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Neil Holland
neilh813@yahoo.com
My experience is scaring, because I left my home town in winter and arrive my destination in summer.
- Denver, Colorado
- Joined November 2023
- 46 Followers
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My friend said she dreams to be an artist, but her mother said her dream is too big, and will never realize it; so now she said her aspirations are small, she just wants to be loved, have enough money, have a family and kids. #artist #girlsdream #beamother #careerwomen #sacrificedalot #pressureandsorrows #suffer
A girl said her friend got married and she still works hard for her dream; but her instinctive desire is to date, have a family, so she said achieving her dream is very difficult, now she wants stylish clothes, fancy shoes, luxury stuff, just like everyone does. #chasingdream #careerwomen #anxiety #depression #modernsociety #feelstressful #beingsingle
Will Cohen
Chasing dream is not easy, it needs working hard, persistence and sacrifice, so the girl decides to start her real life, dating, having a family, buying stylish clothes, fancy shoes, just like everyone else, is understandable.
Anderson West
Yes, chasing dream is hard, because it needs to work hard for a long time and many times that dream is illusive, so people finally choose to live a normal life, which is dating, having family, and being a normal person, just like everyone else.
Recently I hear a lot of people said they are not getting married because of the changing economy. They said they opt out marriage because in US, UK and Japan marriage rates declined a lot and the age for marriages has increased for both men and women, even though some girls said they want children and have baby pressure. So, is traditional marriage experiencing a crisis? #marriage #babypressure #bigcompanydoll #careerwomen
Liz Lewis
Changing economy and declining marriage rates do let many girls feel they don't have to get married soon, but for those who want kids, it's a different story because aging is also real and baby pressure can sometimes make people feel they're wasting time by not get into a relationship.
Ali Turner
My friend worries about not getting pregnant, so she has a baby pressure problem, she said now she works everyday and even no time for dating, which is another problem.
Husband Material? One girl said she’s getting old and really wants to start her life. When she started to date, she found it’s not easy to find a right man, so she started to travel around the world, looking for her potential husband. Once she met a guy in a small town and her unintentional flirting turned into a passion. #husbandmaterial #gutinstinct #femalefault #cowboysnevercry #lifeexperience #greatromance #neversaynever #changeyourself #malegaze #embarrassingthing #conversationseducesex #followyourfeeling #unforgettabletrip #catchuplosttime #bigcompanydoll #lovelesslife #worklikeslave #whymustilivelikethis? #geniusandfool #careerwomen
Will Grant
Love the post! There're many people find a way to solve the problem, and flirting could be helpful, because after all life doesn't have to be too serious.
Terry Martin
Agree. When people getting old they become smart and don't treat things so serious, which is smart; so dating is not like those young people, who still need to learn a lot about life experience.
A girl said she dreamed to be successful and learned how to fit in for a new environment. Since the workplace and her boss were OK, but her unintentionally flirting was also hilarious, which incited desire. So, people said she objectified herself and went into it willingly. #flirting #sexobject #sexualharassment #dreamedtofitin #lovejustsex #winewomensex #haveaffair #wealllived #femalefault #conversationseducesex #sextool #mademistakes #allmenarenotgood #careerwomen
Kelly Wicks
Workplace sexual harassment finds its way to blame women who are not prepared for different situation; so even the girl flirted, it's not all her mistake.
Jenny Webb
Agree. Many girls dreamed to be successful and tried to fit in, but when something happened people blame them for their flirting, for their own mistake, which is not right.
Anderson West
Flirting is not a mistake, but using it to take advantage is a problem, and those who are in power are real bad people.
One girl said she made drunken mishaps because she looked sexy, drinking with male friends and law officers. She also said since her drunken mishaps she turned them a positive impact and thinks life is not only being sexy, fun, it has many other important things to do. #mademistakes #feelsexy #femalefault #cowboysnevercry #partygirl #winewomensex #lostincity #bigcompanydoll #geniusandfool #careerwomen #isacrificedalot
Greg Hamilton
Girls said they made mistakes because of drinking and bad actors, but many time they also seduced guys, which becomes so called sexual harassment or rape.
