Social issues could be funny. A girl said she lived in Midwest, where people were republic. When she said she was a Democrat and had no kids, people said of course Democrats didn't like kids because they were anti pro-choice, which made her laugh. When she met a man, they discussed their experiences, so she said when she heard Democrats didn’t like kids because they were anti pro-choice she felt it was funny. When the man said he was also from Midwest, she was interested in him, so she heard his stories. He felt people in Midwest had their charms but they were also complaining a lot because they were stuck there, couldn’t get out there. So they just claimed some ridiculous things. Since he left there for a while he sometimes also found there were something else that was good there, one of them was people there seemed taking more responsibility. He said when he saw many money had been wasted by government he always giving feedback, being active about social issues. He said many government programs were treated as a buffet, it meant there was a lot of waste there because when people eating at buffets, they usually eating twice as much as they usually do; sometimes they eating so much that they couldn’t even move for hours, so he said the government was not doing a good job, and all citizens should take more responsibilities to let government reduce the waste. She was impressed.
Sometimes people can’t see themselves but through others. A girl said she felt she couldn’t see her face because there was a gap between her feeling and how she was been perceived. So her friend said like, “What do you mean?” She said it meant she could only see herself well through others and her guy’s reflection. So her friend knew the so-called reflection meant the way her guy saw her. When she said although she felt good because she could see herself well through his reflection, but she felt there was a problem also because she also liked to control things. So she told her her problem was her guy liked sex a lot, he was sort of addicted to it which let her couldn’t do anything else because he always pushed her to bed and they got exhausted. So she said like, “I lost control.” When her friend said her way to get back control was she always put her dogs on bed, which let her control their sex life; when her partner said dogs should be somewhere else, she said they would be unhappy if not close to her, so even her partner knew she wanted to control their sex life, he didn’t know what to do. When the girl tried the same she found it didn’t work because she felt she couldn’t see her guy’s reflection, so she said she was scared of making the matter worse; at this time her friend said she also felt her partner become a little weird and she was worried about him.
Natalie Fanning
The girl said she could only see herself well through other's reflection, but she also liked to control things. When her guy addicted to sex, she tried her friend's way to control him, but she scared of loosing him because she didn't see his reflection which is funny.
Some people said their success was really hard. A girl said she had a lot of OMG because she’d still grieving. Once a guy thinking her success was easy but she said she experienced a lot of “holy shit,” “Oh My God,” and she put those feelings in her creations. When talking about her relationships, she said she also failed several times. She said a relationship was a team thing, it took two to fight. She said her ex partner talked about her negatively, so she was upset; somethings she throwing towel, crying, said she deserved a lot and was treated unfairly. When her friend said if she felt their relationship was bad, why she still staying there, she said it was also a problem she had to deal with. Sometimes she was stupid for arguing with him for nothing, because she just wanted to vent her anger, her resentment toward him, so she said like, “I know I also angered him, I’m not blaming him for everything.” When she tried to ignore him if he was mean, saying he was spreading bad things about her, she was still not ready to dump him, she just wanted to have a little more time to figure out if she wanted to stay with him forever or just for a period of time. But she left him.
Edith Campbell
The girl's success was not easy; she also failed several times when dealing with relationships; she said it took two to fight, and admitted she had done some stupid things. When left her last ex she was hesitated, but she left him anyway.
My friend said she tried to avoid being perceived as tricky, difficult, and arrogant in workplace; so she avoid to raise her voice, which runs the risk of being labeled even though there were some heated moments and intimidating situation; but she still asked a question like, “Should I stand up for myself?” So she was kind of acted always cautious, but she wanted to start her life again. Once she befriended a guy in the mall and surveyed the people around, so she realized queer men and women nearly all dressed well, except her, so she was kind of regretted that she was too casual after breakup with her ex; she wanted to meet a man that she felt comfortable, so she was thinking that religious people were judgmental and they go to church every Sunday, but it didn’t make them good persons; others were fashionable, so she might not be able to afford those fancy clothes, bags and shoes; and the rest were those who looked like the people she worked at office, so she was thinking about those situations again where she tried to avoid being perceived as tricky, difficult, and arrogant, and she said herself like, “You tried to avoid to raise your voice, even though there were some heated moments and intimidating situation, you even asked, should you stand up for yourself?” So she felt she might be a difficult person, an arrogant and tricky person.
