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Neil Holland
neilh813@yahoo.com
My experience is scaring, because I left my home town in winter and arrive my destination in summer.
- Denver, Colorado
- Joined November 2023
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A girl said she had a great romance, later failed and now she started searching for a husband. It turned out she’s secretary, married several times, and now wants to wear fashion dress, tight dress, high heels, for impress her husband #…? #greatromance #husbandmaterial #findagoodman #sexysecretary #liesanddishonest #relationshipchallenges
A girl said she tries getting her man, being happy, dealing with cheating boyfriend, but she’s a strong-minded woman and knows that most men love strong women as friends, not as girlfriends, so she just sleeping around. #findagoodman #womensbreasts #sleepingandsex #conquermen #everyonelies #lovejustsex #conversationseducesex
Steve Spencer
Strong women are great, but many men feel difficult to deal.
Katie Roberts
Strong women can get many things done fast because they are smart!
Some girls said they hate to carry a bag of makeup around all day but they need to combat all they might be dealing with at any given moment. One girls said her quick up-do rule including an easy makeup for eye lashes, a sponge for cheeks, and a lipstick for soft lips. Your story? #lifelikeart #modernlife #coolgirl #malegaze #conversationseducesex #greatlifestyle #catchuplosttime #funthings #nextdoorgirl #getattention #partygirl #isacrificedalot #winewomensex #findagoodman #lookyounger #liftmood #fancygirl
Lisa Daniel
My friend's job needs to travel, so she said the same thing and developed her own quick-up-do rule; so she always look fresh, charming, and young.
Jenny Webb
Makeup and quick up-do let many women successful in their career and fancy products find their own fans, which is a great thing for modern life.
Anderson West
Makeup is the one making girls more women.
My friend said she visits her friends and starts to drink. She thinks drinking is a cultural thing and she likes the lovely moment of a toast; but her drinking gets her headache, drunk; so she said after quitting drink she now sleeps like a baby every night. #urbanlabyrinth #findagoodman #feellonely #simplepleasure #blabbermouth #funthings #curiousgirl
Will Grant
Drinking does have a cultural thing, but often let people addicted. A friend said he was rebellious in high school, against status quo; when started drinking, he met different people, but also got drunk many times.
Mark William
Agree. A friend said he's a lonely professional; when he went to big city, he experienced noise of the traffic, homeless people, met a nude dancer, and drinking becoming his surviving skill.
Some girls said they didn’t worry about their chronological age anymore because they freeze their eggs. So one girl said now her dating is going better and has less baby pressure. When someone said: “I don’t want to waste your time”, she said: “I’m not desperate.” #freezeeggs #chronologicalage #dating #babypressure #feeldesperate #findagoodman #beautytreatment #exlover #coolgirl #feelyoung #husbandmaterial #lovelesslife #urbanlabyrinth #beachlife #bikinigirl #beingsingle
Debra Darling
Baby pressure let some girls feel desperate, but they also learned a lot. A friend said when she met a guy, who said he had never looked at a woman before until he met her, she laughed, and left him.
Pat Davis
Chronological age and baby pressure do let some girls worry. A girl said in order to find a right man, she had a beauty treatment, but there was an after-burn, so she resembled a barbecue.
A girl said she's looking for a person to help her business, a person who doesn't need to have a lot of training. She also dated several people, including law officer, and she's tired of fixing drinking problem, crazy behavior, nasty attitude. When she starts to date again, just like her business, she looks for a guy ready to do everything. #dating #drinkingproblem #crazybehavior #nastyattitude #tearfulmoments #scaringsituation #hateloverelationship #findagoodman
Jenny Webb
My friend started a business with her guy, but she thinks it's better for her to leave him, for they argued a lot, had fights. She had tearful moments, scaring situation, now they barely speaking, and there's so much tension there.
Kelly Wicks
Agree, mixed business with love will not work.
Emily Hill
It depends, some people work together with their loved ones and they seem fine.
A friend said her field is brutal and experienced fierce competition; she said she's tired of waiting for her next opportunity, promotion, and decided to do something for herself, for her family, and her kids; she said she sacrificed a lot, staying in her field for years, and still doesn't know when she can change the situation. #careerwomen #isacrificedalot #wrongbusiness #trappedin #singlemother #catchuplosttime #yourregret #bigcompanydoll #lovelesslife #lifeisshort #urbanlabyrinth #findagoodman #worklikeslave #whymustilivelikethis? #hateloverelationship #localcuisine
Ann Hanson
It's true many women sacrificed a lot for their career, family, kids and the can't live a life like this forever.