Brian Lawrence
So girls drinking, flirting, making drunken mistakes are acceptable, and guys' sexual harassment or rape is also understandable, and everyone just needs to learn something and moves on?
Some people said they have made the right decision and now they are happy, but before that they looked in the mirror and hated themselves: because their hair, nose, teeth, face, all not good. Now gratitude has replaced sadness: They stand in front of the mirror, they know that they’re kind, loved and lovable, and they said: You’re OK now. So here are the questions: What kind of happiness people should seek? Does happiness associate with buying fancy clothes, looking younger, and having a good mood? #feelhappy #findhappiness #lookyounger #liftmood #modernlife #changeyourself #malegaze #chicmoms #singlemother #nextdoorgirl #lovelesslife #careerwomen #beflexible #notstuck
Amy Lynch
Happiness does associate with looking younger, having a good mood, and wearing beautiful clothes. A friend said she's fashionable and dynamic, because she likes to try different things and feels good.
Debra Darling
Agree, but may people are rebellious and they like adventure, like awe-inspiring design, futuristic nostalgia, at the same time, they want to pay a democratic price.
My friend said she had late period, butterflies inside her, and she went to buy a test. She said she buried her sadness, gives up alcohol, coffee, tea, gets her body in tip-top shape, because she has maternal urge. Once she looked at others and thought so beautiful pregnant, sexy, happy, and dreamed: her breasts felt heavy, there were tweaks, sensations. #babypressure #maternalurge #getpregnant #careerwomen
Pat Davis
My friend also wants to get pregnant, but she's busy; she always feels tired, just gets things done every day, then she goes to eat, sleep. Sometimes she's so tired, she falls asleep on buss, on a plane, even in an upright position.
Rebecca Houston
A girl said her partner lied about his past, so she cheated on him; now she wants to get pregnant, she can only tries her best to think about good things, and ask her partner to forgive her.
A friend said her field is brutal and experienced fierce competition; she said she's tired of waiting for her next opportunity, promotion, and decided to do something for herself, for her family, and her kids; she said she sacrificed a lot, staying in her field for years, and still doesn't know when she can change the situation. #careerwomen #isacrificedalot #wrongbusiness #trappedin #singlemother #catchuplosttime #yourregret #bigcompanydoll #lovelesslife #lifeisshort #urbanlabyrinth #findagoodman #worklikeslave #whymustilivelikethis? #hateloverelationship #localcuisine
Ann Hanson
It's true many women sacrificed a lot for their career, family, kids and the can't live a life like this forever.
Terry Martin
Women's sacrifices mean work more, get less pay, and treated badly and it has to stop..
My friend said her kids eat a lot of junk food, ready meals, frozen food; she said she knows it's bad for kids, because of high fat, sugar, artificial chemicals, and bad for digestion; she said when her kids eat chicken nuggets, muffin, cereal, drink soda, she realized it's those food's flavor, that attracts people; but she's busy and no time for cooking. #isacrificedalot #feellonely #savemoney #singlemother #mademistakes #careerwomen #beinglazy #localcuisine #lovelesslife #lostincity #yourregret #worklikeslave #whymustilivelikethis? #trappedin #embarrassingthing #lowIQ
Elizabeth Le Glaire
A friend said she was ambitious, but every time achieved something, other thing happened; now she has kids, thinking being a mother is natural, for she knows it well, and she can cook for kids everyday.
Bill Atlanta
Many women are busy with work, kids, and fast food, ready meals become their daily life, which is a big problem; and this post should let people think about it.
Kate Brown
Girls like to dream, but they paid price. A friend said she left her loved one behind and has built her career; at that moment she felt strong, excited, like a caterpillar to emerge as a butterfly, but she still has doubts, not seeing her family, still single.
Meg Cox
Agree, many girls paid huge price. One girl said she hates failure, for her work's selling strength, dreams, its larger-than-life persona, not what happens behind it: sorrows, solitude, pressure.
Anderson West
Many people dreamed, most of them never tried their dreams, and those who tried, most of them suffer more than enjoying life.
Daniel Frick
People need to dream, if try it and not successful, so be it.