Carol Young
The girl tried to avoid being perceived as tricky, difficult; when she wanted to start her life, she looked at different people and found she was also judgmental, so she rethinking about her coworkers and realized she was also one of them who was tricky, difficult and sometimes arrogant.
Sometimes people realized time goes fast and they have kind of urgency. A girl said when she looked at her pictures she realized the time went so fast because just years ago she was a teenager and now she was a woman. So she said to her friend like, “Life is short.” She said there was real reticence to see women age and she regretted about the mistakes she had made and opportunities she had missed. When asked about her guy, she said since they started living together they had fights, and he lied about his past. When asked how did she find out his past, she said she looked up his records, checked his credit card statements. Her friend was kind of disbelieving, said like, “Really?” She said, yes, she said, “He also had drinking problem.” When asked what she did for his problem, she said like, “I raised a red flag, to make sure he’s telling the truth.” She said her guy was weird in bed, but…, so her friend knew even though he was weird in bed, but she had been satisfied. So they discussed how they wasted their time and how to deal with women’s age. The girl said she wasn’t as focused as the things she would have been and those things mattered and she felt terrible about them. Her friend said she also missed many opportunities and there was no excuses about them because she was still looking for a perfect man. So they had kind of urgency, she didn’t know if she should stay with her guy and her friend didn’t know if she should get a man and starting her life, so they said again, “Life is short.”
Tim Swann
The girl realized she wasted her time! She lived together with her guy, but didn't know if she wanted to continue her way, and her friend also felt the same, because she was still looking for a perfect man and they both realized life is short.
People sometimes feel guilty of what they had done. A girl said she was sometimes confused about her background because she was a biracial girl. However she learned how to become a conscious learner, so she learned about her father’s background, his biracial history and she found her relatives living in different parts of the world; when she started to write, her conscious learning about her family let her have unique creation: a mix of different cultures, races. When her friend heard her story, she said she also was rebellious when she was young, she would sneak out at night to meet up with boys, so they smoking, drinking, and having sex. She said her parents also were kind of mixed races, so she never knew exactly where they came from. Once she said to a boy that she would run away with him, so he took her to another city. When she said her parents might hate her, he said they probably already did, so he said she just needed to forget them. She lived with him until he left her, so she was freaking out, didn’t know what to do with her life because she left her home simply wanted to get rid of her family’s restrictions, simply wanted her freedom. When she became a professional she said she felt guilty of what she did to her parents because they worked so hard for their life, raised her, but they were treated badly by their own daughter.
Scott Tar
The girl was biracial; when she learned about her father's background she started writing about her story which let her friend talking about her experiences: she ran away with a guy, simply wanted to get rid of her family's restrictions, she regretted for causing pain to her parents.
Some people liked to fantasize things because they feel good about themselves. A girl said she was chased by many, so she liked to fantasize things. When she sent messages to her crushes she would ask which of her friends would she want to go on a date with. Since she liked to flirt, saying she liked their stuff in a vaguely pattern, then she got the same lies in return. But she still felt good about herself. She said sometimes one minute she liked someone and the next minute she liked someone else. At that time she was not surprised she was a risk-taker because she got that charm, smile and sexy body that she couldn’t help because she was chased by many. When she started to work with her friend, she said they both were kind of smart girls with strong personality. When she didn’t want to shut herself off, her friend said she found something toxic, broken, and she also didn’t want to shut herself off. So both of them said they just wanted to say what they felt. When she said her friend was kind of person messing with working together, said the problem was her friend’s jealous about her, so she said to her friend like, “I really want to work on our differences,” her friend said like, “Okay,” but she still talking bad about her, saying she was fantasizing she was chased by many, meeting a rich man, living in mansion; she never heard her friend said anything about working on their differences but the words like, “We were finished, whatever.”