Terry Martin
Women's sacrifices mean work more, get less pay, and treated badly and it has to stop..
A friend said she once rescued a guy from dating market because she thought that man could become her lover; but the man was ungrateful, and not only did he not appreciate her, but he actually harmed her, which let her to conclude that it was impossible to find a suitable lover in dating market, for many men's obsessed with women's body, with sex. #datingmarket #findagoodman #obsessedwithsex #womenandbody
Scott Tar
My friend considers beauty and strength are the important things for a woman; once she went to social, met a woman, she wondered: the woman was her age, single, successful, and she looked awesome, so she thought: I passed test.
Anderson West
Many girls dating for years and still single.
My friend got impatient and told her guy that he was always eager to do things quickly, even when he was in love; but he said he liked the fast pace because he could do a lot of things in a short time; but she likes to do things slowly, she planned to fall in love seriously, so, he trying to attract her with sex, and said she's the best person he's found in a long time; but she said: if you drive too fast on highway, the patrol officer will issue a ticket. #fallinlove #addictedtosex #sexygirl #findagoodman
Anderson West
Interesting post.
Scott Tar
A guy said his girlfriend is a man-eating beauty, she likes sex, but also knows she has to play roles to get job done, and she wants to find a guy who can stay through thick and thin.
Tom Edward
Sexy and smart.
A friend said he had waited for long time to find a good partner; when asked how good his partner is, he said his partner let him enjoy her body; it turns out when they were together, he would strip off her clothes as soon as they entered the door, and she always asked him to focus on her lower body, for she needed him so much. #addictedtosex #enjoylife #sexygirl #lifeisshort #findagoodman
Scott Tar
There're people who want to enjoy life, sex; a girl said her guy liked to party, to drink, but she's OK with it, for they have great sex; when asked her guy's impression of her, her guy said when he held her, it was like holding a lighted bulb.
Anderson West
They’re smart. enjoy life, for life is short.
A girl said although she had noticed her guy's cheating, she still believed there were some good men; when breaking up with her guy, she said all men are not good, because they're lustful, can't resist the temptation of women. #cheating #breakup #findagoodman #temptationofwomen #allmenarenotgood #winewomensex #jealousandangry #conversationseducesex #mademistakes #insecurities #freezeeggs #chronologicalage #sexandshouting
Anderson West
A guy said when met his girlfriend he was fascinated by her, but one thing that puzzles him: she’s very feminine, affectionate, could other people be just as fascinated by her as he was at the beginning?
Go Long
Temptation of women is everywhere; a friend aske a guy if he had done anything to feel sorry for his girlfriend, he said if there's any, it's her charming, which made him sad sometimes.
Chris Chapmen
Women's temptation let many men enjoy the sex, but also pay the price; a guy said his partner is a big-buyer, when he said it's too expensive, beyond he could bear, but she said the price justified the quality.
A girl said her favorite face product with Vitamin C is antioxidant, which can brighten her skin; she also said she's not happy, and asked: Why must I live like this? When met a man, she said she has many interests, so the man said she can start a business; at this moment she found the man was cute, because he showed her path as a professional; now they live together, but at the beginning she just said: Who knows if it works? And later she said: Her everything is his. #curiosgirl #WhymustIlivelikethis? #businesstrick #gutinstinct #yourlalala #greatromance #conversationseducesex #followyourfeeling #dreamcometrue #chasingdream #winewomensex #stupidquestions #findagoodman #fallinlove #streetwiseattitude
Anderson West
Great story.
Chris Chapmen
Agree.
Neil Holland
When start to ask "Why must I live like this?" it's the change. A friend said he living a frugal life for years and asked himself: Do you want to live like this forever? When started spending money, he met a girl, said "Life should be lived happily."
A girl said she had been with her guy for years, but she doesn't want to get married; she said an unmarried woman is a lover, once married, she's no longer a lover, at this time, women have become men's sex tools, machines for making children, and housework servants, and their men? They think of looking for other women. #livetogether #marriage #sextool #makingchildren #lieandbetray #divorce #secondchance #findagoodman #marriedpeoplenothappy
Go Long
Seems right; a girl said her ex-lover betrayed her after their marriage and having a child, when he asked her to give him a second change, she said to her friend: since he likes to lie, betrayed her, why is he asking for second change now?
Scott Tar
My friend said her coworker has been with a young man after divorce, when asked if she wants to marry him, she said if turned him into her husband, it would be boring, for she thinks very few married people are happy.
