(People talk about different things in bar, party or lunch meeting. They are X, Y and Z. Below is their chat.) X: He’s self-destructive because he has an affair with a committed person. Y: Really? X: Yep, which let his friends worry about him. Z: This kind of self-destructive desire many people felt at one time or other. X: The difference is how to control yourself. But he feels panic, wants to fuck it all up. Y: What he wants to do? X: He feels an urge to throw himself off a cliff. Y & Z: Wow. #ridiculousthings #selfdestructive #haveaffair #controlyourself #feelpanic #intimatejourney #bodyismoreimportantthanbrain #crazyinlove

My friend’s a curious girl, she said she made many unnecessary purchases. Now she wants to be a smart person, because she always looked at her credit card transactions carefully and tries to avoid those unnecessary purchases. #controlyourself #wowdress #curiousgirl #lookchic

Eating disorders, mental & physical problems, and… eat to make others happy? Some people said their eating behaviors is driven by eating to make others happy; others said eating disorders cause mental and physical problems, especially for younger ages. So the questions are: If eating disorders cause many problems, including anxiety, depression, why it thrives in secret in social parties? #eatingbehavior #nothappy #mentalhealth #anxiety #depression #controlyourself

Without Distraction: My friend is a law officer who just bought a house and wanted to celebrate. He said when he and his girlfriend on the bed, he didn’t want any distraction, but her girlfriend still talking on the phone sometimes, which made him not happy, so he told her that he hates distraction on bed, he even said her: don’t seeing your friend, don’t answering the door. #hateloverelationship #machoman #controlyourself #gutinstinct #somethingtrivial #legendarymoment #neversaynever #loveformoney #sextool #addictedtosex

A guy said he lost his control, which made his girlfriend leave him; he said he’s a hot-headed person and has an emotional outlet. When in retrospect he thinks his self-sabotage is the reason he made bad decisions, which let him make the first step to change himself: he decided to quit smoking, but he keeps buying cigarettes. #selfsabotage #controlyourself #dating #marriage #divorce #thingsjusthappened #exlover

People are now more sensitive about many things, they are angry when someone asking them about their clothing sizes, or fitness routine. They also encounter offensive questions such as their weight, eating habit, cosmetic work. After pandemics, there are more social taboos, such as body shape, sexual history, together with other words such as face, eyes, full-figure. So, they said anything related to those words means rude, distasteful, invasive and uncomfortable, even being bullying, abusive, toxic criticisms. #offensivequestions #eatinghabit #fitnessroutine #cosmeticwork #socialtaboos #bodyshape #feellonely #spiritualworld #machoman #controlyourself #lowIQ