Shilling Lake
A great story. The girl liked to fantasize things, had many crushes, but she also knew she was a risk-taker! When her friend found their relationship was toxic, she wanted to work on their differences, so she was still a lovable girl but her friend refused.
Some women said they have their own views about many things but they sometimes have to bend to be digestible to male gaze because of cultural stigma. A girl said she was a moral person, she still believing in romantic love, felt one should do the right thing. Once her friend said she spent whole night with her guy, they didn’t kiss, so the girl said like, “That’s the care.” When the girl’s partner left her she said it was hard pill to swallow because they had a romantic love; so she worked very hard, felt she was worth something, and finally she met another guy. When her friend asked how she met her guy, she said like, “Male gaze.” She said her ex left her because she put too much energy into work, ignored him. Once she said like, “I want to try new things but also want to travel,” her ex didn’t say anything because he was not happy, he may also feel she becoming not so attractive after being together for a while. After he left her she still said she had fun working with her colleagues and her goal was going to become a department chief, but she also realized cultural stigma, so she had to bend to male gaze in order to get a man. She said although her goal was still working hard to become the department chief, she didn’t want to be too self-centered, she wanted to be with her guy often, so sometimes she said like, “I don’t have a lot to do, we can explore new things;” but her guy seemed disbelieving, said like, “You’re not busy?” Because he heard the words “more opportunities, work hard” before, but she said firmly she was not busy and wanted to be with him.
Robbin Watson
She was a moral person, had her own views about many things, but she had to bend to male gaze after her partner left her; she was sort of successful girl, but she also needed a man and said it was the cultural stigma that let her change herself.
Find a good man could be tricky because sometimes people just don’t know if they do the right thing. A girl said she was accused by her ex of stealing his money, so she said there were many stories like that, they were ridiculous, but she would deal with it in court if her ex was keeping it up. She said her ex abused her, which directly caused her mental health problem, triggered her visiting clinic. When she met another guy, she said she had dramas in her life and said to her friend like, “Listen, he may not perfect, but it is what it is,” so she said she had found a good man. When she felt things were not as she’d like them to be, she made a bet on her guy’s divorce because she said she and her guy were loving each other, and her guy said that once he got out his nasty divorce, everything would be fine, so she liked it, felt happy, and said to him like, “Aren’t we?” Soon after she realized her guy’s wife was a woman she had met before, she was even friendly with her for a while, so she started to be close to her; when she didn’t see her for a while, she was puzzled, but she found out she went to a foreign country. So she asked her about it, and the woman said like, “Yep, I went there for getting my perfect skin back!” The girl was curious, said like, “How was your trip?” The woman said like, “I had a facial treatment and it works.” So the girl said, “And...” The woman said like, “My trip? American style hotel, drink, food.” They both laughed. Then the girl remembered her guy’s words, he said once he got out his nasty divorce, everything would e fine, but she was puzzled again.
Jack Smith
Very interesting story! The girl wanted to find a good man but she was accused of stealing her ex's money; when she met another guy she was betting on his divorce, but she met his wife, so she was puzzled again and felt not so sure about what she did.