Chris Chapmen
A friend said she used to be slender, as charming as a Greek goddess, since marriage, giving birth to a baby, her belly's like a globe, so she said she's not happy, for marriage ruined her life.
Anderson West
After marriage many men think other women are better, so married women have big challenges.
One girl asked a question: Is it very difficult to find a good man? Because her ex-lover is weird, he went to a place where there were naked women picking fruits, sexy girls seduced him, he said he knew she's not happy, and endured pain; so the girl said: She's in her thirties, she needs to work, make money, and find a really good man, for she doesn't want to wake up in bed along. #findagoodman #liftmood #sexygirl #lifeexperience #machoman #mademistakes #lovejustsex #winewomensex #yourregret #geniusandfool #embarrassingthing
Go Long
Find a good man is not easy, but girls have their way; a girl said her guy cheated on her, she said there are several people who pursue her, but she needs to do it quietly, for she likes sex, and also not let others thinks she's mean.
Anderson West
Great story.
Meg Cox
A good man can be a moral person, a romantic guy, so there're still people who feel one should do the right thing; a girl said she spent whole night with her guy, they didn't kiss, but she said: That's the care.
Katherine Boston
Some girls found good men, but later they were fooled, so said it's not easy to find a good man, So, those good looking men, also making money, are good men? But, many of them like sexy girls, who learned tricks: prepared for cheating, for waking up in bed along.
Bar culture again? People said they need to put themself out in bars, to be perceived well by others. They also check companions, react to other’s conversations, so they may remain present, or enjoy themselves. But others find there are stereotypes, or some people sparked curiosity, which may have their hidden agendas. Is that true? #barculture #bardancing #stereotypes #freespeech #worklikeslave #flirting #cheating #betray #findagoodman #sexygirl #jealous #envy #revenge #bullshitdiva
Elizabeth Le Glaire
Bar culture also means free speech; one guy said he working in the company like a slave, when he drinks more, he feels better, smart, so he tells all bad things there, injustice of society.
Anderson West
Agree.
Scott Tar
A guy said he met her lover in a bar; when he found she was very sexy for dancing so charmingly that many people couldn't take their eyes off her; so he rushed up, kissing her, and they became lovers.
Married, break up, passion, and… victim? Some girls said they saw their friends got married and after a while breaks up, so they don’t cast themselves as victims because they understand that after the passion wears off that’s the way it is. One girl said she dated a law officer for a long time and now she’s single again, she considers herself still pretty, but not some bullshit diva anymore. Your story? #breakup #passion #bullshitdiva #fantasyland #findtruelove #prettygirl #sexygirl #findagoodman #lessonlearned
Bill Atlanta
It's true passion wears off, but some girls have their fantasy land: a star look, dance with star, become famous, so they invented unexpected, a killing dress, a sexiest desire, and a passion.
Allen Pace
One girl said in order to find true love, everyone has to go through a lot of pain, for only through pain one can find true happiness.
Tom Edward
My friend never missed past, she said she lived with a boyfriend, when he didn’t share rent, she kicked him out, she said if a person bought many useless things, the best way is throw them away.
(People talk about different things in bar, party or lunch meeting. They are X, Y and Z. Below is their chat.) X: He’s a high-energy person. Y: Really? X: He said most of his friends are only worth a short conversation, except the ones he had affair with. Y & Z: (Laughs.) #haveaffair #seducewoman #conquerman #prettygirl #bullshitdiva #cheapbeauty #manslust #findagoodman #winewomensex #lifeisshort #lovejustsex
Scott Tar
One guy said one day he walked into a mall, saw a sales girl smiling at him, so he smiled too; he spent a lot of money, so the girl thanked him, they became friends and have affair; he met her again at party, they talked a lot.
Bill Atlanta
Women also have charming effect; one girl said she has a trick when it come to falling in love; so whenever she goes out, she can conquer man by using a red lipstick.
Bitching, controlling, and… female fault? People said that they find female fault caused problems for relationship, divorce, separation, and third part intervention, for many female bitching about everyone, want to control everything, to expecting men to do things the way they would do them, and not letting go if the man didn’t do it their way. Is that true? #bitching #controling #flirting #femalefault #relationshipchallenge #bullshitdiva #cheapbeauty #findagoodman
Tom Edward
When talking about control, female fault, many times there is a third part involved, one girl said her lover had a child with a woman, she said asking him for child support is very difficult, like try to open oysters with fingers.
Anderson West
Funny.
Scott Tar
Controlling may be a female fault, but many men like flirting; a friend said she hearing her boyfriend flirting with other girls, her intuition told her to leave him, for there is no trust there.
