, to conquer others. The friend felt amazing, soon, he found that the lady's lipstick, like a red bullet, was shooting at him. He was bewildered, even felt it was a dream moment. When got to a hotel, they drank wine, started to have sex until morning, then he had the biggest breakfast of his life.
Bill Atlanta
A great post and like it a lot! The man traveled around world, studied different people, cultures and thinks he knows women well, but he met a lady with lipsticks and when her red bullet hit him he was conquered and the good thing is that he enjoyed encounter.
When talking about success story my friend always let others think about. Once was walking on Bond Street in London she had a weird idea: Shopping for her own style. She always liked vintage stuff and struggled for choosing a career. So she said to herself: Am I going to copy a vintage thing and let it be my first design? It was just one of those moments where she found her interest, decided what she wanted to do for her life.
Andrew Christy
A great post and picture which can inspire others because so may people said they don't know what to do with their life and if they start to work but complain about it because they think they are in a wrong business and they want to do what they like.
How to find a good man? Sometimes you need to be lucky. My coworker said she dated several men but it was not easy. One day some magic thing happened. When standing in front of a man she said to herself: Wow, I love this guy. So they falling in love. When asked by her friend about how to find a good man she said: "You need some luck." And she said she's really proud of herself for making it through.
Liz Lewis
A great post and picture. Now people can feel better because sometimes they do need to find some kind of luck and it comes you just feel everything is so easy, including dating.
My friend said she lowered her standards when dealing with men. Now she not argues with them. When tackling sensibility and intimacy with a partner she felt rewarded and said: It's very human.
Jacob Stone
Interesting post and picture! Lowering standards seem going somewhere, at least can get something going, such as try some different things, having fun, learning something that otherwise is impossible to deal with, so reward is greater than risk, and, human is smarter, better than animal? Or they just same.
A neighbor said she's strong, independent; when she was dating a guy he wanted more from her, even wanted to take care of her, but she rejected. Now she's still single, and her friend said she needs to play the game, let men help her, instead of being herself.
Shannon Benard
My friend also being a strong and independent person and she may learn something from here because dating is playing a game and girls letting men take care of them also a normal thing.
Tim Closk
The girl struggled for years, but met a man who had chased her before, so she called her friend, who was separated from her partner; she said she had a healing process, not sure if going back with him; so the girl didn't want to jump into another mess.