Flirting may be interesting, fascinating because it could lead to having sex or a funny situation. A girl said she was sexy, liked flirting, which let her meet a guy. So she started to work together with her guy. She said sometimes she just helped him to get the work done. Other times she worked very hard, taking care of his kids, doing all the donkey work, and he just kicking back. So after a while she left him. When she flirting around she met another guy, so she said she could be evil because she was sexy, funny and flirting; when she felt life was interesting and flirting was fascinating, but she didn’t realize it until someone said she was going to take her husband. When the guy said he liked her they were secretly getting together. Their sex sometimes was awkward because she said she was ashamed a little bit because she had said she could be evil. But she also learned how to enjoy sex because her ex was a weirdo who didn’t know how to appreciated her, he just let her work, taking care of his kids and treated her like a donkey! While she enjoyed her sex life she also discovered weird stuff. Once her guy said human body sometimes making funny noises, bad smell and other goofy things when having sex, so she experienced how they were in those kind of situations, like getting sweaty, slipping out, getting into awkward positions; while they were laughing about those things, they said they had more fun during sex because they could just ignore, laugh, and move on, instead of wondering whether their partner could hear it. So she felt he was funny and interesting also.
Matt Wood
Interesting and funny story! The girl's flirting let her meet a guy who treated her like a donkey. So she met another guy who was funny and she discovered how to enjoy sex life, weird stuff, body smell, noises and other goofy things when having sex!
Sometimes it’s hard to talking about quality in a man or in a woman. A guy said after college graduation he found a part-time job in a company, was exited about it because he could learn some tricks about business. When he worked with a girl boss, he realized she was creative because she always thinking about possibilities. It turned out when she was young her friends were rich, so she wanted to work with them for her project. Her secret was that she knew some executives liked to burn money, and she wanted them to burn money on her stuff. When she became one of the bosses of the company, she married to another boss, but soon she found he tried to dim her when she wanted to be herself, but he failed. When she needed his support he was kind of jealous, didn’t want to support her fully. So she said she was serious, she was meant to be, but he still didn’t want to commit her. So she said there was big difference between then, when she supporting him she was unconditionally, but his support was mixed with his ego, and he tried to dim her. When she found out he was seducing other girls she was very upset. One day she met the guy, said she wanted him to take a trip with her. The guy was exited, it was the first foreign trip he had. When they were in a foreign country she started seducing him, so he slept with her. She said her husband was with other woman, she was always ready for her lover but he didn’t want, he prefer to go out to find other women and she said like, “There’s woman there in home, but he didn’t want.”
Ted Douglas
The guy worked for his girl boss, who had an amazing story herself! She used other people got her current position, but her husband was also tricky, he was chasing young girls! So the girl boss confessed to her employee who slept with her, but the guy learned some tricks?
Many girls said their dream is to find a good man, but when they realized their dream, it doesn’t mean they can be happy. A girl said when she was young she was tired of her routine life and traveled to a faraway place. When she was clad with bikini, went to a beach, she saw a crystal-blue water stretching to the horizon, everything empty, except another tourist, so he became her lover. So she said she felt lucky, found a good man, realized her dream. When she talked to her friend about her future, she said she just needed to work hard to make their life even better. After having kids, she felt things had changed, so decided to back to work to make some money, to help her husband. When she was up for a project, to her surprise, she was rejected. So she felt hurtful, talked to her friend again, she said like, “It’s my age.” She said she had tried her best to take care of lines on her face, her boobs that were lower from breast-feeding her kids, and her butt that became bigger. So she was not so sure about her future. When she looked at mirror again, she said herself like, “People said you look bad, you need filters?” Again, she was thinking about that faraway place, that magic moment, when she was clad with bikini, saw a crystal-blue water stretching to the horizon, everything empty, except a tourist, but that tourist said he was tired of his routine life.
Daniel Frick
The truth is that there's no such a good man because men don't want to be pushed around, when they can't make enough money, can't meet expectations of others they feel bad; so the girl's romantical way had a weird ending, for she was rejected for getting old.