(People talk about different things in bar, party or lunch meeting. They are X, Y and Z. Below is their chat.) X: She feels she like a caged bird. Y: Caged bird? X: Her beauty concept is a pretty girl with makeup. Z: How? X: Once she walked on the street and someone yelled: “Hey, Blondie!” Y: Really? X: Another time she died her hair. Y: What happened? X: She burned her head. Y & Z: (Laughs.) #prettygirl #easylife #enviedbymany #iearneditmyself #partygirl #findagoodman #fancydress #shoppingforfun #enjoylife
Tom Edward
Funny
Go Long
Thanks for like it
Chris Chapmen
Some girls enjoy their caged bird lifestyle; a girl said her friend is still difficult to make a commitment to choose a career, she doesn't want to be tired down, she envies her lifestyle, and said she's lucky.
(People talk about different things in bar, party or lunch meeting. They are X, Y and Z. Below is their chat.) X: He didn’t have money, but he was lucky. Y: Really? X: Yep, he considered it from good timing. Z: Good timing? X: He applied for a project, waiting to be approved, and... Y: What? X: On the April Fool’s day, he received a “Yes”. Y & Z: (Laughs.) #luckyandsmart #goodtiming #Aprilfoolday #findagoodman #projectandsuccess #moneyissue #humorandfun #stupidquestions
Elizabeth Le Glaire
Wish have the same
Tom Edward
Me too
Tom Edward
April Fool’s day always something happens, one guy said he sent flowers to his girlfriend, when someone said it’s old-fashioned, he said he saw his girlfriend’s surprise, which makes them closer, and they married on April Fool day.
Anderson West
I love April Fool day.
Moody parents, not afraid of ugliness, and… embarrassing moments? Some people said they grew up poor and learned many things from their moody parents. One girl said she captures many moods of different moments: her friends’ dance class, yoga exercise, their embarrassing moments, cheating behaviors, and she’s not afraid of ugliness. Your story? #moodyparents #embarrassingthing #danceclass #yogaclass #cheating #tellthuth #lifeisshort #lovejustsex #findagoodman #enjoylife
Bill Atlanta
Moody, ugliness, embarrassing moments, people see all the time, but cheating is different
Tom Edward
People only let others see what they want them to see, but start to tell truth, tell your cheating lover, your stress, are more appreciated because they are your real life, real feeling.
Elizabeth Le Glaire
It’s true.
The power of fashion, feel sexy, and… you discovered yourself? Some people said when they wear fashion clothes, they feel the power of fashion because they feel sexy, which let them feel like they discovered best version of themselves. Others said they buy gorgeous skirts and beautiful outfits because they dreamed before and don’t want to wait forever. Your story? #feelsexy #fashionfan #discoveryourself #notwaitforever #itsmetime #findagoodman #changeyourself #prettygirl
james covit
Can't wait forever, my co-worker wants a face-lift, she also wants a man, because she doesn't want to wake up alone in bed.
Bill Atlanta
Funny, but it's true, if you wait forever, nothing coming!
Tom Edward
Can’t wait forever made my friend changed beauty concept, now she wears stylish clothes, buy chic stuff, and thinks a pretty girl with makeup is cool.
Your skin, your backs of thighs, and… your miracle? Some people said they hit their thirties and started to do something about their skin, their backs of thighs, and tops of legs. One girl said that because she has done something, it has made a difference, and she has more confidence to show off her legs in shorter dresses and skirts, and her skin also looks great. Your story? #latemom #feelpressure #findagoodman #sexydress #wowdress #lovelesslife #lifeisshort #beachlife #isacrificedalot #liftmood #beingsingle #crush #feeldesperate #freezeeggs #sexandshouting
Elizabeth Le Glaire
Great story
Go Long
Thanks
Anderson West
Agree, it’s a good story.
Tom Edward
When girls hit thirties or nudge to 40, there’re many things to worry, one girl said she feels pressure, for her life is about work related success; now she wants to be a mom, and feels every woman has about being a late mom.
james covit
For others, there is another thing; one girl said she wants to find a man, after having confidence to show off her legs in dresses and skirts, so she sighed up for a cruise, saying that there are thousands people there, even if picked one, she would be lucky.
Terry Martin
Lies and dishonest usually involved. A friend said she's afraid one day her lover will expose her lies, she not takes it too seriously, but still feels uncomfortable.
Emily Hill
Lies and dishonest are the problems for relationship. A girl said she's afraid her husband would make her lose face for her lies, for he's becoming more and more distant from her; so she asked her friend: What will happen to her next?
Anderson West
Sexy girl can have many husbands.