When people were young, they may do crazy, unreasonable things; when getting old they realized they were so bizarre and did those stupid things because they were with their lover, didn’t care about anything others said, and they just wanted to do what they wanted, which could let them learn a lesson. My coworker was very smart, when she successfully completed several projects she was promoted to the leadership position; she considering beauty and strength were the most important things for a woman. Once she went to social, met a woman and wondered: The woman was her age, she looked awesome, and she thought: “I pass the test.” Since passed the test she also wanted to celebrate herself! But she said her past was very different. It turned out she was always afraid of letting others know her past because those things she did were not reasonable, so she felt ashamed about them. Once she met a guy at a party, she ran away with the guy. When her friend said the guy was a monster because he beat his ex-lover, cheated on other girls, and was cruel to different people. When she stayed with him for a while she got tired and went back to her hometown, and said to her friend like, “Some monsters are real.”
Ann Hanson
When getting old many people feel they had done some ridiculous things; the girl was successful, promoted to the leadership level, when she went to a party she met a lady, realized she was still beautiful even though getting old, so she talked about her past which is good.
Some people said living in big city may feel excited, but also having fatigue syndrome. A friend said she went to her home town to start her business after living in big city for years because she worrying about big city’s cutthroat competition; she said she had wasted her career because even though she brushed shoulders with stars, she didn’t care because she suffered from fatigue syndrome and wanted to live a different lifestyle. So people learned that she had many men before, did a lot of crazy thing. Once she said she was filled with guilt and shame, would not do any crazy thing again, but she still made bad choices in that city because she was still ambitious, wanted to achieve more, which let her be more ambitious and more morally fraught than before. When she tried to look on the bright side, to not argue with others, she was called by some as good person, but she needed to survive there, so she wanted her own way and said being a good person was sweet but not fun at all because she had to face the hash reality and cutthroat competition. When she left her ex and started dating again, her friend asked what kind of partner she would like, she said like, “I need an honest person because I’m going to do the same for him.” But she was still herself and said she wanted to find herself again, starting next part of her life journey. When she was still wanting the same things, feeling the same, and trying to figure out her next steps, she was exhausted, even though she said each stage of her life had its flavor and beauty.
Allen Pace
Fierce competition let many people life getting meaningless because many people only know about making money and they feel lost in big city; so this post could let many people think about life's purpose and what kind of life they want to live.
Some girls said when they met a man they liked but soon they disappointed. A girl said when her guy found some funny things he’d like, “What the heck?” So she’d like, “Is that what you like really? He said like, “Yeah.” But he never took action. She was disappointed because she thought she had a right man. When lured into a luxury lifestyle she felt people talking bad things about her, said she seduced a rich man, had a fighting with his wife, but she said like, “I didn’t do it.” When her friend asked if she got into trouble, she said she didn’t know what the friend talking about, but she said she went several trips with men, but she never seduced any man. If there were rumors about her it was because she worked very hard which let others envy her. She said she was close to decision makers which elevated her status; when some people said they didn’t believe what she said because she was a cheap bitch whose only interests were money, and she was using sex to let rich people addict to her game, to stay with her, even fighting with their wife; but she said those people were just jealous, and there was a big difference between just working and working smart, even though there was a fine line between the two.
Karl Joyce
The girl is smart, when she was disappointed with her ex she changed herself and started to deal with rich people and she experienced a luxury lifestyle which let others envy her but she was not ashamed and wanted to fight back.
Flirting may be a bad thing but it could become a motivation. A girl said she dreamed to be successful and learned how to fit in for a new environment. But her unintentionally flirting was hilarious, which incited desire. So people said she objectified herself and went into it willingly. But she was not a stupid person. When she got another job, she worked very hard, and got a project. So she started to wrestle with others a bit. She said she learned a lesson from her previous job, but she still was herself; it meant she still liked flirting, but in a different form. So she asked coworkers how they might know about the project, what they knew about next stage, how each one playing a role in it, what kind of result it may have, what kind of delicate thing may happen, how to pull it off if something happened, what if it taking a long time to get the goal, and what was the unreasonable thing even thought each coworker said they had worked on really hard. She said the coworkers sometimes felt funny, other times intimidated, and she also had struggles because she had to deal with her own battles, but she wanted to use the project to prove her value, her ability to handle difficult things. When the coworkers said she gave each of them their own opportunity to connect with others, and working with her was really fun, she said she just wanted to use her own words and action to show her humanity, her spirit, and her life experience that people could be themselves, they may be sometimes stupid, but they also could be creative and very smart.
Edith Campbell
Definitely the girl was very smart; she liked flirting, had affair with other, but she learned a lessons and became a successful leader, handling the project with creative way, winning respect from others.
Some people said when they see a pretty girl they want to see her again, but others say don’t let her shiny exterior fool you. So they asked a question: Do women have flaws? Once a girl said she needed to prove to herself, not let others saying she was using her shiny exterior fool them. Since she was coming from a rich family, so people said she was spoiled, but she said like, “I’m different.” But people still thinking she was a spoiled girl, plus, with a little more power and edge. It turned out she used to study singing and acting, and she wanted to be an artist. When a lady asked her what she was doing now, she said whenever she achieved something, other things happened. So she said, women had flaws. When the lady learned the girl had believed women could use their bodies to get what they wanted, the lady asked like, “Are you still stuck on that shit?” The girl said like, “It happened years ago, it’s crazy.” But she said her friend still using her beauty and body to get everything, she said it was much easier than working hard and achieving success in her profession. At this time, the lady said that women using their bodies to exchange for other things, this is a flaw in some people's eyes, but the girl said her friend thought it was also a woman's specialty, because in this world, many women had used their beauty and bodies for what they wanted, they not only lived a good life, but were also enviable.
Paul Parker
The reality is most women use their beauty and body to seduce men, in many cases, to seduce rich men to get what they wanted, but if it's a flaw by doing so is another question because men also use their power, money to get what they wanted.
Once a guy said he was bullied at grade-school. He said he was teased and threatened by others because he was not interested in some sports activities. When asked what he was interested in now, he said he was interested in helping poor, learning a foreign language, even die for a cause. So he became friend of an old man. When he found out the man was a writer, he asked him what he was interested, the man said he was interested in women, because they faking their orgasms, which let him awaken for himself also. He said he saw more diverse writers, film makers, who were also interested in those topics. When the guy told his friend that he liked the man, the friend said he had daddy issue, draw to homos, to old men for their money. But the guy denied, said like, “He’s a very interested man, he hooks me in the ribs and starts saying things like he never introduced a lover to his friends.” So the friend learned how the guy crushed on the old man and how married men with children also look for action on the side, asking for a date. When asked how the man’s financial situation, the guy said they never thought about money because the man said when he was in love with his ex-girlfriend, he often went for picnics and walks in the park, but his ex didn't like it. She said it was stingy, he didn't want to spend money because it was clear that a picnic or a walk in the park didn’t cost much. Once, the man said he wanted to treat his ex like a guest, but when they had dinner in a restaurant, the wine he ordered was not expensive, because he attributed it to his cleverness.
Kate Brown
A fascinating topic and like it a lot! People live in big city share a lot of stuff and friendship is one of them because life sometimes getting boring, people just want to have something exciting, and same sex draw to each other become normal.
Some men said they still like old-school, but they may learn a lesson. A guy said if a man met a woman, their feelings were compatible with, the man should not play around, he should consider to marry his girlfriend because a man should understand what love means, should admit his mistake, be able to say sorry and have accountability in his relationship. Once his friends found his girlfriend was very different from him so they said like, "She's beautiful and sexy." When the guy got engaged, his friends warned him to prevent things that would embarrass him, but their warring seemed to have no effect. When his mother also intervened, asking him to take further action, he also ignored. Once his girlfriend went to a party, she found men could not resist women's fragrance and sexy underwear. When she participated in a yoga class her friend asked her why she was interested in it, she said it could make her more flexible in bed. Soon after the guy discovered his girlfriend had run away with another person. So his friends said engagement didn't mean anything.
Rebecca Houston
Some men with sexy girls but if they were dumped by their sexy partners and they still didn't learn a lesson because they didn't understand sexy girls staying with them only for something, mostly their money.
Career change could be exciting, but also could be daunting. A guy said he worked for a company for years and wanted to change his career. He was at his mid-30s, worrying about having a family and purchasing a home. When his friend started a business years ago and got married he didn't think it was a good move, so he staying single, continued to work for the company, but he felt tired of doing the same thing everyday. When he met his friend again, he said he wanted to start a business, so they talked about business tricks. He said like, "Let's see if I start a business, and it goes well..." His friend said like, "Even if the business doing well, you still should act cautiously because business always encounters new problems." When he said he was paying attention to the business for a while, his friend said: "If business people felt they knew everything, then they are not good business people because business depended on customers, not business people; it was the customers, not business people, who could make the business successful." When he asked him how he decided to put more money into his business, his friend said: When he decided if to increase investment, he could only decide when he found good signs.
Bobby Mcfarland
A great tip and like it. It's true business depends on customers and only the customer, not the business owner, who could decide if continue to expend the business.
It’s interesting that to find a good man has a different meaning. A girl said she felt climate change was a real thing. To drive change she talked with different people, said we needed to move faster, not backwards. Once she met a man, they discussed greedy companies, our oil-dependent economy; sometimes she said like, “You are on point with this one.” He would say: “Their reputation is on the line.” When he said he liked Tom Cruise Sci-Fi action flicks, she knew he was a stuntman. Speaking of him being a stuntman, he said it was not difficult if you not afraid of death. In this way he began to jump from high altitudes, was thrown off a cliff, and was killed by a car. He worked so hard, he couldn’t bear it, and got blue and purple. Other times he limped and had to be helped away. When he met the girl again she surprised to see his injuries and asked how he felt, he said he felt much better than before. When the girl said she liked him he felt overwhelmed, so they became lovers.
Shannon Benard
A great story and pictures! Being a stuntman is really a challenge but the man handled well and the girl also was brave enough to find her man, a good man.
Sometimes opposite people can be good friends. A girl said her best friend is a capable person. She adopted a universal method to apply for job, to go along with her boss and to get what she wanted. She knew the trick well, when her boss seduced her, she had affair with him. When her boss found there was less money in bank, she left him, and said when she got scared situation her instinct let her be save. But her friend also knows other stuff. She said: "Being healthy is not about deprivation, it's about balance, choose what kind of food to buy, what kind of breakfast to eat, pancakes with syrup?" So she is happy with her friend. When her friend said she didn't fit what was imagined to be a mom, she was puzzled. So when she was with her friend again, she hearing the same words: "Which dress looks good?" She would like, "They all look good." Then she said like, "Good answer." Eventually she told her about her problem. It turned out she had met a guy not long ago and went out with him. When he wanted to have sex, she felt uneasy because her hormones urged her to have sex but her morality prevented her. When a doctor said although some people had tried sex when dating, she had made a right decision. However, her friend said: "There is no need to seek doctor's help." She asked her: "Can a doctor encourage a girl to try sex? Of course not." So she was at a loss again.
Heather Redman
A great post. The question is: When dating having sex is OK or not? Many people feel it's OK, but the girl's moral thinking let her ask question; when doctor said she did the right thing but her friend said the opposite which let her puzzle again.
Marrying to a rich man is a dream for many girls, but ask rich men to be loyal is difficult. A girl said she took a shortcut, married to a rich man, so she transformed herself from a poor girl to a rich lady. When she sent her cowboy-like photos to her friends, she felt she was on the top of her life, but others said she was still a poor girl because she forgot to wear a bra when running and her breasts were moving violently. Later she found out her friend got divorced. She told her she didn't feel anything about breaking up with her lover. So she asked her about love, her friend said the so-called love is just that: Once the passion disappear, breaking up is inevitable. So she thought of her husband, told her friend about his infidelity, and asked her: What loyalty is? Are all rich men not understanding what loyalty is?
Lisa Daniel
Rich men do not know what is love and loyalty, just look at those who have a lot of money and they have many affairs and they divorced many times.
Quality-in-a-woman is tricky. A girl said she was envied by many before, but since she found out her boyfriend secretly went to meet a neighbor she changed herself. When she started to follow her guy for a while she found out the neighbor had a fight with her lover and left the area, so she to her friend that this sounded a bit funny, but she did not stop the suspicion of of her guy. She told her friend: "Although the previous problem disappeared, she discovered other suspicious things." When her friend asked if she wanted to continue to be with her guy she said since last incident she considered if starting a relationship again. When asked if this matter would be easy to handle, she said, yes. It turned out there were several people pursuing her, but she couldn't be too eager. She wanted to do it quietly, so no one would think she's too cheap because at the beginning she already knew men were unreliable, so she always paying attention to other men because she liked to have men around and also likes sex.
Will Grant
Like the post and picture! Many women seem OK, but they also can me very mean because they know how bad men were when they were young, dating and sleeping with different men and they know how to deal with those bad men even they may get married.
Flirting may bad but also could be interesting. A friend said he traveled around world, studied different people, cultures, and knows women well; but one day he was drinking in a bar a lady said she had a trick when it comes to falling in love, that was to use different colors of lipstick, to conquer others. The friend felt amazing, soon, he found that the lady's lipstick, like a red bullet, was shooting at him. He was bewildered, even felt it was a dream moment. When got to a hotel, they drank wine, started to have sex until morning, then he had the biggest breakfast of his life.
Bill Atlanta
A great post and like it a lot! The man traveled around world, studied different people, cultures and thinks he knows women well, but he met a lady with lipsticks and when her red bullet hit him he was conquered and the good thing is that he enjoyed encounter.
When talking about success story my friend always let others think about. Once was walking on Bond Street in London she had a weird idea: Shopping for her own style. She always liked vintage stuff and struggled for choosing a career. So she said to herself: Am I going to copy a vintage thing and let it be my first design? It was just one of those moments where she found her interest, decided what she wanted to do for her life.
Andrew Christy
A great post and picture which can inspire others because so may people said they don't know what to do with their life and if they start to work but complain about it because they think they are in a wrong business and they want to do what they like.
How to find a good man? Sometimes you need to be lucky. My coworker said she dated several men but it was not easy. One day some magic thing happened. When standing in front of a man she said to herself: Wow, I love this guy. So they falling in love. When asked by her friend about how to find a good man she said: "You need some luck." And she said she's really proud of herself for making it through.
Liz Lewis
A great post and picture. Now people can feel better because sometimes they do need to find some kind of luck and it comes you just feel everything is so easy, including dating.
My friend said she lowered her standards when dealing with men. Now she not argues with them. When tackling sensibility and intimacy with a partner she felt rewarded and said: It's very human.
Jacob Stone
Interesting post and picture! Lowering standards seem going somewhere, at least can get something going, such as try some different things, having fun, learning something that otherwise is impossible to deal with, so reward is greater than risk, and, human is smarter, better than animal? Or they just same.
A neighbor said she's strong, independent; when she was dating a guy he wanted more from her, even wanted to take care of her, but she rejected. Now she's still single, and her friend said she needs to play the game, let men help her, instead of being herself.
Shannon Benard
My friend also being a strong and independent person and she may learn something from here because dating is playing a game and girls letting men take care of them also a normal thing.
Bullying is an important topic because many people experienced it, when you were in middle school, your neighbor, bad kids might let you feel scared, didn't want to go out, even as adult, people still feel they experiencing bullying.
Peter Price
It's true many people experienced bullying, the question is how to let people know it's bad and should be stopped.